Psychology and realism in medfet stories

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I've started to realize that I only like a few rare medfet stories. I might be weird, lol, but there's a realism line that's so hard to get right. I wonder if anybody else feels lthe same?

If a story involves sex between the doc/nurse and pt, I lose all interest in it immediately. It's like it triggers something in my mind that takes me clear out of the fantasy because it's so unrealistic. Or if it's set in somebody's bedroom or whatever, same.

And on the other side it can be TOO realistic too, if there's no sexual tension or D/s factor. If it's like reading a textbook, I lose interest too. It's got to talk about how the characters feel and what they're thinking, not just physical things.

So for me there's this super super narrow range, where it has the right aires. Then I also really struggle with 1st person stories, "I went here and she did this to me..."

I guess I'm waaaay too picky, lol! But in spite of all that, the few stories I like are just super good! There are very talented and creative writers!

Do you like a lot of stories? I guess I find one I like every 6 months or so. But I like those ones a LOT!

Yes, in my view both patient-doctor psychology and a fair degree of likelihood and realism are highly desirable ingredients in a medfet story. 😃

Have just begun, in fact, what so far is a pleasurable interactive story with another Zity-er. He's the doctor and he seems to know just how to push his nervous patient in the direction he must go!

- Ken

I feel absolutely the same

That’s why I don’t like 99% of the Videos out there

For me, as real as it gets is always best

I like a combination. And there has to be a plot, not just a description of an exam. I find that boring.

The critical bounds of plausibility and realism are critical for me to enjoy a message that story or conversation. But there’s also so much you can do with the psychology of the anticipation and feelings that go along with the activities it’s a mix of describing the sensation of underwear being mid thigh and the anxieties in your mind that a writer has to capture in order for it to cause intense arousal and memories in me

@Praxis HD : Yes I agree about the videos! It's the same idea, but maybe even harder because with a text story your mind can fill in things by itself but with a video the clues that it's not real are so obvious. I think it is easier for a good author to get the reader into the right headspace.

I would rather watch bad porn than read it, although I would rather mow my lawn than do either.

Honestly, even though this is a medfet board, not a lot of medfetters are into specificlly my medfet, patients in masks. Especially without a lot of other medfets that may turn me off. So therefore I tend to like my own stories a lot more than others', even if my writing is of poorer quality than others (which is why I have withdrawn my stories, which I finally noticed had bad proofreading).

But I do learn from others, both with their stories and other posts on Zity.

^^Maybe you could get someone to proof read them for you? Keep writing, even if you decide to not put them up - the more you write, the better you will get.

.... It's got to talk about how the characters feel and what they're thinking, not just physical things.

So for me there's this super super narrow ... Then I also really struggle with 1st person stories, "I went here and she did this to me..."

No you are not too picky. There is so much junk out there. Yes, tell me what is going in their minds, what they are thinking and feeling.

We know they are fantasy, but set the scene. Bring me into the mind of the victim and or perpetrator.

So many read like a laundry list and stupid, i.e., I took the 15 inch dildo and ranmmed the whole thing up her butt with no lube, and she had an immediate orgasm.

You are so correct, the "I did this and I went here and I" or the "You then did this, or that, etc.," stories are the worst in my humble opinion.

Have been reading erotic or titalating stories since I was about 14 - 15. I have a great collection, two or three of which I have found here on Zity, which brought me here.

You have to search and search but you can find titillating videos and good writings.

@Turkey1

"You have to search and search but you can find titillating videos and good writings."

I've found more good writings than good videos. I wish I found good videos but so far, nuttin lol. It's super hard to escape the clues that it is staged.

I dunno maybe I like the stories better, if the author is good, due to how the mind fills in the details with a good story and even tho you know it is fictional, you have more distance. Less shown = more in the imagination = easier to let yourself believe in the world of the author.

I do think that there is a huge difference between creating a story that invites a lot of physical and psychological tension for the reader and one that is purely sexual. I want to identify with the characters and live vicariously through the writing. Clearly there are different styles of writing and proficiency. There are also subjective interests of the reader as well so this likely leads to a lot of variability in terms of enjoyment and identification. For me, I want to feel that I am in the room and seeing what takes place such that I feel the patient's tension during the examination. I am less interested in stories that fast forward to sex between patient and provider. It tends to dilute the experience of observer for me.

I definitely like realism, and good writing. But writing is a skill that people have different levels with, and that's fine. Some of my favorite stories were not technically good.

Plus fetish writing is particularly tough to do well, since so much of it isn't about making a good story, it's about whatever the writer finds erotic. So lots of stories are likely to be more or less the same. Pretty much everything fetishy I've ever written follows the same outline and style because that's what turns me on.

I'm generally willing to edit anesthesia stories, should it ever come up for anyone.

