Have you ever asked for a spanking?

No. But I look forward to the day I do. Haven't found that right person... or she hasn't found me.

Yes, I do ask for my spanking from my husband it is part of my domestic discipline we agreed on.

Whenever I am to be spanked I be standing in front of him bare bottom and ask him to spank me.

As I am standing bare bottom I have to tell him what I did wrong to deserve the spanking this is to let me know why I deserve to be spanked. As I know some friends of mine don’t even know why they are spanked and many a time they think they don’t deserve the spanking. Asking for my spanking makes me think especially when I need to tell him why I deserve the spanking it helps me to reflect what I have done. Asking for a spanking does make me feel like a naughty little child but in a way it makes me realise that I do deserve it.

Yes, I often ask my Husband to spank me. My girlfriend does a good job, but goes overboard sometimes GRRRR! He is the best. Most often, I receive the hand or the belt! For more exciting spanks, I am sent off to bring back a paddle or switch. Those are the best! He surprises me with the fly swater for an all-over swating. That's fun! I often bring it out and put it on the coffee table so everyone can have a swat.

Sort of. There were times when I misbehaved and knew I was eventually going to get caught and knew that when caught a sound spanking would be the result. So there were times when I would go to my Dad, confess my misbehavior upfront in the hopes that the spanking that would still be the result might be less severe than if I tried to hide it.

and was it less severe @Papa_Sam ?

I have occasionally asked for real punishments even though I didn’t break a rule - maybe I was feeling bad about something from the past, or just needed an emotional circuit closed. I do usually confess if I know I broke a rule and my girlfriend wasn’t around to see it. Sometimes this has manifested by me bringing her an implement and then bending over next to her.

@Dustin

"Sort of. There were times when I misbehaved and knew I was eventually going to get caught and knew that when caught a sound spanking would be the result. So there were times when I would go to my Dad, confess my misbehavior upfront in the hopes that the spanking that would still be the result might be less severe than if I tried to hide it."

>>and was it less severe @Papa_Sam ?

Hard to tell because I can't compare what I got to what I might have gotten. What I do know is that every trip over my father lap was most unpleasant as a spanking for a naughty boy should be. I always ended up bawling and with a very sore backside.

I’ve never outright asked for one, but I sure knew mouthing off was a one way street to getting one and sometimes I didn’t seem to stop 🤔

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Never from my parents.

Once from a friend on a sleepover. We actually alternated giving each other spankings.

All the time from my wife.

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I never asked for one as a child but any spankings then were really just a few on the spot slaps and stopped when I was quite young, so it would have been a very odd request and nothing that would have occurred to me back then.

My spanko interest was sparked during my school days and these days I do "need" to be soundly caned every now and then. I think of it as an itch that needs scratching. It's not a pleasant experience and I don't enjoy it but it's a need. So, in that context I do "ask" for it. I have a couple of disciplinarians who will deal with me if I ask... and I have just asked so will be getting it on Friday (26 Sep).

In a previous relationship my partner and I enjoyed role playing where he was the headmaster and I was a naughty schoolgirl.

Sometimes when he came home from work I'd be in my uniform, and, biting my lip, tell him I'd been a naughty girl.

That was all it took.

Never needed to ask if found out I been misbehaving soon got spanking mums wooden kitchen spoon

On several occasions, I felt I let my girlfriend down. As such, I asked her to spank me which she did. I know she enjoyed it.

I never asked my parents for a spanking.

Yes. Recently asked a trusted play partner who was willing. Loved the experience but wonder how it would be different with a someone im romantic/intimate with.

I have earned myself a severe spanking because I couldn’t watch my attitude…

The second time I had sex with my now husband he claims I said, “You can smack my ass if you want to.” I insist I would NEVER be so forward.

(Oh who am I kidding, I was putty in his hands from the first time he touched me)

I frequently ask my partner for a spanking.

As an adult ive asked partners. Now do with my gf regularly and vice versa

There were times when I would ask my boyfriend to spank me. I would get completely naked and bend over the edge of the bed, and he would smack my buttocks with a paddle until they were bright red and burning. When I straightened up, I was very aroused, and it showed. To me, a spanking administered by a partner is a humiliating punishment when done while naked.