Curious about "female enema lovers"

Interested in hearing from women who enjoy enemas what makes you like and enjoy enemas? For us men the pressure on the prostate - at least to me - gives the special and unique pleasure. But how about women? Does the water affect the G-spot? I am seriously interested, both for my own knowledge and for the sake of my beloved Miss M, who is in the beginners (but a bit suspicious) stage of enemas… You men with experience are also welcome to share your knowledge about how water in the butt satisfies your (female) partners.

I love the feeling of the nozzle insertion, warm water going in and love the expelling

Well for me, it is multiple things l believe. It is the anticipation, the preparation, the insertion of the nozzle or tube, the filling and holding then the blessed release. Even if it is a solo excursion, l always think about getting my enema for a bit before l begin to put it together. My pulse quickens while l am mixing the solution, whether it be just plain water, soap mixture or salt n soda.

Then l contemplate which nozzle or tube l am going to be using. Then up on the bed l go. Assume my position, on my side, back or butt up. Then comes the lubing of myself. 1 finger, 2 fingers, sometimes 3 if l am feeling really naughty!!! Then in goes the delivery system. Deep, slow, smooth and here comes the beloved water!!!

I feel my belly swelling, pressure, slight cramps. More pressure, making me wet. Sometimes l act on it, sometimes not. Depends on if l am planning on more bags, or just this 1.

I hold it for as long as possible, sometimes with a plug, or if l am using an inflatable nozzle or 1 of my larger nozzles, let it do its job.

Then time for the release. Move myself to our bathroom. I sit, then remove the nozzle and let it go. Sometimes its now l act upon my earlier feelings and as lm expelling, lm rubbing myself or using an electronic associate to the blessed climax of the event!!!

And this is just by myself. Then there is all the fun l have when with others to help me along my way!!!

Interested in hearing from women who enjoy enemas what makes you like and enjoy enemas? For us men the pressure on the prostate - at least to me - gives the special and unique pleasure. But how about women? Does the water affect the G-spot?

To answer your question, I would say the enema manages to tickle my G-spot much in the same way as you get a thrill out of it hitting your prostate. However, like @paula mentioned, there are a myriad number of things that stir my enjoyment of enemas. The insertion of the nozzle into my rectum feels absolutely delicious! I'm anal erotic and the penetration sets the stage for everything that follows. The incumbent fullness and warmth of the enema solution just flips all my switches and makes the session all the more pleasurable.

Although we may not be built the same, we ladies also have very similar receptors that reveal very similar sensations to us as they do to you.

As you introduce your Miss M to enemas, let her take them at her own pace. Enemas, more especially the enjoyment of enemas, is an acquired taste and something that comes with good experiences.

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

As you introduce your Miss M to enemas, let her take them at her own pace. Enemas, more especially the enjoyment of enemas, is an acquired taste and something that comes with good experiences.

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

@debgurl That is really good advice!!!

A feeling of physical well-being and a mind-clearing emotional release that I get from a good enema can be very satisfying. Also sexual? Absolutely, especially with my husband is my giving partner, and over time he knows my favorite "touch zones" which take my mind off discomfort and turn an enema into a pleasurable experience when the hormones are kicking in. I'll bet that couples who give each other enemas when they're ill or feeling out of sorts make love more often and have fewer divorces.

Just a quick perhaps non mainstream male perspective. I'm a ~69 years old retired physician, and also a straight male switch who loves both enemas and taking them as a sub from my Domme partner. And as I've written before, there's very little other than too many cramps or leaking that I don't like about enemas, and my usual recreational enema for arousal is a large (4-5 quarts) long-retained (~30-60 minutes) one mixed with my other kinks.

But I also love prostate massage and have done it enough to know what feels good about it.

So my perhaps atypical comment on enemas is that except for the occasional enema where my latex DBC or nozzle head actually pushes on my prostate (which is easy to tell), for me the prostate stimulation feels pretty minimal and I just enjoy all the other enema sensations including the densely innervated (and thus very pleasurable) anus and rectum. For other men, YMMV. I'm not trying to rain on anyone male's parade here, just contributing my 2¢ that my love of enemas is rarely if ever because of noticeable prostate stimulation.

Eric

Deb said: Enemas, more especially the enjoyment of enemas, is an acquired taste and something that comes with good experiences.

