Curious or urges

Hi everyone finally back, I thought I was locked from this site turn out I forget my user name.

I'm not sure if I'm bi or straight (get pegged) or gay just want to try to have sex, have used lots of app so far only Blued app people chat with me.

Hi everyone finally back, I thought I was locked from this site turn out I forget my user name :X.

I'm not sure if I'm bi or straight (get pegged) or gay just want to try to have sex, have used lots of app so far only Blued app people chat with me.

This question can easily be answered by yourself.

If you just fantasize about having sex with a same sex partner, it does make you bi or gay. If you do have multiple sex encounters with same sex partners and no longer want to have sex with opposite sex partners, then you could call yourself gay. If have sex with both sexes then you would be bi.

It really comes down to your sexual behavior with others that would lead to a sexual orientation label.

But I would not worry about how you view yourself with a label instead just do what comes naturally and see where you come out.

I would echo what ProV1 said too, and the labels often used to describe this desire don't seem to match everyone's personal experience. I am in much the same situation as yourself if that is any help or comfort.

I've only had sex with woman and always considered myself straight. However, with the advent of the internet I find the porn I watch most often is guys sucking off transsexuals, swallowing their cum, and being fucked by them. I would dearly love to experience that. So, if we're handing out labels, I'd at least take the bi-curious label which would probably be changed to bi in short order. I really can't see myself having sex with another man to the exclusion of all others so the gay label wouldn't fit me. Would I occasionally have sex with another man? Unlikely, but I'd never say never. I'm now wearing women's panties quite regularly which I had never thought I'd be doing; so, I'm discovering things about myself I've not been previously aware of.

I'm not open with my mates about being bi, but my GF knows I have urges. She supports it because she has a DP thing. I don't let on to the guy candidates because I think it would put them off, instead I lure them by saying my girl wants a threesome with me & him. If he's unsure, I ask when was the last time he'd had anal with a girl, in case that helps him come around.

I get my GF to assume control, telling us to strip while filming us. That gives a neat way for me to watch it back again later, seeing his briefs, his cock springing to life, his bell-end and balls. She might get us to stand with our cockheads close together so she can alternate between sucking us off, but also so she can give me the thrill of rubbing the head of his cock against mine.

When it's fuck time, she goes on top of me with me in her vagina. She gets him to position his cock at her head end so she can suck it, but she also guides it as close over my face as possible (for my benefit too). She eventually lets him position to doggystyle her, but she grabs his cock, telling him to start in her pussy, squeezing his cock in alongside mine. Of course two large erections in her pussy is a real experience for her, but at the same time I get the length of my cock fucked by the length of my mate's cock, all under the guise of a hetero DP fuck. I especially love the feeling of the rim of his cockhead passing across the rim of mine, and also how his bloated balls impact with mine, even if at times uncomfortable.

She tells me to lube her asshole, so I reach for the lube and apply it to her ass. She tells me to put some all over his cock, of course giving me the opportunity to further experience my mate's penis, and gets me to guide him into her anus while I stay in her pussy. This is of course super-sexy for all three of us, and it feels great to feel my mate's cock pumping away next door right alongside. I see right into his face as it contorts through fucking a slim sexy brunette in the arse. Depending on how the guy has reacted, she might instruct we two men to snog.

For one of my friends he seemed completely into the whole thing, letting me work a couple of lubed fingers into his ass while he kept butt-fucking my girl. That led to me doing some butt-fucking of my own. Once inside him I just had to hold still, letting the rise & fall of his ass fuck my cock as he kept plowing into my GF.

So at least that friend now knows I'm beyond just hetero, but I still prefer us to think of our encounter as a DP threesome between me, my GF, & a friend who my GF had chosen to join us.

The time spent (wasted?) discussing labels is much better used to find partners.? There are so many shades of "bi" and labels to go along with it that I gave up long ago. Plus I find my bi side is constantly evolving so the category I chose kept changing over time.

That said, there are so many apps and websites where choosing a label is required so don't be shy about selecting one but don't worry about selecting the "right" one. If you are on the app or a website, guys will be interested no matter what label you choose. And in my experience that includes the "straight" label.

I often fantasize about lesbian sex, but I don't look at women sexually such as friends or coworkers. I think if the situation was perfect as in the planets in alignment, I would do it.

David in Schitts Creek has a line that sums it up for me best; “I like the wine, not the label”. For me it’s about the person.

If you just fantasize about having sex with a same sex partner, it does make you bi or gay.

Not sure it you meant to say “it does not” instead of “it does”… I would say fantasizes are just that and don't mean anything or make you anything…

Agree with @reddevil Fantasies are just that - thoughts going around in your noggin. Fantasizing about same sex sex doesn't make you bisexual or gay. Acting out on those fantasies does. I used to fantasize about calling in air strikes on the Taliban - didn't make me a soldier!

I used to fantasize about calling in air strikes on the Taliban - didn't make me a soldier!

@gwhap: Thanks for making me laugh 😄😄😄

I often fantasize about lesbian sex, but I don't look at women sexually such as friends or coworkers. I think if the situation was perfect as in the planets in alignment, I would do it.

I think that might well apply to men too. Maybe it being a same sex stranger makes it easier too as there's no everyday meeting aftwards too?

I never think about male friends or coworkers in a sexual way. I might think about their wives sexually but never the man.

But then when alone on Zity I get to fantasizing and, very rarely, will imagine something warm and stiff penetrating my ass and then I begin to wonder how much better an actual cock might feel inside me, rather than a dildo or buttplug or finger.

Then when I’m outside again and look at a man, I cringe and cannot imagine actually going through with it.

I never think about male friends or coworkers in a sexual way. I might think about their wives sexually but never the man.

But then when alone on Zity I get to fantasizing and, very rarely, will imagine something warm and stiff penetrating my ass and then I begin to wonder how much better an actual cock might feel inside me, rather than a dildo or buttplug or finger.

Then when I’m outside again and look at a man, I cringe and cannot imagine actually going through with it.

I'm exactly the same and it sometimes confuses me.

I check out the girls pretty regularly, the guys not so much but I notice them inappropriately. If it feels right being noticed back I go for it.

I check out both men and women. Men looking at their crotch and women both crotch and breast. I'm definitely bi sexual attractive to both sexes. I love to see a bulge in a man's pants, it tingles my cock, but at the same time when I see a womans nipples get hard I want to touch them with my hands and tongue.

I am very bi and would rather give than receive. When out and about I check out males and females. Will check a guy out for a bulge or cock outline and women from top to bottom. Love boobs and butts and also what they are wearing and how they wear it. Love it all!