I enjoy reading real stories or at least plausible, realistic encounters of medfet or sex or medfet and sex together. But only if there is a psychological aspect. Meaning, I want to know what going through the person’s head, not simply a laundry list of what happened. I’ve read few stories on Zity or Literotica which excite me, but when I find one that does, I always comment or give feedback to the author.

"Pretty much everything fetishy I've ever written follows the same outline and style because that's what turns me on." --> Yes, I agree with this and sometimes I have a concern toward a loss of variability or variety in what I like to read. Still tho, in the stories I enjoy the most, the different authors bring different styles, different scenarios inside the same themes, different characters developed. And it seems to work out that there is enough variety. I keep enjoying them.

My likes are in a less popular area though so there are simply not that many stories that fit into that.

I really like realistic medfet stories with a certain little twist and a certain storyline. I need this to fulfill my own and the fantasy of my female patients. Sex is for my personal likings not a part in any medfet scenario. Desire yes, for sure. But no intercourse.

Depends on my mood. Sometimes I like over the top porn stories and sometimes I like true stories. That's why some of mine are really sexual and some of them are true

It is difficult, at times, being a writer. The story has to be challenging enough to warrant the time and energy to write it, and of course has to appeal to the intended audience. The issue with fetish-specific stories is that different people have different kinks, and then it becomes a matter of including things outside your personal taste.

I am a fan of plausible realism, and that does extend to the psychology of the story I'm working on. I personally get bored of the "embarrassed patient/shy patient/always fighting patient." Stories, at least here at Zity, must be of adults of legal age. Then let the characters be mature adults!

I think that there are thousands of plausible scenarios for stories, realism included. We just have to wait for inspiration to strike...

I like the word of plausible realism. For me that would mean that the doctor behaves reasonably, and that the procedures that are described are (a) actually possible, and (b) make sense in a medical context.

For example, one of my pet peeves is when some writer claims that a doctor actually pushes a finger into the patient's uterus during a routine exam. This is nearly impossible and also NEVER done in actual medicine. A total turn-off for me.

N.

I like the OP's thought about too much surrealism (i.e. the nurses and doctors sexually involving with the patient) being bad but also too much realism making the work seem too sterile. I think I'm pretty much of like mind, but my thresholds may be a tiny bit different. Before the pandemic, I had a story on here that included my medfet of girls wearing masks on their mouths and noses. I took it off because that kind of thing became a non-no.

But my story, and others I have put online, have had masturbation in a hospital room (probably does at least start to happen on rare occasion), and sex in a bedroom. Before the pandemic, I did know a girl who wore masks because of a lung transplant (before and after. Her whole life, almost). She used them also in her modeling, as a thematic and a fetish tool. Seeing her in her cartridge respirator and mask one day in real life kind of made me think masks were more comfortable than they are (maybe they were to her. I don't know). So I suppose I was inspired to write based on what I saw and what I assumed..

@Nagus

Yes exactly. a lot of my fictional stories are a combination of real things that I've seen happen and that's 'A' way they do happen but these events didn't actually occur.

Like everything in my fictional story a medical fetish horror story I've seen in real life it's just a fictional combination thereof. I went to the hospital that I talk about in the story. It's truly creepy and that's why I picked it but it is a real hospital. Else where Iat an ER 've seen a guy bitch for his clothes and they brought him a straight jacket. Else wherre II see another guy b guy go running through the ER with only a straight jacket onn.They weren't ER or the same guy but I made it the same. I've seen people in wheelchairs that after that ECT and they look like they lost something. All different places in different times.

I bought a book called how to write damn good novel. The first paragraph of the first chapter was right about what you know. The first chapter talk about this very thing.

@duckbillN95 my mom was a long time icu nurse and skilled Care nursing homes especially ventilators she and her coworkers made jokes all the time masturbation in hospital rooms. One time my mom fired like half her staff her cuz nurse splayed with a big 10 inch cock on a guy in coma Sex not rampant all the time every where but at any time anywhere hin the hospital stories too of where my roommate had sex with somebody. That's probably quatter the hospital stays I've had. I've had a little bit not quite as lucky as my roommates.

I forget the product being advertised, but the slogan was “You always go back to the basics.” Each of us arrived at Zity by their own path, and I think there was a lot of history involved in our choice of “likes.” I know the path that led me to Zity in the first place, and as they say on TV, “Based on actual events.”

Yes! I totally get your point. I call it the Groundhog Day effect. Yes, you have to suspend some belief to make the story go, but once you accept the basic premise, you want the rest of the story to be true.

It's totally unlikely that a cadre of female doctors would spend an afternoon examining my penis and having me give a sperm sample as they observe as part of an annual physical but assuming it were perfectly normal, then why the hell would they be trying to seduce me? Like they're going to risk losing their medical licenses for little ol' me???

Realism plays a key role in a medfet exams