I believe this to be generally true, and since I got enemas from mom from as early as I can remember and learned to like them, it seems to be the case with me. But you hear stories in places like this where someone (male or female) gets an enema and likes it instantly. My wife was an enema virgin when we got married, and I dreamed of giving her an enema and having her adopt the enema as one of her favorite playtime activities. It didn't happen that way so then I tried the acquired taste approach, gently coaxing her to try different positions and volumes hoping to find that sweet spot where she wants another one, just like that one. I tried to be gentle, used only plain warm water or just a bit of castile soap and stopped when she said she was full, but after at least six times over a couple of months, she decided she would give me an enema when I "needed" one since I obviously enjoyed it but she was not going to take any more herself. Although we never had a messy accident, she said the fear of having one kept her from enjoying it. We all want that fairy tale ending but it does not always work out.

I can relate to RedBulb99, as I too found that my wife did not enjoy enemas the way I did and do. She too tried enemas a couple of times, but then said no more because she just didn't enjoy them. Unlike RedBulb99, I wasn't fortunate enough to have my wife administer my enemas. I ended up being a solo enema taker for all the years we were together. I will continue to savor the experiences I have had because from childhood on they have been pleasurable, filling, and fulfilling.

Read my postings

I think you can piece together my story.

My experiences mirror the other ladies responses below. With me, its all about the apparatus, soapy water, fullness, cramps, orgasms and an emotional release. And..... deep intimacy with my husband. You can get no closer sexually as a couple than getting or giving an enema.

The segment of the enema population that we can't hear from unfortunately are the women of stature that defined the "golden age" of enemas that have passed-on taking their sentiments towards family enemas with them- our mothers, aunts, grandmothers, etc. I often wondered what truly motivated them to be so dutiful as enema givers.

I'm guessing that intestinal sensation is one of the areas where there is more similarity than difference between the sexes.

@Emom,

And..... deep intimacy with my husband. You can get no closer sexually as a couple than getting or giving an enema.

That is not only perceptive, it's true. Whether I am giving (my favorite), or receiving, enemas are one of the most intimate and exciting things in my life. In many ways, it's sexier than actual intercourse--unless I'm having sex. Especially anal sex. In that, I'm always Dom, but would someday love to have a loving and kind woman massage my prostate internally once I'm fully clean.

Remember that no two people are alike!

My identical twins show completely different personalities.

With me, its all about the apparatus, soapy water, fullness, cramps, orgasms and an emotional release. And..... deep intimacy with my husband. You can get no closer sexually as a couple than getting or giving an enema.

@Moms_Egirl - My wife and I so agree with you. We share the whole experience, together, from insertion to release, and even cleaning up. Nothing like a hot bath after an enema, love making session 🌹

Thanks for sharing. I will respond when there is more time. Denise 😃

As a male, I really have no right to comment,

My sister, however, would often tell me why she loved enemas.

My Mom always used a Higginson syringe and my sister told me she loved the insertion, but really liked the sensations from the pumping of the syringe. She also admitted that she would get excited when she could smell the soap as Mom boiled water and shaved a bar of Castille soap into it.

Surprisingly she told me it wasn't until she was around 11 that she started to enjoy them.

My daughters call me a "clean freak" because I actually enjoy doing house work, especially on rainy days, and it rains a lot around here. If I could only get my husband to do more of the vacuuming! lol

My daughter Jen told me that I tend to say "cleanse" instead of "enema" -- like " I feel that I need a cleanse." Maybe that's portraying a more enjoyable, lady-like image than lying on the bathroom floor with an enema bag hanging over me. Enjoyable, I think that's the keyword in this story.

I nearly always add a little soap, either Conti Castile or Dr. Bronner's, so yes, Jen, I am actually doing a "cleanse." However, Jen is always been one to speak directly. "Mom, you're so grumpy lately. You should take an enema."

@Vicki_V Envy the kind of openness you have with your daughter… Interesting you are a “clean freak”…. I'm that way too, while my wife is not so much. Maybe it's good we are not since we've been married some 40+ years and something is working right… she is not into enemas, but is okay with my sexual proclivities… I wonder if most of us who are into enemas are also clean freaks - the two traits seem related, no?

I have earlier replied to a similar thread so I will just echo what I wrote then . A sincere ‘ shout out ’ an thank you to all you ladies for again sharing your personal and candid thoughts with other members on this site . My mother and I had over the years some very candid ‘ enema discussions ’ in the privacy of our home when we were not engaged in an enema activity . Mom was not shy to share her affinity for the give / receive roles of an enema . As I matured , and especially when I was a young adult at home from college during semester breaks , she would with a sweet hug ‘ thank me ’ for keeping our enema time active as she indicated all made her feel so needed . And indeed you were as all was in our home and mom - son relationship a ‘ win - win ’ activity as she loved to give and I just as much loved for her to do so . Back in that day my mother had other women in her life who seemingly were always available to administer a cleansing enema sometimes even for her ‘ constipation ‘ .

I just hope that when my daughter gets a little too curious about enemas, she will have the strength to talk to me instead of trying it herself.

