Can girls be more comfortable with anal than vaginal if their guy is long?

I recently dated a small woman, only 4 foot 11 inches. My erection is over 7" long, so perhaps not a perfect match as sex partners. Sex was awkward as she seemed to be over-penetrated in most positions, even when she was really turned on and lubed up. The head of my cock is really bulbous and she couldn't fit much at all in her tiny mouth either, and after a short while her jaw would cramp and her teeth would catch in the rim of my cockhead. So when she guided me to her asshole I thought she was nuts, but with lube and after getting well warmed up by taking it short and slow, she could take my whole length, balls deep. Whereas I'd felt like I'd been stabbing the end of her vagina, her rectum seemed to be 'bottomless'. Is this weird or have other couples had this situation?

It makes perfect sense. The vagina is closed off at the top by the cervix and while the vagina will stretch length and width ways a certain amount, it has a finite capacity.

Going up the bum is different because the lower GI tract is segmented off by sphincters (valves) that allow things to pass through. If your dick is more than big enough for her rectum, it can pass through the sphincter at the top of the rectum into the sigmoid colon.

Oh definitely. I can take a cock way deeper in the ass.

Yeah length wise its easier rectally since there is no cervix the vagina can take more width comfortably though 😃

Regardless of size, an erect penis can work wonders. Even if a woman enjoys anal, she’ll likely have a very smooth and pleasant experience if she’s well-lubed, relaxed, and the guy is gentle going in. It seems like there are so many nerves in the rectum, causing it to be sensitive to pain and pleasure, maybe even more than the vagina. At least for some women.

It was very pleasurable for my wife, and not painful. Never had an issue and we both loved anal.

I was with a woman ; short relationship, she was petite and had cancer removal surgery on her Vagina so I literally couldn't get two fingers inside.

She fully explained all of this pre-sex, it was probably the oddest conversation I have ever had on a date!

She casually explained that her Vagina was pretty fucked up by a cancer operation and she was lucky to have survived, but her Clit was intact and I would only be able to have Annel sex and was that ok with me?

So sweet, and fabulous sex ensued!

Not a woman, but a trans guy, so same parts lol. Yeah, anal can definitely be more comfortable for long dicks. Vaginas are limited in length, rectums/intestines are basically not

Seven inches? I would take that down any hole like a Tic Tac. I prefer anal so pop it in there.

@Bad_Princess Yeah! 😜

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My wife can take the maximum of my 7 inches (18 cm) in her vagina. The length-accommodation capacity of her rectum is another matter. Other than an enema nozzle inserted perhaps 4 inches (10 cm), the only longer foreign object she has had in her rectum is my 7-inch winky. Surely she could handle something longer than 7 inches, but she has no interest in finding out.

When my wife pegs me anally, she uses dildos that are 8 to 14 inches (20 to 36 cm).

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It depends on the woman. A fully erect small penis, is probably a better performer than a long and limp one. And like anything, skill matters more than mere possession. I’m also assuming that human anatomy is universally similar.

Going deep during anal sex isn't a problem as other have described the rectum and colon provide space for a long penis. As long as the receiver has an empty rectum and possibly cleaned themselves out with enemas or shower shots, there is lots of room to accommodate a long penis.

The main issue for most receiving a penis is the girth of the penis which is where pain can occur if the penis has large girth.

Long and slender penises are prefect for anal sex.

I dated a guy with a really large cock for a bit right after my divorce. I never measured him nor asked the size but it was big. I had trouble with him bottoming out during sex, yes. There were some positions that were just a no. We did woman on top a lot so I could control how deep he went. I would NOT have let him in my ass.

Currently I’m having sex with hubby and occasionally a FWB. Both are average in length erect but hubby is thicker. I do indeed prefer anal with the thinner cock. They’re the only two who have fully penetrated my ass so I have no idea how deep it can go.

@ProV1

Long and slender penises are prefect for anal sex.

I fully agree!

So how big is too big? Beginning in Junior High I heard stories about someone telling a boy that he was too big. I always thought that it was Urban Legend. However in college one night one of the girls in the house got her hand on some porno movies. One had a character named Johnny Wad (John Holmes ) in it. It was the consensus of the girls that indeed he was too big. I've often wondered what you would do if you fell in love with someone built like that. What would be you options?

@Nurse_Phillips When I was young, a girlfriend, during our first sex session, commented that I was "thick" (she even added "my previous boyfriends were Asians", yes I know that's cliché) and we had difficulties in missionary (I think I was nervous and did not want to hurt her). I asked her to go on top.

The difficulties did not last beyond the first few times.

Also, I learned that in some positions I would hit somewhere unpleasant inside.. I just avoided them.

long and slender penises are prefect for anal sex.

Odd that the porn industry just doesn't seem to adhere to such a basic fact ... ha ha

I think @agracier has a point about long slim penises being suited to anal fucking. When I was a teen & vain enough to measure mine I managed almost a full 8" erection but never much more than 1 1/4" thick which would seem to meet the requirements outlined here. The only thing I never found at that time was a girl who would let me fuck her anally. Perhaps it is more mainstream now or maybe I just wasn't meeting the right girls? I did however have the odd complaint about my length especially with one woman who refused to let me fuck her from behind as it "went too deep & hurt something inside" 😞

I haven't measured my hubby's but it is a bit longer than from the tip of my longest finger to the bottom of my palm. Long enough to bottom out. Not crazy thick but enough that there's not really such thing as a quickie in our house. I can't take a proper fucking doggy style or laid on my back with my legs back, its too much. If we do that it has to be slow. But I love to get on top and sit down as far as I can and then just roll my hips and squeeze him. If I lean forward just enough to grind my clit against his pubic bone I can get myself off that way and usually he can last as long as it takes me. Well, as long as I'm not giving him too much dirty talk.😂 If I want it hard then missionary is better, and laying on my belly with my legs together is best. Taking him deep in the backdoor still takes a lot of time to build up to and he still needs to go slow but it feels amazing especially with my bullet at the same time.

Odd that the porn industry just doesn't seem to adhere to such a basic fact ... ha ha

Maybe we need a porno video titled "Love Is A Long and Slender Thing."

Great Comment Ddell, I couldn’t help but laugh!

Likewise @ddell2 Made me chuckle too. 😄