Have you ever asked for a spanking?

I asked for one recently from my mom, she hasn't spanked me in a couple years and I wanted the cathartic feeling of getting spanked and she went full on with it giving my bare bottom the hairbrush till my butt was burning red.

Just last weekend,did ask to boyfriend if hé would do it

Hope for next weekend lol to continue

Yes. Detailed it in a different thread. Asked one of my closest female friends and she agreed.

Yes. Detailed it in a different thread. Asked one of my closest female friends and she agreed.

Wish I could ask a friend for a spanking over asking my mom

Yes I asked my roomie to spank me after we had had a row that was my fault. Bent over her lap, she pulled my skirt up, and knickers down and gave me 6 of the best with her hand. It stung for a few minutes after I am please to say.

@MrK1ng It takes a little courage, but all you have to do is ask. If it’s a true friend and you honestly explain your need, he or she will understand. They still have the option to say ‘no’ so you have to respect that.

For me, my friend knows me well and understood why I wanted the spanking. She gave me 10 hard ones, bare hand on my bare bottom, that was that, I felt better, and we never have spoken of it. And no we did not have sex.

I love being spanked, it helps me become weak. And allows me to relax into the pain. I always ask for it every chance i get.

Shortly before we were married i asked my GF to spank me with a paddle that i purchased and gave to her.

She took to it like a " Duck to water"!!

She found that she got wet and i got HARD.

49 years later i am still spanked for fore play AND punishment.

I was the oldest of 5 kids and all of us were spanked, usually by mom. For some reason, I have always enjoyed getting a good spanking, especially with my pants down or skirt up. I even enlisted my cousin to spank me. When I turned 14, I was told by mom that I would be grounded, instead. Using the excuse that I belonged to school and I played sports, I asked her to continue to spank me. Mom said that if I wished to continue getting my spankings, they would continue to be bare bottomed. Did i understand that? Not only did I agree, but I recklessly told her I should get spanked for as long as I lived at home. Later on, I regretted doing that a few times!

@bigbabyhusband

Shortly before we were married i asked my GF to spank me with a paddle that i purchased and gave to her.

She took to it like a " Duck to water"!!

She found that she got wet and i got HARD.

Reminds me of a lovely lady I met on OKCupid around 7 years ago. She'd always been interested in spanking, and we experimented with it both ways round.

However I'll never forget the first time she caned me. "What's going on?! What are you doing to me?! All I'm doing is whacking your arse with a stick, and it's turning me on SO MUCH... oh my God, it's running down my legs..."

Such a shame that, for other reasons, the relationship didn't last past a few months.

Yes, I often try to find a woman who will spank me. I just love the idea of sticking my hand up the skirt of a younger women and being immediately spanked for it! Though that is not literally going to a woman and asking: "Hi Ms. you look hot, please would you like to spank me?

Asked my wife. Figured we'd start with a birthday spanking, split in two. She gave me the first set, but at the second she said she didn't want to hurt me and bowed out.

For many years my aunt all ways asked me to allow her to paddle me right before I leave her house. Next time, I visit her I will let her paddle me anyway she sees fit.

I am about to BEG for my wife to PLEASE SPANK ME!!!!

Last night when I wanted to hold / fondle her breasts she would not let me! "NO you have not been submissive and have been misbehaving!"

Now I will be BEGGING for my spanking by asking "PLEASE SPANK ME to remind me to be a submissive and good little boy, so that I may PLEASE have your breasts!"

I have never asked for a spanking but I have told on myself for doing something I knew I would be spanked for. When I would do that o knew she would find out and I would get it then so I just went ahead and told her.

I will do so in about 10 days from now...will report on what happens...

Yes there are occasions that I have asked my husband to spank me when I frankly deserved to be spanked. While I was glad that he honored my request, I have to admit that I had to sit down pretty carefully for a couple of days as he knows how to deliver a good and proper spanking. Denise

I’ve asked my ex for a spanking. If I can remember correctly, he lightly tapped me on the butt... 😕

It’s now years later and I crave spankings over the knee of a Dominant older man like I crave chocolate...all the time.

When we were first married my wife and i got into a heated argument while in the car--She got so angry she got out of the car and walked home (a long walk) In the meantime i was home and very sorry for what happened and blamed myself---when she came in I told her i was real sorry and told her she could do anything she needed to do to make things right. to my shock she told me to get a skinny stick from the garage and to strip and she would paddle my butt---She was really angry so i knew i was in for a dam sore butt----Igot the stick stripped off knelt on an ottoman and she paddle my naked butt and it hurt like hell. when it was over things were fine between us---In a long and very happy marriage I have once in a while had to kneel on that same ottoman bare assed and get my butt paddled----I have earned it and never got it that i di not have it coming believe1 me MY BUTT HURTS! Any other guys like me anywhere?

My mother spanked me up until I was about 10. Then she told me the spankings would stop. A few weeks later I realised I was missing the spankings, so I decided to take action. I waited until the time was right, then went into my mums room and got the hair brush. My mum was in the kitchen, so I went into the lounge and stripped naked as I usually did before being spanked. Then I casually walked into the kitchen and placed the hairbrush on the table. My mum saw me do this and said nothing, she just watched me leave and stand facing the wall in the lounge. A few minutes later she brought a dining chair in and sat down then said "Ok over you go". At which I walked to her and laid over her lap and she proceeded to spank me. Afterwards we talked and I asked her to continue spanking me as I missed it. Which she did.

