Have you ever asked for a spanking?

No. But I look forward to the day I do. Haven't found that right person... or she hasn't found me.

Yes, I do ask for my spanking from my husband it is part of my domestic discipline we agreed on.

Whenever I am to be spanked I be standing in front of him bare bottom and ask him to spank me.

As I am standing bare bottom I have to tell him what I did wrong to deserve the spanking this is to let me know why I deserve to be spanked. As I know some friends of mine don’t even know why they are spanked and many a time they think they don’t deserve the spanking. Asking for my spanking makes me think especially when I need to tell him why I deserve the spanking it helps me to reflect what I have done. Asking for a spanking does make me feel like a naughty little child but in a way it makes me realise that I do deserve it.

Yes, I often ask my Husband to spank me. My girlfriend does a good job, but goes overboard sometimes GRRRR! He is the best. Most often, I receive the hand or the belt! For more exciting spanks, I am sent off to bring back a paddle or switch. Those are the best! He surprises me with the fly swater for an all-over swating. That's fun! I often bring it out and put it on the coffee table so everyone can have a swat.

Sort of. There were times when I misbehaved and knew I was eventually going to get caught and knew that when caught a sound spanking would be the result. So there were times when I would go to my Dad, confess my misbehavior upfront in the hopes that the spanking that would still be the result might be less severe than if I tried to hide it.

and was it less severe @Papa_Sam ?

I have occasionally asked for real punishments even though I didn’t break a rule - maybe I was feeling bad about something from the past, or just needed an emotional circuit closed. I do usually confess if I know I broke a rule and my girlfriend wasn’t around to see it. Sometimes this has manifested by me bringing her an implement and then bending over next to her.

@Dustin

"Sort of. There were times when I misbehaved and knew I was eventually going to get caught and knew that when caught a sound spanking would be the result. So there were times when I would go to my Dad, confess my misbehavior upfront in the hopes that the spanking that would still be the result might be less severe than if I tried to hide it."

>>and was it less severe @Papa_Sam ?

Hard to tell because I can't compare what I got to what I might have gotten. What I do know is that every trip over my father lap was most unpleasant as a spanking for a naughty boy should be. I always ended up bawling and with a very sore backside.

I never had the nerve to go through with it, but when I was 12-13 years old, I had recurring thoughts about asking my Mom to spank me, or at least try to hint or suggest that I deserved to get a spanking. Realistically, there was no way I’d have overcome the fear and embarrassment to actually go through with it, looking at it in hindsight. But in tween-mind logic I genuinely believed it was possible I could get spanked (I never got spanked).

It remains just in fantasy now, but I do like to imagine how it would have gone if somehow I’d found a way to ask. Of course, in this fantasy, I want to imagine that not only does Mom agree, she decides it will be a real punishment and I can’t change my mind or negotiate for a milder one, that she will do it as she she’s fit. A “be careful what you wish for” scenario.

And then I get my first ever spanking right then and there. 12 year old me to helplessly stand there, knowing this is my own doing, as she pulls my pants and underwear down, puts me across her knee, and spanks me hard, far past just my point of curiosity, until my read end is on fire, I’m crying my eyes out, and begging for it to stop. But I can’t stop it, I get a real spanking and really punished.

I’ve never outright asked for one, but I sure knew mouthing off was a one way street to getting one and sometimes I didn’t seem to stop 🤔

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Never from my parents.

Once from a friend on a sleepover. We actually alternated giving each other spankings.

All the time from my wife.

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I never asked for one as a child but any spankings then were really just a few on the spot slaps and stopped when I was quite young, so it would have been a very odd request and nothing that would have occurred to me back then.

My spanko interest was sparked during my school days and these days I do "need" to be soundly caned every now and then. I think of it as an itch that needs scratching. It's not a pleasant experience and I don't enjoy it but it's a need. So, in that context I do "ask" for it. I have a couple of disciplinarians who will deal with me if I ask... and I have just asked so will be getting it on Friday (26 Sep).

In a previous relationship my partner and I enjoyed role playing where he was the headmaster and I was a naughty schoolgirl.

Sometimes when he came home from work I'd be in my uniform, and, biting my lip, tell him I'd been a naughty girl.

That was all it took.

Imagining that I had the nerve to go through with this (I didn’t) when I was 12 years old, I write this note and slip it on Mom’s dresser for her to read in private, because I was too embarrassed to say it in person.

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Dear Mom,

I’m sorry about my bad attitude today at the mall and I’m sorry I kept acting up and made you mad. I’ve been thinking about what you said, that just grounding me isn’t doing anything because I keep acting up anyway. I thought a lot about it and I think you’re right.

I don’t mean to be bad, but I know I keep doing it. This is really hard to say and I’m really embarrassed. Ok, this is scary but I’m just going to say it. I think I deserve to get a spanking. I remember that time when I was smaller that you threatened to once, and it really stuck with me and I made sure to behave.

I was too embarrassed to ask in person so I leaving you this note. I’ll stay in my room and wait for you but I’m really nervous. Would you please let me know how you’re going to punish me soon?

Love,

Adam

Never needed to ask if found out I been misbehaving soon got spanking mums wooden kitchen spoon

On several occasions, I felt I let my girlfriend down. As such, I asked her to spank me which she did. I know she enjoyed it.

I never asked my parents for a spanking.

Yes. Recently asked a trusted play partner who was willing. Loved the experience but wonder how it would be different with a someone im romantic/intimate with.