Preferred Way to be Bound

I have been into BDSM for a long time. And I mean really into it. I've been spoiled because I've had Dominants that were amazingly creative and good at what they do.

The best piece of equipment was a padded metal stockade. It anchored my feet about three and a half feet apart. The bar at my waist. A central bar, which was padded, was where I rested my stomach and it was between my tits. It ended with a type of metal collar to kep my head in place. My arms extended outward away from me. East to west. Once locked in there was no distinct movement allowed. And while there she had complete access to all of me. The only thing was she couldn't stripe my stomach. But everything else was what she called a perfect canvass. And with a gag in place. How could I complain. She did put a large coin in my hand and if it became too much I simply needed to drop the coin to stop things. To date I've never dropped the coin.

So how do you like to be held in place?

I'm just curious.

MA

If I’m getting spanked I like when he puts the wedge under my hips, ties my arms to the front of the bed, wrists together and my ankles to the sides of the bed, knees bent. Hard to describe - like face down/ass up but with my hips supported by the wedge. I can stay like that for a long time before it gets too uncomfortable

A former Dom had some rather beautiful equipment. Have to say the webbed sling swing was a favorite. Literally if you had cuffs on wrists and legs you could be clipped in place anywhere on the webbing. Almost like rope suspension, very comfortable, and added plus is he could push, pull, manipulate you anyway he chose. I did love his padded spanking bench, many hours over that, before heart surgery, after only a half hour at most, sadly I miss that. So many uses for cuffs and rope, possibilities are endless.

I prefer to be restrained with rope and leather. We have chain also, but I don't like it because it feels cold on my skin. I guess that is one reason why my husband LIKES to restrain me with chains sometimes.

Haven’t done restraints much but have used a thick soft cotton rope to tie wrists and ankles to the 4 corners of the bed. Usually facedown for spankings or canings and attention to her anus. Always make sure she is comfortable but not able to move. The key is keeping her legs well spread for continual exposure of genital and anal areas.

I just ran across this video on Pornhub while looking at another rubber video linked by a friend here. This outfit called the House of Gord used to specialize in unique ways to put women in bondage usually after dressing them in total rubber or similar enclosure. Many are Rube Goldberg-ish unique machines designed by Gord intended to fuck or otherwise stimulate the women in bondage. This particular video shows several women dressed in enclosures of rubber and other materials but then bound and processed for shipment to another Dom. I thought it might be interesting for this thread to show some unique and unusual types of bondage.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5bc891bf45db6

Eric

I don't think I have a preferred position, I think I have preferred materials or less favorite one to be precise. I don't like to be touched by tape... Call me crazy (and I probably am a bit) but I got a slight phobia for tape.

I like leather, ankle, wrists, belly... Any place and any position is good for me... But I prefer leather and metal. I tried benches with secure lockings and for extended period of times they are comfortably. Then again the position in which you are bond is linked to the time you'll have to hold position. Buuut maybe I'm simply getting too old for some games...

I just like the Velcro restraints we have. My wife secures my wrists to each side of the bed, and my ankles towards the bottom. Then if she wants to take it a step further she can put the ball gag in and/or cover my mouth and nose with her gloves hand. She is in complete control then and I am more than excited as I look into her eyes above her masked face!

It's not exactly bondage, but sensory deprivation, by way of being fully encased and immoblized, with special suits, or just saran wrap, is an awesome experience. I love it. It makes me secure and contained, my energy concentrated, and if there are holes for nipples and genitals to be made accessible, so much the better.

Is this a Zity fetish or does it belong more on other sites?

I’ve some skeletal mobility issues that make some positions difficult/ dangerous for me. Arms out at 90degrees is ok for me but straight up for any length of time is tough. It’s too bad because it’s sexy so for short periods I like it. I like rope, I really like cuffs and chains.

My favorite way to be bound is on the couch with a gold credit card in my hand.

It's not exactly bondage, but sensory deprivation, by way of being fully encased and immoblized, with special suits, or just saran wrap, is an awesome experience. I love it. It makes me secure and contained, my energy concentrated, and if there are holes for nipples and genitals to be made accessible, so much the better.

Is this a Zity fetish or does it belong more on other sites?

Strongly agree, but my interest, though very strong, is limited to suits and accessories of latex or neoprene rubber, as in latex catsuits and neoprene wetsuits or exercise suits. To me, with a rubber fetish, wearing or covering with Saran Wrap, PVC or even just Lycra or Spandex is very mildly appealing, but not in the same league of appearance, texture, feel and smell as rubber. In addition to the intense rubber smell which is probably the strongest attraction for me, being covered in latex or neoprene definitely makes you feel at least somewhat confined and controlled by whoever put you into it. Of course adding cuffs or other actual restraints makes you feel even more bound, and I often use them together. Also, for me, rubber suits or clothing pieces go very well with enemas because of both th e confined/covered and submissive sensations plus the aphrodisiac of the rubber aroma during the enema.

