Observation

It seems most adult diaper users on these sites are men. These men most seem to want a 'mommy';yet they also seem to prefer pictures of diapered women. A majority of the men are straight, yet many like 'sissy' diapers, panties, baby dresses, etc. Are these men looking at the pictures and 'projecting', is there something about the innocence of women that draws, do men wish they could dress in 'fancier' clothes (once upon a time they did). It is hard to know if the reverse is so for women as they seem fewer in numbers and quieter about their interests. (yes, I know, it may be self preservation as women who identify as such apparently get many more, shall we say, unwanted overtures. Just curious about other's thoughts.

After thinking on this I came to the conclusion that the female/sissy aspect of diapers all boils down to a desire to be dominated and humiliated. Diapers are inextricably woven into my psyche. Everything else just heightens that experience. When I was young we had a house full of sisters. Countless times I was threatened with dresses diapers and treatment like a little girl. This went along with a healthy dose of ridicule. The threats had the desired effects and kept me on the straight and narrow as far as dad was concerned.

I had a desire to wear diapers and rubber pants from an early age. As far back as I can remember. So when the diapers were invoked there was an odd chill/thrill that went thru me. It wasnt till much later that I realized that the chill was actually sexual. ( Hard to believe I was a perve at 5 lol) Anyways when puberty hit the hormones got quenched with my stash of diapers and plastic pants. When I fantasized, my dreams got more and more involved and the more dominating/humiliating the scenario, the better the orgasm was. When I got out on my own I kept looking to raise the high of massive orgasms. Strangely, the idea of being forced into little girls clothes, diapered and ridiculed for my errant behavior was intoxicating. The thoughts of being dressed in a babies party dress and forced to wet myself in front of a powerful female authority figure consumed me. For hours I'd dream of this scenario. the girly baby clothes were merely props for the enforced punishment of the matriarch.

I too really enjoy lovely women in diapers. Disposables don't seem to do much for me, but a women in thick cloth diapers showing under a puffy pair of plastic pants rates a 10 for me. Being hetero, I enjoy seeing a beautiful women. The diapers just seem to add another level of desire to it. This again I attribute to the darker fantasies of my mind. Sort of being reminded that if I dont behave properly, I too will end up like her in diapers. She's a shining example of what will happen to me if I fail to do as I'm required to. I really dont desire to be female. But I do crave the crushing dominance and humiliation of a powerful women.

I guess it is a case of what is available. I like to see men being nappied (diapered) by strong women, but pictures of men in nappies on their own do nothing for me. I like pictures of beautiful women and I like pictures of nappies. Like @metoo I have no desire to be female, but the idea of beng mothered/nursed as a little boy turns me on.

I believe that there are just as many females into this fetish. I just think females are more reserved about revealing it.