Partner being challenged by a stinky in one diaper, using extra powder and lotion

We have all had moments where we have a stinky in ones diaper. It is a bit of a mess. Being a abdl , my wife is the only one to change me. I try to signal once I have a stinky. But sometimes it is not in much notice.

While cleaning me up she pours extra amount of powder and lotion to clean up the smell and keep me baby fresh.

others have this happen to them

Since my only "partners" have been hired to feed,, water,medicate ,and change me i cant say its a problem , i am always willing to train someone ,but I have never had to , when they get here it's usually because they have my top 5 things 1. Experience 2 intuition 3 dedication 4 personalitydedication 5 ability to learn skills they don't have.

Experience means they don't treat you like your stupid or talk down to you because you aquirred a disability, intuition means they pick up tour routines and sometimes can almost read your mind in what you need or want ,and are all ready to do it without you asking .dedication is being willing to help you out if you need it without worrying am I on or off the clock ,personality as in a caring easy to get along with relatable person and 5 not a lot of care people have catheter skills most being willing to learn that skill is necessary it's not hard to learn to drive a coude but it can be intimidating because it's " invasive ".

I have PTSD from past medical experiences so a trusting stable soft touch is an essential part of caring for me ,I need to be changed between 4 & 9 times a day I wear cloth so you don't change it and forget it ,your washing diaper laundry every 2 days ,so that's 8 Messy sometimes more diapers you will meet again. Now have you considered using internal deodorants they reduce the smell a great deal ,I can say that because I use them and know the difference between people's eyes watering as they look for the exit and filling a diaper wuthout anyone noticing before i am being taken to ve changed.its a big difference