Enema readiness

Have you ever experienced that?

How do you define it?

What caused or causes that feeling / mood?

How intense was / is it compared to what came / comes next?

You mean feeling like having an enema?

I usually find myself thinking about enemas and only then noticing I actually have to go to the bathroom. So my brain did successfully connect enemas with evacuation to the extent that it now brings up enema ideas when my bowels are full 😉

What comes next is usually the enema and/or the bathroom visit 😉

The mood is triggered often when I have some privacy or when or after I spend some time on zity either chatting or reading discussions posts.

If I have the privacy, usually it is followed by a series of enemas.

If I don't have the privacy for an enema, the feeling is still nice and make me day dream of my next one.

At the moment I feel ready mostly when I am in mood to.

Privacy and enough time to enjoy is another criteria.

Sometimes the motivation is enriched while being in chat with others or together with a special person I would like to enjoy a cleansing session with.

Rarely there are situations, where either constipation occurs or if another digestion problem seems to come up.

I have also heard from others that they do enemas on a regular basis... when they were brought up with that procedure, or when planning to be anally penetrated (anal intercourse). In some cases i also heard that there are people who are not able to use public toilets and try to avoid any situation to feel the need to defecate on a public WC.

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(German slang ... "Meinen Senf dazu geben")

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rodyrod

There IS a certain mood/mindset/thought system I have to get into when taking an enema.

Sometimes it can take several minutes.

Especially now that I have to be in "Boss" mode on the cell and laptop. then flip to "mom mode" Then to enema taking mode, all in the course of a morning

Yes being in the right mood, having the right mind set is very important to me, I have always found the mental aspect as important as the physical. It almost always starts with the weekend coming, sat morning early more so than sunday, saturdays was when i received the majority of my enemas growing up. Looking the part is important to me, physically i like to look like i did back then, i will usually shower and shave friday evenings. When i wake up on sat i get those nervous apprehensive feelings, what will happen when i walk downstairs, will the announcement be made that i am going to get my enemas? At that point its a loss of control, nothing is my decision any more, its out of my hands. I will be getting my enemas and there is nothing i can do about it like it or not

Reading about enema activity here puts me in the mood!

When I was younger getting in the mood for taking an enema was real easy. All I had to do was just think about it and my mind and body would start to react. My pulse would increase and I would begin to get an erection. The more that I would think about it, the more aroused I would become. Goodness sakes, I wish that it was that easy now. Now, if my wife would play along and build it up to me, I just might surprise myself. But, the chances of her doing that is basically zero. So, I guess I can only dream. But, oh for the memories!

@reddevil said, “Reading about enema activity here puts me in the mood!”

I’ll second that!

So, I guess I can only dream. But, oh for the memories!

You and me both - and yes! Oh for the memories...

My desire for an enema has absolutely nothing to do with constipation or anything else physical. Being mentally ready for an enema can happen at any time. Sometimes all I have to do is think of it. I remember a day when I was at work, on a bit of a boring day and I thought of how good an enema would feel when I got home. I couldn't get it off of my mind and actually started to get wet necessitating a trip to the ladies room to put in a panty liner so I would not get a wet spot on my slacks. I told my boss I did not feel well and was told it was OK to go home. I had a wonderful mid-afternoon enema that did wonders for my attitude.

Often while and after chatting on zity or reviewing the discussions I get the mental craving for an enema. It hits me at other times as well. If privacy permits I satisfy the craving.

Lets see for me , before finishing saying the word enema i will have a nozzle up my cutiehole lol

@Cheryl77177 My desire for an enema has absolutely nothing to do with constipation or anything else physical. Being mentally ready for an enema can happen at any time. Sometimes all I have to do is think of it. I remember a day when I was at work, on a bit of a boring day and I thought of how good an enema would feel when I got home.

Sometimes the desire comes on like you mentioned; yet by the time I get everything all set up and ready I suddenly for no reason lose the desire for an enema. Does not happen often, but frustrating when it does. Kind of like having some kind of mental orgasm, after which the enema desire is gone.

The best way I can define "readiness" is the anticipation I felt the time I was in bed with a 101 temp and my husband called from work and said he would pick up a RX my doctor ordered -- and did I need for him to give me an enema when he got home?

My readiness occurs when I realize I have sometime of mental issue/attitude, which needs an enema to correct. The realization can occur at anytime. Once that happens, all I need to do is break out the equipment, fill up the bag, and get to it. My S/O knows I love a good enema, so no need to plan out schedules. Just do it when I feel like it.

I only like enemas on days that end with a "Y" LOL

When my wife and I play, I like to sit on the back porch where I can see into the kitchen. I love to watch her fill the bag, oblivious to my excitement. Once she hangs the bag in the bedroom, she comes out to the porch to sit with me for a moment and talk about the upcoming enema. I have to lay a towel down on the porch furniture to keep my pre-cum stains off it.

