Bi When Dressed

Here's the thing, normally when I'm in my regular male attire I have no interest in bi activities. But, put me in a woman's girdle and bra and suddenly I'm open (both figuratively and literally) to all sort of activity with men! Over the years I've know other men, like myself, who in order to be with me, they have to be wearing something feminine. The garment might not even be all that feminine in my opinion, but it's what the think of it that matters - such as woman's yoga pants or spandex shorts that seem more unisex to me.

I wonder if "bi when dressed" might also be true for some women who need to wear items of male attire in order to turn on their bi interests. So, the question is - do others here need to be dressed in order to be bi?

Good question. I am not sure what to respond that can help the search to the answer. But before I started my transition I was still exploring my sexual self and I always thought I was gay or bi.

However I was dressed masculine and probably half the encounters with other man I was told I acted to feminine, which most gay man I dated didn't like. I've only had a few encounters where I was dressed en-femme but still in a male body, which I didn't like.

For me dressed in female clothing to be with a man was more like a turn off. After the clothes are taken off and my male part was visible I felt terrible.

Now I am 3 years post-op, with a vulva and 5 years on hormones, so my body is much more like a female (soft skin, breasts, scent and 100 things more) I am enjoying myself with man, since I don't feel gay and be myself, a trans woman.

Sorry if I talk to much... 😃

I cant answer from a female point of view, but the idea that being dressed a certain way will influence things is no doubt true. Mistress/doms often offer so called enforced bi activities which can be linked to feminisation.

Yes have played as a bi when dressed

At the risk of getting verbal punishment, I only "play" with other men when I have some kind of woman's clothes on. Particularly, panties and bra. The thought (for me) is that in order to "play" with other men, I need to be a female of sorts. Namely a sissy which I imply as a man whow is acts like a sissy. If that make sense at all.

I have the same feeling when I do house chores that have been traditionally female chores. When performing these activities, I always wear lingerie and or some other female clothing because (this is where I duck), after all.......It's woman's work (he ducks again).

.... I only "play" with other men when I have some kind of woman's clothes on. Particularly, panties and bra. The thought (for me) is that in order to "play" with other men, I need to be a female of sorts ...

Exactly what I was talking about - I am the same way. Thanks for replying!

…..put me in a woman's girdle and bra and suddenly I'm open (both figuratively and literally) to all sort of activity with men!

Reddevil,

I just discovered this thread and must say I agree with what you say. As a guy, I have worn girdles for years to support my severely arthritic back and to smoothen my somewhat flabby body after losing nearly 100 pounds about 15-20 years ago. My butt and belly were left very flabby with lots of saggy skin after the weight loss. At the time, I found girdles really helped my back and, yes, my general appearance. I could have opted for plastic surgery, but insurance would not have covered it. As a result, I have come to really like a girdle’s firmness and feel. Then, a few years ago, I developed prostate cancer and was put on various prostate meds and went through radiation treatments. As a result or this, I developed rather enlarged, feminine looking boobs (SIZE 42D !). As a result, I WEAR BRAS with my High Rise, Long Leg LEO brand MALE girdles! The radiation left me totally impotent and the only way I can now enjoy REAL sex with another warm body is to become a “bottom” and take a cock up my ass, which is something I’d love to do. I really think the bras, girdles and my VERY sensitive girly tits which I have acquired in recent years really have enhanced my feelings where I want a guy to fuck me doggy-style while he fondles and squeezes my ”natural” 42-Ds !!!

Oh yes , i am naturally bi, but as a I told a gay friend in college I wanted to wear lingerie when i sucked which i know was not a turn on for gay guys. In my mind one of the reasons I tried on my mother's stuff at late 12yo was confusion regarding being attracted do penises, wanting to be the woman in porn, and having a small dick too. Yes it made me that much more bi and more sub.

I'm bi sexual and I have know it since I realized that I was a sexual being. I like to dress up in nylons and a garter belt with panties and a bra with inserts and a dress on. Twice I have been with a man dressed up. The first time was at a hotel that he had rented and I showed up with a shirt and pants over my dress, nylons, panties and bra. When I came into the room he was completely dressed the same as me, shirt and pants.

After greeting each other I started by taking off my shirt and then my pants and stood there in my dress. I could see his cock bulging so I reached out to his cock and stroked it through his pants. I slid my hand up and down and then down through his thighs and reached up to his butt crack and felt him spread his legs.

I then reached out to his belt and undid it and then I unzipped him and pulled his pants down all the way to his ankles, in doing so I I got down on my knees and was face to face with his pink panties with lace on them. His huge cock was throbbing behind them. He put his hands on my shoulders and lifted first one leg and then the other so I could slip his pants off. I took my tongue and licked his cock through his panties and fondled his balls.

He reached down and helped me up so I was standing there in my dress and he reached down and pulled my dress up over my head and there I was, standing there with just my bra, panties and nylons and garter belt on and him in his pink panties. We embraced and rubbed our crotches together getting harder and getting pre cum soaking through our panties. I reached out and pulled down his panties and knelt down and took his shaft into my mouth and started sucking it and running my hands all around his crotch, slipping my hand between his butt crack feeling his legs spread.

We found the bed and laid down top to bottom and me in my finery and him naked did 69 with each other until completion. It was wonderful.