This is definitely a Zity-appropriate bondage or kink/fetish topic.

Eric

My favorite way to be bound is with leather and or rope. The rope as a harness is very good for being helplessly bound, and you don't even have to be attached to anything. You're just unable to move. When more time is available, I LOVE to be suspended, it doesn't have to be a fancy suspension but being suspended by my ankles sends shivers up my spine. Once in a while my husband will do me up in a shibari type suspension.

More recently, I have learned the [insane?] pleasures of being mummified for days at a time, something my husband has loved for decades. I have written about them on zity before.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=96712

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=973852

My favorite way to be bound is with leather and or rope. The rope as a harness is very good for being helplessly bound, and you don't even have to be attached to anything. You're just unable to move. When more time is available, I LOVE to be suspended, it doesn't have to be a fancy suspension but being suspended by my ankles sends shivers up my spine. Once in a while my husband will do me up in a shibari type suspension.

More recently, I have learned the [insane?] pleasures of being mummified for days at a time, something my husband has loved for decades. I have written about them on zity before.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=96712

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=973852

How do you feel about getting enemas while suspended? I've always wanted to try that but no opportunity so far.

Eric

@ericmacson said

How do you feel about getting enemas while suspended? I've always wanted to try that but no opportunity so far.

Eric

I have posted about that here before.

Aside from good ceiling attachments, you need blocks and tackle to make lifting the person easier. My husband could lift me without a block and tackle, but I could never lift him without one.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1061942

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=731344

Give me some time and I will find additional links.

Susie,

Great, thanks. I'll look forward to them. I'd really like to experience a few suspended enemas next time I have a Domme partner.

Eric

I wish I knew.

For me it's spread eagle, tied to bed with leather cuffs, blindfolded and sometimes gagged.

When I first started in my mid 20's, there was one guy who was good with rope, he was experienced in both what he called the five flowers, a Chinese technique, and a more elaborate was the Japanese style he called Shibari. He would take his time applying the ropes, adjusting them just right, one kinda liked the restriction, like a hugging of sorts. You didn't feel panicky, but felt kinda loved in an odd way, and the way he touched and kept a hand on me let me know he was there.

When I was modeling up north, I knew a photography group that worked with models, for mild bondage shoots. They brought in someone who did great Shibari rope work. It was like the model’s body was a canvas for the rope work designs.

I like sprea degle on my back.

Too many to list!

-bound to a st andrews cross and gagged/hooded

-tied to an exam table in stirrups wide open for anything

-good old fashioned straitjacket

I never had such good equipment, but I guess it also gives you a nice exciting feeling when you improvise. I want to finally invest in a quality harness and I've been reading some anoeses review articles https://anoeses.com/uk/collections/harness , all of them super positive. I think I'm finally going to treat myself to something nice and fun. It's a great investment because my husband will also see it as a gift for himself, so double win. Apart from harnesses what would you say is a must as beginning equipment? We are not beginners, but we've never owned equipment before, so we should start with the basics.

Spreader bar on my ankles with a ankle to thigh and wrist to thigh restraint.

Spreader bar on my ankles with a ankle to thigh and wrist to thigh restraint.

Oh yeah I almost forgot the most important part a ball gag in my mouth as well.

I don't really have certain positions, but like someone else who responded, I have certain materials I like. Almost all of the bondage I've experienced so far was cotton clothesline-type rope. I tried hemp once and hated it. I'm also not a fan of crotch rope.

One day I'd like to try leather restraints. I have a fantasy that involves me strapped to an exam table. Legs strapped in stirrups, straps around my hips, under my breasts, and arms either out from my sides or secured above my head. Delicious, naughty fantasy!

I love being bound so tight that I can't move at all it can be anywhere. As long as I can't move and have a blindfold on and sometimes have so I can't hear

Many years ago my ex and I would occasionally switch roles with it. We were novice at it and it involved mostly being tied down on the bed in various positions mostly using cotton rope. I did very much enjoy tying down my partner and using her any way I wanted and having the same done to me. Been a long time since it happened but hopefully will get the chance again.

My young dom used to tie me up spread eagle to his 4 post bed and masturbate me to orgasm,however I liked to have my legs togather during orgasm because I thought the orgasm was more intense,he would laugh and say that was part of my punishment then he would invite his brother in to tickle my nipples with a feather causing my orgasms to be extremely intense!