This wrist-band discussion is an interesting lesson on how to be "Good, Giving, & Game."
To me, just personally, the wrist-band is nothing more than an annoying bit of bureaucratic plastic.
But when I read about someone having a "huge fetish" for them, then, OH YEAH, that little piece of info definitely gets filed away in the back of my mind, and I start think about getting the wrist-bands and wrist-band printer, and having them ready to go. 😉
(If it works for Jake, it works for me!)
Now, the wrist is certainly sensitive. TAKING A DUDE'S PULSE . . . now that's a pretty intense level of intimacy. (My favorite is carotid, below jaw!)
Because it's a direct window into how turned on, the dude is. How aroused he is. Like a polygraph.
If doing a FUN EXAM, after taking the guy's pulse by wrist, I would, uh, keep going in that direction with some additional exercises.
"The next time you feel pressure on your wrist, you will close your hand into a fist, and count slowly, and then release when you feel the pressure on your wrist release."
(Then put fingers on pulse-point; dude makes a fist, and counts, slowly, "1,2 3...." until I take fingers off pulse-point.
Train him on that a few times, with count going to different numbers, 1,2 . .. or 1 . .2 3.4.5.6.7. or whatever.
POINT IS, to get the guy responding AUTOMATICALLY to physical cues. And for him to PAY ATTENTION to when to start and when to stop. It's all about getting him to turn over control of his body.
Then, "The next time you feel pressure on you wrist, you will feel a ticklish sensation running the inside of your arm, all the way to your arm-pit, which will feel all buzzing and ticklish. The only way to keep control of that feeling will be to clamp down hard with the muscles of your arm."
(Then do the thing of training him to respond by putting pressure on wrist, and having him count out loud. He doesn't know when it will start, or when it will stop. But for some reason, ticklish feelings in the arm-pit are VERY suggestible.)
#3 "The next time you feel pressure on your wrist, you will feel like you're getting punched in the stomach; you will say "Ohhh" very softly, and your abs will contract. Hold for as long as you feel the pressure."
Then train him again; he doesn't know when it will start, or when it will stop, but his body is more and more trained to respond automatically to the stimulus.
#4 "The next time you feel pressure on your wrist, you will feel like you're getting spanked on your buttocks. You will feel the blood flow, the blush, the pain and humiliation. You will say "OWWW" very softly. Your backside will tense up, and your body will lurch forward a little."
The key thing here is that the IMAGINED spanking is (I dunno why) so much more erotic than the real spanking.
It's the pleasure of WAITING . . . for the build-up . . . as the guy IMAGINES how it will feel to get spanked.
THEN BOOM, just a little pressure on the wrist, and the guy has to IMAGINE it and say Owww.
OF COURSE, the best part is tracking the different pulse rate, in order to be able to judge which of these activities is leading to increased pulse-rate.
#5, "A guy has strong muscles down there in his private parts. Can you contract the muscles that control the flow of urine for me? Can you contract the muscles between your buttocks for me? (Let him practice this voluntarily.) OK, the next time you feel pressure on your wrist, there are going to be involuntary contractions of your ejaculation muscles and anal muscles. You are going to say UNNGGGG, very softly, but very intensely."
This is . . . deep, because it's like you're pretty much taking control of the guy's most private body parts and physical experience, and marking it out as belonging to the examiner, and not to the guy being examined. Which is, if you like that kind of thing, HOT.
---1970's boy.