What do you fantasize / dream about?

I don't dream about sex or sex fantasies. Wish I did. Back in 2019 I mentioned I sometimes dreamt about antagonistic reviews we used to have at work. There was a conference room dedicated for Program Management Reviews (PMRs) - it was named Program Managers Hell. I've been retired for 7 years, and unfortunately, I still occasionally have those mini-nightmares.

@gwhap “I've been retired for 7 years, and unfortunately, I still occasionally have those mini-nightmares.”

I too have been retired from teaching for several years! I can still count on a recurring nightmare sometime around the beginning of a new school year. It contains several of my ex students (always the most challenging ones behaviourally) in the same class even though they would actually be 30+ years apart in age. Their behaviour is at its cumulative worst as they “inspire” mutual behaviour issues. I am always being evaluated as a teacher by the principal (or someone else in charge of my job) seated at the back of the room writing copious amounts of notes. At some point I wake up in a panic and remind myself that I AM RETIRED!

My unguided and uncontrolled reams are nothing to write home about. Rarely are they fun. Mostly they are anxiety dreams about not having a clue about the answers to a school exam and being prepared to quit and drop out or showing up in class or at a social function wearing only a shirt and being totally naked from the waist down, while everyone is fully dressed. They happen often enough and they still bother me.

I did however have a fun dream about a week ago when somehow I was sitting on a bed with a lady tucked in. She was upset and and crying and I was going to comfort her in the ‘there, there’ pat on the shoulder manner, but somehow she came closer to me, pulled me down and my hands landed on her breasts. I apologized but she started kissing me firmly. I was surprised, especially when I looked at her and saw she was Kaley Cuoco/Penny (Big Bang Theory).

That was a nice one to remember which was probably triggered by seeing her play in 'the Flight Attendant'.

I don't dream about sex or sex fantasies. Wish I did. Back in 2019 I mentioned I sometimes dreamt about antagonistic reviews we used to have at work. There was a conference room dedicated for Program Management Reviews (PMRs) - it was named Program Managers Hell. I've been retired for 7 years, and unfortunately, I still occasionally have those mini-nightmares.

@gwhap,

Just curious. I thought you mentioned after your Navy career you were an engineer for decades, no? Was this nightmare job dream during an engineering job for the US government? What did you work on? If it was DoD or otherwise Classified, no problem.

I’m working on a reply to this thread, part fetish fantasies, part better mental and family health.

Eric

@ericmacson

I was a Navy pilot for 6 years back in the early 70's. After I got out I worked for an Aerospace company, we did contracts with most of the 3-letter gov't agencies. Started out as an engineer designing communication systems, then got “promoted” into program mgt. Pay was much better, but certainly the work was not as much fun. The Engineering was fun and creative, the Management part not so much. After a few years, I got moved up again and had several program managers reporting to me. We had financial goals and were graded on “meeting our numbers”, which took a lot of fun out of the job. Program Mgt Reviews were basically how can you expand your contracts to get more Booking, Sales and Profit. Lots of fights with Engineering and Financial managers.

Rege-Jean Page, William Jackson Harper, playing violin at Carnegie Hall and Ireland.

I have often fantasised going back to my tweeny days just before puberty that is incontinent and a supporting parent that constantly nappies you with love with a junior sized Huggies or Pampers.

The body would be shapely woman but sized to a child, not dwarf-like

The dream that is really not meant to be. I would have the ability to dna clone anyone and my current partner would love Karen Carpenter. Then on my bosses birthday she would ask for me to sing her one of the Carpenters songs at which time I would shape shift into the famous singer and go to work on pulling some tears from my love ones eyes. Quite possibly one of the most listened to songs “Unchained Melody”, I would shape shift to Bobby Hatfield and sing myself to tears.

My fantasy is one to lose my v-card, but to find someone who is willing to try all my kinks at least once. Once I tell someone what I like they always ghost me. I know I like weird things but you can at least tell me you don’t want to talk anymore. I’ve never gotten to try any of the weird stuff in real life but I know based on videos I want to at least try it. There are a few I’ve seen in real life and can confirm I like.

I often dream about the incredible sex my wife and I used to have. Recently, we've reignited that at a totally different level. But it’s still good.

I can't remember my dreams in detail. I only remember the minute or so before I wake up to go to the bathroom. Some have been so intense that I believe I had an orgasm. I don't know what to do to try to remember more. A well-known quarterback was in one of my dreams. I remember we were having sex, I feel like I had an orgasm, then I woke up to go to the bathroom. I hope I never have this type of dream about people I work with.

My topless dreams are so boring. Although my topless body always looks like I looked when I was 30 yrs younger and 75 lbs lighter. No one is touching me or acting like it's strange that I'm also wearing long pants. Sometimes I'll be riding on a bus or train. Then it's bathroom time and I wake up.

If I go to bed with a stomach ache, I'll dream about a wild animal chasing me. I wake up before it catches me which means I need to go to the bathroom. I wouldn't mind dreaming about wild animals chasing certain people I work with.

Multiple female doctors & nurses examining me from top to bottom, with one doctor/nurse constantly checking my heartbeat with her stethoscope.