The second time was a bit different, he invited me to his house and he was more experienced and knew what he wanted…

Well, that is another story, let me know if you are interested in it.

I would love to read your nex story…

Hello Blanda, well the second time I was all dressed up and met with a man he invited me to his house and when I rang the door bell and the door opened I was surprised, pleasantly, but surprised. He was standing there all dressed up in a nice frilly dress I could see his nylons and his breasts firmly under his dress.

I came in dressed with shirt and pants over my dress. He invited me in to his living room and I said that I needed to join the party so I took off my shirt and pants and was standing there in my dress with my breasts perky. My dress was a little black dress clinging tightly to me. He offered me some wine and we sat and talked for awhile about what we liked to do and found out that we had similar likes. It was a great pleasure to relax in my dress with another man also all dressed up and talk about our feelings being men who liked to dress up in women's clothing and some of the experiences that we had with other men.

We finished our wine and went to his/ her bedroom. I reached to pull my dress up and over my head and he helped me with that. There I stood, no dress on, just my bra with inserts and panties and nylons and garter belt. I then helped him out of his dress and he was also then in only bra and panties, no nylons. Both of our cocks were big, hard and bulging through our panties and we reached out for each other's cock to stroke them.

I reached into his panties and pulled out his cock, it was as clean shaved as my own. He reached down and took off his panties and I did the same. We were naked except for our bras and me in my garter belt and nylons, both hard erect. We reached for each other's cock and started stroking. He then went to his knees and licked my shaved cock and played with my balls and then took his finger and moved it around my butt. Well, my legs moved apart all by themselves and then he put his finger in his mouth and then he went back to my butt and slipped it inside of me. That's when I moaned.

He asked if I wanted him to butt fuck me. Well I had certainty played with my own ass before but other than toys, I was virgin there and said that I was not sure if I (his cock) would fit in there without it hurting. He said that all it would take was to start slowly using a small dildo and then morning to a larger one and then to a larger one.

Well at this point I was so very gamed to try and said so. He brought out three different sized dildos and some k-y jelly. He was very gentle and started with the smallest and slowly moved to the largest one. All of this time I was bent over and he was sitting behind me and I could see in my mind just how I looked. Bent over with my arms on the night table my ass stuck out and my breasts hanging down and my cock rock hard with this man in his bra gently widening my butt hole. He finally said that when he takes the largest dildo out of me that the hole stays open and that he could penetrate me now easily and asked if I wanted him to do me doggie style or as a slut? After a moment's thought I said that I would like to try it both ways.

Well he stood up and grabbed me on either side of my butt and then stuck his cock into me slowly but by this time I was so lubricated inside and out that it didn't hurt at all. After a few short strokes he went in deep and then he started thrusting in and out. Then he reached around and started to stroke my cock. Well the feeling was outstanding and I wanted to cum and have him cum right then.

But I told him not to cum because I still wanted to try like a slut with my legs in the air and my breasts laying there on my chest. So we moved to the bed and I lay there on my back, he moves to kneel by my open crotch and takes my legs and puts them on his shoulders and I lift my hole up to him. He grabs hold of his cock and slips it once again into my ass. This time he goes slower to prolong it.

While he is moving in and out I'm watching his breasts bounce around and I can also see my breasts move around which was such a big turn on for me. He started to move faster and I started to stroke my cock in time with him. Not to long after we both came within moments of each other.

After that he invited me to take a shower with him and I said yes, I was sweating and had a lot of lubrication to remove. There wasn't much in the way of sex in the shower but we both cleaned each other's crotch and he toweled me so I did the same for him.

It was years ago and I haven't done it again, however I do think about it often. Maybe I'll get a chance to do so again.

By the way, when I was getting ready to go I first thought that I would just pick up my girlie clothes but decided that I wanted to drive back home wearing them and so I did. I put my shirt on but left the pants off. The bottom of my dress looked like a skirt.

Good memory!

Totally bi when dresses. Ive cum hands free when making out with a naked guy when I was wearing only panties and a camisole. I havent had many man on man experiencea but eveeyone Ive worn pantiea and cum prematurely.

I always prefer to be completely nude for sex with men. Total receptive for sex with men - always the woman with men. It just feels good. I love women but actually prefer sex with masculine men. At my age, i am a women when I am with women. I love all encounters with both! I've not gotten into makeup when in girl mode but want to try.

In my mid-teens, a neighbor boy and I would play around with each other, discovering our sexuality. Also about that time I was discovering my desires to be a girl. It wasn’t too long after that I felt that I might be bi. And yes,, it is so much more comfortable to be with a man when I am dressed as a woman. I have had a few encounters with men and I absolutely loved them, taking them into my mouth or receiving anal intercourse.

Yeah, I could certainly see that. When I'm in short shorts and flip flops I certainly feel a little more "explorative" than I normally might.

For me absolutely not. Because the men I tend to be bi with are not into cross dressers or anything like that.

For playdates with men, however, I tend to wear "sexy male lingerie" which translates to a jockstrap. In anticipation to be fondled in it and eventually stripped of it. At the very least being seen in it.

I feel the same way . When I dress in sexy lingerie I can't stop thinking about sucking a nice smooth cock.