I certainly won't slam her the way my Dad's mom did to him. I will validate her feelings, and try to figure out how much help she really needs from Mom.

If she wants to do it herself, I want to be in the loop!

I find that when I take a hot enema (very,very warm) it gives my g-spot and cervix enormous pleasure during the flow. Add soapsuds to the water and you’re off to the races!!!

The female experience is in many ways very different than that of males. For one, and this is my experience, I learned that a warm enema was good for treating the symptoms of PMS. Perhaps the best answer is to think of it as an internal hot water bottle and how it calms down a uterus that is intent on the monthly shedding of its lining. If that is the immediate benefit, then relieving the constipation that many experience at that time has to be the second. Yes, some of us might get bound up and that does not help our disposition! Finally, there is the emotional release that enjoying a good enema will have because the hormonal cycle plays its own part in how we feel at that time of the month. I guess I have to say "What is there not to like?" I haven't had a menstrual period in nearly 10 years but still look forward to having a monthly enema. What else can I say?

I’m going to attempt to paint a comparison of an enema to a hot shower. I know come on Diane! No, I don’t think I am losing it, and I don’t do illegal drugs but hear me out. When I get up in the morning and my body is a little stiff from hitting too many golf balls, I love the feel of hot water hitting my stiff upper torso. It relaxes me as well as revives me. You get the picture.

The closest I got to an anatomy class in college was meeting a boy in front of the science building because the building was on the way to the pub that we were going to for beers. However, I do know that there are more nerve endings in the anus and rectum than the shoulder blades. Furthermore, the wall is very thin between the rectum and the vagina and I am sure that most know that there are a lot nerve endings in that passageway. So hot water flowing over nerve endings is going to be more stimulating in your anus and rectum other body parts with less nerve endings.

Now does an enema stimulate the G post. I love EMom’s description of the water tickling her G-spot. Heat radiates so the heat from the liquid of an enema is going to stimulates the G-sort indirectly like it directly stimulate the prostate in males. That's my story and I', sticking to it.

A hot water bottle or warming pad placed on her abdomen followed by a warm water enema given very slowly may be a woman’s most effective (and relaxing) PMS therapy when she is feeling crampy and constipated. (For safety, wrap the hot water bottle in a small towel. Nurse’s tip.)

Sometimes add a good “hormonal cry” and I’ve actually seen my daughter going from being totally miserable to running out the door for a date.

I like to discuss it, you can learn so many details and useful things that you didn't even know about.

An enema has absolutely zero affect on my Gspot but I really do love the feeling of being penetrated with the nozzle and then the tickling sensation of the water flowing inside me. That is highly stimulating in itself but then, add in the additional feelings of submission I get as I am positioned over my husbands knee to receive it and maybe spanked too. Then there's the question of what will occur after the enema? For me some kind of anal play is usually on the cards and what's not to love about that?!

For me it is a few things I love about enemas. For years I hated them until a girl moved in with me for two years. I can remember talking after sex one night and she asked why I don't like her putting anything in my butt. I told her I thought it was gross and what would the other person think if they felt something in me. She said, "have you ever felt anything in me?" I said no. She said that was because she does enemas. She asked me if I would help her with her enemas. She had been doing them when I was at work or basically sneaking them. I agreed to help and for weeks I would see her having these intense orgasms while I would be giving her enemas and or she was letting it out. Finally, I got up the nerve and asked her for help. She was like of course I will help you. The first couple of weeks all I got was 1/4 bag in me and no orgasm. I got 1/2 a bag the next few weeks and still no over-the-top orgasm. Then next few weeks I got 3/4 bag and still nothing but cramps. Then one time she was giving me an enema and I saw the bag was 3/4 empty. I said I was not going to tell her to stop. I closed my eyes and continued to let her finger me and lick my clit. All of a sudden I heard the bag slush like when it is empty and I had the best orgasm of my life. I only squirted a little out which is one of the things I was afraid would happen except it would be everything in me. After that she gave me a few more enemas to where I was totally cleaned out. I felt light and after everything was out I was not afraid to let her put her finger or anything in me. It was a lesson learned in getting clean. We did that a few times a week to each other. I love the feeling of the nozzle going in. We bought a few different nozzles. I have loved enemas ever since. Her now ex-husband ruined it for us. No we did not let him play with us. He had court papers drawn up stating her kids would have to be returned. I had just purchased my home so I could not leave. We tried to keep it going four states away but it just fizzled out. She found another girl.

Tabitha !!

Many thanks for your comment !! - it was also very readable to know about your experiences with that girl, but also sad to hear about your lost !!

Maybe there will be better times in the future !!

Kindly regards !!