Nipples and sexual arousal

A long time ago, l reported on Zity how l had read that - contrary to some people's belief - there is no nerve connection between nipples and genitalia. Therefore, to stimulate the nipples is, at best, a roundabout way of arousing someone. Perhaps, though, it can do so by association of ideas. Just today, after a pleasant phone conversation with a nice-looking lady acquaintance, l noticed that my nipples were firmer than usual! And of course we know that it is generally true that the nipples stand up during sexual arousal.

Would anyone like to add anything to the above observations? By all means mention any unorthodox arousal methods!

- Ken

I've never checked, but if no direct neural connection from nipple to genitalia, in fact my nipples are so sensitive to touch including licking that you can still feel the nipple brushing or flicking or rubbing which can elicit a desire for sexual stimulation. This just like me - gently brushing or licking my nipples FEELS LIKE there's a direct neural connection to my genitalia, but I'd not be surprised to learn that it just felt good and the sensation made me want sexual contact. In fact, I tell my partner to not do it too long or I'll practically jump their bones. If she's got me restrained, especially using some of my other kinks as well, I'll enjoy it briefly but then tell or more likely beg her to stop or give me an orgasm.

Eric

It's all to do with the area of the brain that gets stimulated from stimulation of the nipples. The male genital senses onto an area of the brain called the medial paracentral lobule, and is the same for women as well. Stimulation of the nipples for both males and females travels to the same part of the brain as sensations from the genitals .So while there is no nerve connection between nipples and genitalia , it's the area in the brain that receives the signals and produces the erogenous feelings.

I much apprecate the two knowledgeable responses so far to my original post. 🙂

- Ken

It's all to do with the area of the brain that gets stimulated from stimulation of the nipples. The male genital senses onto an area of the brain called the medial paracentral lobule, and is the same for women as well. Stimulation of the nipples for both males and females travels to the same part of the brain as sensations from the genitals .So while there is no nerve connection between nipples and genitalia , it's the area in the brain that receives the signals and produces the erogenous feelings.

Hi. Thanks for looking that up or your prior knowledge base. I only looked one place so far which wasn't detailed enough, so would you mind telling me where you found that data for both genitalia and nipples? Was it a British rather than American source? I have no doubt you're right, but it's an interesting topic to me and I'd like to read a bit more. Thanks,

Eric

BTW you seem about 10-15 years younger than I, so I hope you're still getting plenty of Medial Paracentral Lobule stimulation.

I never thought that my nipples were all that sensitive, and they never really added to my arousal. Sure, my wife would half-heartedly rub them sometimes, but she'd lose interest in playing with them way too soon (as she did with everything sexual).

But then I entered the world of occasional BDSM play with other men, and that changed things for me. I remember one of the first times I was in bondage (stripped to a jockstrap, standing spread-eagle with arms and ankles in spreader bars), one of the guys that started to spank and generally play with me said that a lot of guys like their nipples to be played with. I think my answer to him was "that wasn't really my thing." I was wrong. He (and others) started to rub, squeeze and generally play with my nipples which immediately caused me to get rock hard (well, OK, I was probably already rock hard but the nipple play definitely added to it).

Since then I've played one-on-one with a few Doms, and they all love to torture my nipples. They'll squeeze mine and use clothes pins and nipple clamps on them, and then enjoy the reaction from my hard cock.

And they all like to have their nipples "serviced" too. There's nothing quite like being stripped, collared and blindfolded with my ankles cuffed together and my wrists cuffed behind my back, then pulled into my Dom's chest and told to suck his nipples. I even had a session where I was one of two subs and our Dom had both of us working on is nipples at the same time, one on each side. On that occasion we also took turns with one of us sucking his nipples and the other kneeling in front of him working on his cock! Such fun.

I can't wait for this virus to be over.

My nipples have always been very pleasantly sensitive to licking and finger rubbing or flicking or suction, so 1) light stimulation immediately arouses me and can push me over the edge into an orgasm if I'm trying to have one, and 2) you nerd to be quite gentle when pinching or clamping them. In fact I frequently have a fantasy (or do it IRL when I have a partner) about my Domme ex pushing many of my fetish buttons at once with dressing me in latex and sneakers, cuffing me and giving me anal plugs or enemas. After that, she starts flicking my nipples and has me explain to her how it feels, which is that it feels great and is pushing me towards an orgasm I want. However, at the same time, needing to have the impending orgasm while filled with enema is difficult because the impending orgasm takes my concentration off keeping the enema inside! A very lovely predicament, actually.

Eric

My nipples have always been very sensitive,and i love having them played with gently or rough,adds to the intensity of my orgasms