Success stories

I’d love to hear your success stories!

How did you meet your IRL or online doctor/patient? How was the exam? What happened? Did you meet again? What suggestions do you have for those of us just beginning?

I have been very fortunate to have meet 3 lovely ladies (all in their 40's / 50's) from Zity in the UK for 1 to 1 medical play . Online chat is fine but nothing quite beats meeting fellow enthusiasts in the flesh so to speak . It does take a lot of time to build a level of confidence between both parties before meeting and playing but it has certainly been worthwhile and rewarding for all parties .

I have played with a number of women over the years. Only one of my partners was from FetLife and met specifically for medical play. I tend to be up front on dating profiles about being kinky or mention liking kink early on in a relationship. Even if the women I date haven't done medical play before, they're usually game to try at least a basic exam. That's escalated to lots and lots of exams over the years, almost always with me as the patient receiving some sort of anal stimulation.

For the one specifically medfet play partner (as with all good relationships) the key was mutual respect, patience and communication. We talked for a while before meeting up, and I tried to always respect her boundaries. The resulting exam was great. I gave her an enema, speculum and rectal exam. She gave me a prostate exam and took a sperm sample. We do plan on meeting up again eventually.

I think with more traditional relationships, the key is finding a good way of saying how much medical fetish play is meaningful to you: it's a way to explore something intimate that brings you great pleasure and deepening your connection.

I wouldn't exactly call my experiences a success story, but I was fortunate enough during my 20's, and early 30's, to have met a small handful of women, who I introduced to rectal temp. taking, some of which were hesitant at first, but ended up enjoying it. I long for those days.

My first time was a girlfriend drunkenly confessing her fetish to me. Of course I indulged.