I like to sit on the back porch where I can see into the kitchen.

Yes, seeing things like that from a distance is exciting. I liked doing something similar, but not with enemas, - watching my gal parade around in her bra and panties.. makes it like I'm watching a stranger doing something..

I would suggest that I am always ready for an enema – to the point where I often have to mentally tell myself that I can’t have an enema until X date because I have already taken a series of three enemas each day for two consecutive days. Is there something mentally deficient with me that I desire to take an enema? I don’t recognize that there is, but I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist. I just like enemas because they make me feel warm all over and exceptionally clean when I am done.

In another post the question was asked whether you just gotta have an enema. When the feelings for an enema become more intense for me that is exactly how I feel. In fact, as I sit here and keyboard my response to this post, that feeling grows more intense. I can actually visualize getting down the measuring bowl from the cupboard, taking the bowl to the sink and filling it with filtered water, taking it to the microwave to warm, and, while the water is warming, going to the bedroom closet and pulling down my three-quart silicone enema bag. So, long story short, my readiness is tied to anticipation and mental feelings that I just want an enema regardless of the reason.

If a Top is giving me an enema... i am never quite 'ready.' It's emotionally embarrassing and degrading to me, for lots of reasons, His control over a part of me that has conditioned emotional fear and shame. Even though my mind may know better, my emotions do not. It's also very arousing to me to experience that kind of control from a Top, and to see the lust in His eyes.

None of those things would ever make me feel ready. Depending on the Top, i may feel resigned or He can tap into my emotional submission, but that is a different place for me than "ready."

I don’t take enemas very often, certainly not often enough! Sometimes I’ll wake up in the middle of the night with a strong desire for one but I can’t have one because I never take one when anyone else is in the house. Usually the craving passes but sometimes it’s necessary to masturbate to get back to sleep. The more often these cravings come, the sooner I look hard to find a time when I can take a good series. And just between you and me, that day is coming soon. Stay tuned…

I have often described the need for an enema as an itch that you must absolutely scratch. It does not happen very often, but when it does, it become almost an obsession.

Other times, an enema is like a prophylactic which I take if I know I'll be away from plumbing for a while. Sometimes it is just because I realize I have not gone for a while and a quick bagful would be in order.

Finally, sometimes when the opportunity presents itself and I have some privacy, I may opt to spend time with a bagful of warm water and baking soda.

Very different than the very real medical need when I have a bout of IBS. The discomfort and cramps puts me in readiness very quickly!

jd

I am always ready to administer an enema to a male especially if it's his first one. Their is something about being in control of his ass and making him hold it . A lot of guy's will squirm and moan and curse out loud which really makes for an exciting scenario than I follow them into the bathroom holding the bag and nozzle in their rectum until we reach the toilet. I usually stay with them while they expel the water, watching them push it out. Listening to them complaining about how good it feel's and how amazing their insides feel.

It's not just the fasting. There IS more to it, a mindset that you have to be in. The fasting is a great time to get yourself into the mindset you will need for a successful series of enemas.

I like to edge for hours. Sometimes I set a goals or rules for myself like no orgasm until I’ve stretched my anus a certain amount or reached a certain depth with my Njoy Eleven. But it’s so hard to stop myself from climaxing so I’ll take an enema to “cool off” for a bit so I can play for longer.

Some day i’d like my partner to administer an enema, plug me, and force me to hold it. When I do it myself and it gets uncomfortable I let myself release sooner than I should.

Usually when I’m masturbating I’ll start thinking about my childhood enemas and how good that black,curved douche nozzle felt sliding in and out of my rectum and that will cause me to have an intense orgasm! Jerry.

@y23 I'd like to volunteer!!

It seems, I practice staying ready. But have a minder that keeps track and I have to limit my input accordingly, as not to cause unnecessary concerns from the family.

So when the allowable day arrives, I have been setting it up already ready. I also try to save myself for my wife and not go too far with things. She has been suggesting we hang a bag together for the new year's beginning. At my age, 80, being ready gets complicated. For her to fill me and enjoy a squirt from me, is very special for both of us. Her hormones are not what they used to be either and she really needs that extra to feel more confident in life.

My walk in closet has my bags hanging on the IV pole there’s a bin full of silicone nozzles as well as plug and dildo nozzles as well as two other bins full of dildos and plugs and vibrators and estim equipment. So any time I get dressed or put something away I’m reminded and the equipment keeps calling to me it’s only a matter of time.Theres a shelf full of soaps peppermint extract ,baking soda sea salt,epsom salt slippery elm and a great selection of lube lots of lube….. The closet has an entry lock putting the key in the lock is start your engine

When the word is spoken or when the thought comes to mind or when I see a beautiful woman with a shapely bottom.