Did your Pediatrician pat your belly and say good boy or girl

Did your Pediatrician pat your belly and say good boy or girl

Mine did after my genital / Belly exam !

No but the one time the doc said I was overweight, he patted me on my chubby tummy, while I was standing on the scales wearing only my briefs, and told my mother that I needed to lose some weight there.

Did your Pediatrician pat your belly and say good boy or girl?

Absolutely NOT.

That is a very patronizing thing to do.

Even as a youngster I would not have tolerated that sort of response.

As an adult, I never liked when a doctor held my arm, rubbed my shoulder or anything else as "reassurance" or to build personal contact. I am not shy about being touched and I like it when I know you. In sexual situations I'm likely to let you touch me anywhere and do just about anything you want with my body. My body has been handled by MANY people, several classmates in nursing school practicing physical diagnosis for real, not play as well as many sex partners. If you want to show support to me in a medical situation all you have to do it talk and explain. Keep your grubby hands off unless you are taking my pulse.

Actually, in my fantasies, I _LIKE_ the doctor to be patronizing towards the female patients. This OF COURSE includes the doctor patting the gynecological patient's inner thighs after pulling out of her vagina any saying something like "Good Girl, we're done. You may lower your legs."

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No never. I have had the pat on the rear after a shot. Hearing good girl then is of little consolation!

What? Hah no they didn't.

No, never my belly. He did pat me on my butt or upper thighs a few times after he was done with my exams. Completely embarrassing and humiliating; also part on my issues now.

Never had this happen

I never had this happen, I have had my arm rub

My pediatric neurologist always patted my head a lot of times he rubbed it for a minute too.

I've gotten into fights when adults have done that to me when I've asked them not to.

I really enjoy it when I'm giving a blowjob.

I'm kind of glad to hear I'm not the only patient to receive a butt pat from his/ her pediatrician after the genital check. I still think it strange especially when I was 16. I just figured he was a pervert.

No but my cpap doctor patted my belly once and said "oh you are a total buddha" heh

I remember my paediatrician, who usually came into the room when i was already lying on the table and he first greeted my mom, came to me then and squeezed hardly my belly with his whole hand and asked me how i felt in my belly like "how is yur stomach? Are you nausea again?" (i often had bad abdominal problems at that time). And I often felt bad and nausea in my stomach then...

I would have been mortified if my pediatrician did this to me in front of my parents! It was bad enough already with them seeing me naked and with an erection. He was a very nice guy though and he tried to not be condescending (although it didn’t always work) so I doubt he would do this to any of his patients.

No, but one did tickle my bellybutton at the end of the exam. A few times it was a pat on the shoulder or upper back.

After a buttocks shot he pattef softly on my hip and itwas quite humiliating. Often after a complete genital exam before permitting me to dress the assistant patted my belly saying the doctor just finished and smiling for my embarassement. It happened also the doctor after the prepuce retraction patted my inner thight or belly/navel. This apparently was for reassuring the disconfort of the genital contact was finished.

I think even back then I would have gone all Will Smith on a doc who did that.

I was an overweight kid with high blood pressure and at my exams my doctor during the abdominal part of the exam would pat my stomach and say I needed to excercise a bit more

No, but after a shot in the buttock a nurse patted my butt and said it one time, lol.

Never had my belly patted but have experienced a pat on my shoulder when told to stand up and remove my briefs, and a pat on my bare bottom during a temp or after a shot.

I don't think she did that after an exam but I think a few times after a shot she said that and gave me a sticker or something

Not my pediatrician has ever done this. I'm grateful she didn't.

However, one of the nurses who gave me injections patted my bare buttocks before the injection, saying: good boy.

On the other hand, a friend of mine said that she was being slapped by a doctor, but not by a pediatrician. When she was a young woman, she was examined by a senior gynecologist. The medical examination was carried out professionally. However, after the examination, when she was still with her feet in the stirrups, the doctor patted her. He took off his gloves and patted her thigh saying: it's all right.

She didn't like it and eventually changed the gynecologist. She said she felt humiliated by this. The examination was necessary, and she agreed with him. However, the moment when she was undressed and the doctor was patting her thigh was very unpleasant for her.

In the disability world we are often treated as if we are unstable and need to be kept calm. Nothing abusive jusr slightly patronizing.

I had a doctor pat my belly in my 30s and call me a little buddha, I think most people would be offended but I actually kinda enjoyed it *huff*

During one exam my pediatrician rubbed or massaged my abdomen for what seemed like a long time, but was probably only a few seconds. He then pushed really hard into my navel with a finger. It only happened once, and at the time I didn't dare ask what he was doing. My mother was probably in the exam room with me, but it was set up in such a way that the table was against the wall, the parent chair was opposite, and the doctor's body blocked my mother's view of my torso when I was lying on the table.

At the end of the exam (just after the genital exam), he'd ask me to hop off the table and bend over to my knees while he checked for scoliosis. After he saw what he needed, he'd tap me on the butt and say "all right, all good there!"

It was a bit strange..

He didn't say good boy but I loved getting my belly pat

I remember one pediatrician patting my back after my physical saying, "you did a good job. All done." and he patted my belly once that I remember, but he said, "ok, turn over for me."

The female pediatrician I saw from age 9 or 10 on when she was done with the genital exam would pat me on the side of my butt cheek and say ok all done very good now you can get up and put your underwear back on. After the first time I knew that meant to gather my clothes after putting my underwear on and go out into the little waiting area outside the door and get dressed while she talked with my step mother. Once I hit puberty they reversed and I was allowed to get dressed in the room while they stepped out to her office and I went to the waiting area after I was dressed.