Yes actually it was with some new play partners

I mentioned in the thread about who's the better spanking, men or women:

The thought of a dominate, determined woman wanting to give me a good spanking is most exciting! I sure either sex has enough strength to give a “good” spanking; after-all, only so much is really needed. Also, various implements can make up for any difference.

Perhaps because I was so seldomly spanked, I became intrigued by mother of a friend I knew who was very strict and would spank for any infraction of her rules..

When I lived at home I didn’t ask for it per-se. I would do things which I knew would lead to that though on occasion.

I have directly asked one friend to do it and she did. Fellow spanko so It wasn’t weird or anything.

My wife and I had an argument shortly after we were married. We made up and all was fine until a few days later. I came home and saw that my wife had been crying. She told me she had told her about the argument and her mother had given her bare bottom spanking with one of my belts. She lifted her skirt and pulled down her panties to show me her bum. That Sunday when we visited her mother for dinner, I told her the argument had been my fault and I needed a whipping. She called me over to the couch where she was sitting. She unfastened my belt and removed it, then she let down my trousers and pulled down my boxers. She pulled me across her knees and gave me a dozen very hard licks with my belt. Then she had me stand corner time with my britches down till my my brother and sister in law arrived.

Not asked but many times I was given a choice between being grounded or spanked and always took the spanking.

I don't have to ask for one. It's a given that anytime we meet up, he will spend quite a bit of time spanking me.

Junior high, which was in the late 60's. I had a homeroom teacher who had a very short fuse and who also looked like Don Knotts. There were a couple of times where I'd walk in, say I needed a swat and after a few minutes of egging him on, I'd get one

It took many years for me to come up with the courage to ask my husband to spank me. I didn't want my husband to think that I was crazy for wanting to be spanked. I only got whopped one time as a preteen and I craved it after that. Oh, how I would day dream as a teen of being put over my dad's or mom's knees and being spanked on my bare butt. In my 20's, I was having sex with an older guy. He told me to lay naked on his bed. He suddenly took a belt to my bare butt. I loved the sting each time the belt hit my butt. He only did it once. I loved it but was afraid to ask him to do it again because I didn't want him to think that I was weird. I continued to carry this craving for the next 25 years. At the age of 50 years, I finally had the nerve to ask my husband to spank me. Ask him what I wanted him to do and he was quiet after I had ask him. I felt maybe I revealed something that he wasn't ready for. I was nervous waiting for his response. He finally said okay. He told me to go to the store and purchase a paddle. I bought a paddle. He told me that I need a massage and enema. After I got an enema and massage. I took a hot shower and dressed in the clothes that I wanted to be spanked in. I wore a floral sun dress and white panties and bra. My husband told me to come into our bedroom. The kids were at school. I was excited with the anticipation that I was finally going to get spank. He told me to lay across his lap on the bed. I laid across his lap. I was rubbing my bare feet together as I waited across his lap. I could feel him lift up my dress. Finally, I felt him lower my panties down to my thighs. After a few minutes, I felt the smack of the paddle. I loved the sting of the paddle. And rest is history.

It took many years for me to come up with the courage to ask my husband to spank me.

How many folks hold back exploring their kinks because they don't have then courage to ask? My wife read an advertisement in Cosmopolitan by Shadow Lane and was pretty straight forward about wanting to try spanking. We ordered a couple of VCR's and watched them together - then I pulled her over my knee and playfully spanked her. It led to anal play and sex. We did it a few times but she said it really didn't turn her on like she thought it would - so we dropped spanking as a foreply. She had the “courage” to ask to try it, only to find out it didn't work for her. She offered to spank me - but I declined. I'm an ass man so anything that offers up a female butt to me turns me on! Found other ways to satisfy our itches.

Growing up? Yes, one time. When I was, I don't know, whatever age in 5th-6th grade.

My best friends parents were going out of town and my friend was going to be staying with us for the weekend. We had huge plans to go to Blockbuster (yea I'm old haha) and stay up late watching movies and playing video games. We were hyped up! .. When I got home from school I had chores I was supposed to do. I didn't do them.

Mom got home from work and was pissed. She said that because I didn't do the chores we weren't going to blockbuster. Plans ruined! In a split second decision, I said can't I just get a spanking instead. Dad mostly did the spanking and she told me that he wouldn't be home til after my friend was already here. So I would be getting spanked while my friend was here.

I didn't care, at least not at that moment. He knew I got spankings, he got them too.

Fast forward, my friend is here. We're hanging out having fun. Dad gets home. Him and mom talk, he tells me to go up to my room while he gets changed out of his work clothes.

Ugh! Part of me was hoping they wouldn't go thru with it. I tell my friend I'm going to get a spanking. He's surprised, but I explained the situation about blockbuster, and told him I was taking one for the team hahaha

I go to my room. A minute later dad comes in. My pants and underwear come down, bent over the bed, and get my butt spanked. It's loud, I held back crying best I could.

When it's over, dad let me get my clothes back on (thank God, because I usually had to spend some time bottomless after spankings, that would've been embarrassing). I compose myself a bit, then go back to my friend, red faced and red assed.