What got you started into catheters

For me it was around 14 years ago. I had acute urine retention after surgery. So ended up in the ER and they had to insert a foley and send me home with it.

I had a 10 day stay in the hospital after a car accident. They catheterized me when I was in the ICU. Once I was with it and in a regular room, I realized that I started to like the feeling of it in me. While no one was in the room, I would play with just to get some extra stimulus.

I have been thinking of that question and can link some early experiences growing up which I am confident sowed the seeds of my growing willingness to expand my sexual horizons beginning in my 50s and continuing today.

At age 13 or 14 my good grade school buddy had major back surgery including a full body cast.

I remember visiting him at the hospital and asking about the pee bag hanging from the table which was a new sight for me.

What I recall also is he told me he was getting used to it this tube called a catheter (and showed me everything) and that it actually felt good to have it in. That continued for the rest of the summer while he was healing from the back surgery. hmmmmm.

Shortly after that I was playing a game called Kerplunk that used thin plastic picks about 6 inches long which were put into a plastic basket and filled with marbles. Object was to remove the picks one by one without causing the marbles to fall to bottom- but I digress.

So one night I got wondering what it would feel like to stick one or those picks into my little cock which was just beginning to emerge into puberty.

Using vegetable oil as I recall I must have enjoyed the experiment because it ultimately triggered a spontaneous and one of my very first orgasms with ejaculation. I shared this little discovery with a few buddies in mutual play as it seemed I and we had near perpetual erections and multiple Jack off sessions a day back in those days.

Next at age 16 I was accepted and trained as Volunteer Assistant Orderly in a program at local hospital where I worked for over a year. I spent Friday nights in ER and Saturday’s in the Kidney and Urological ward. Believe me, that 16 yr old saw more than I should have been allowed to see (but I wanted to become a doctor I thought) including a whole lot of foley cath insertions m/f as well as cath care, flushes and removal. I was both intrigued and wondered how painful it must have been for the patients based on some reactions I would often see.

I am convinced those early experiences triggered something in my brain that caused me in my 50s to begin learning about and playing with my urethra using sounds and catheters for sexual arousal and enjoyment. I think I was determined to change my early perceptions of a painful and terrifying experience with sounds or catheters into just the opposite- Pure (or mostly) pleasure. Mission accomplished.

No dire medical pronlems at all. I acquired an enema and med fet friend. We played with all sorts of cathing and sounding. Even did sterile water bladder inflations. Very adventurous stuff back then in the '90s. Few sources for catheters. I was able to find a guy who sold kits on the internet. Expensive but discrete.

If I recall correctly I worked up to a 16 fr. catheter from a 12 using sounds. I would keep it in overnight sometimes. Lol, even went out with it for short errands. We had very good med fet fun for the year or so that it lasted.

Paraplegia got me into catheters 13 years ago as a result of motorcycle accident. I was 43.

I was introduced to them by the catheter team at Mayo Clinic every 4 hours. Every 4 hours a cath tech would come to my room and cath me for over 3 months. Now I do it myself. Sometimes a nurse will do it for a urine sample when one is needed at the clinic. If they offer, I almost always let them, just for the experience of not doing it myself.

I would give almost anything in order to pee normally again. I was 43.

An enemate started me off with sounding, then she introduced me to catheters because I didn’t want the insertion to end. With a Foley, my urethra remains dilated as long as my catheter is in. Going through daily life wearing a catheter isn’t a problem. Doing the same thing while wearing a sound, metal or silicone (I’m referring to something without a urine passage) simply isn’t practical. I wear a 30 Fr, 30cc cath.

@sse4me Ig you can take a30 fr catheter, I tink you gf might be able to insert her pinkie and masturbate you internally.

In the 50's everyone got a enema for some reason. Every Saturday night me and my 2 sister's 6 ,8 and me 10 would have to sit on the couch and wait for our turn. One time for me I got my first erection . My mother left me there and fleet the room leaving me to finish by my self. I had dreams that my penis grow very long like 2 ft. Like a nightmare. Them playing in the bath on a Saturday night a toy ran into the opening on my penis . After that I thought about an enema into the urethra a lot. Used artist paint brush handles as they were very smooth and other things. Then at the age of 59 had enlarged prostate and was using a catheter for the first time . Went of using a 18 fr to a 20 fr and now a 22 fr. The prostate massage is good. After enlarged prostate turp I found out that my blatter was stretched out and I was not emepyting all way any got an infection that antibiotic worked well on. So now I have a reason to use a catheter from time to time.

Does the sting ever become less I’m new to this opinions would help me I have a cock cage with a tube for the pee hole but as of now I haven’t been able to get it in

I was first catheterized in the ER after a car accident. When I couldn't pee at all to give a sample, they cathed me with a 18 FR foley. It stung quite a bit, both during insertion and when they removed it a few hours later. I'd always wondered what it would feel like, and I'd finally found out.

@Wezel After several surgeries I use a catheter once a day as a dialator to keep my urethra open. I started with a 14Fr and now use a16 Fr 5 days a week and an 18Fr twice a week. I usually cath with a full bladder and leave it in for 15 minutes or so, moving it in and out an inch or so to keep it lubed.

I had a bit of burning for the first week or so. After that I have no burn st all. I usually drink a 16 ounce bottle of water to have a full bladder. After cathing. I usually urinate about 2 hours later with absolutely no burn or pain. I use either Surgilube packets or H&R lube packets. Lots of lube is important. Also drink a lot of water and stay away from caffeine if you can prior to urethral play. And above all cleanliness is a priority. I wash with soap and water, dry with paper towels. Then wipe the area with Batadyne wipes and use hand sanitizer before insertion.

Be sure to play safe. Urinary infections can be deadly if not treated quickly.

@Wezel

As someone else said. Patience, the discomfort took about 6 hours to not be horrible, as you use it, your body becomes more accustomed to it. The removal part, yeah that was horrible the first few times. I’ve found clamping the catheter, then deflating the ballon after half an hour so pee comes out and lubricates the urethra at the same time, since doing that, I have zero pain after

Ive been into diapers all my life, and have been curious about catheter to make you temporary incontinent with a catheter .

And also my medical fetish made me finally try to have catheter.

A wonderful feeling, but I do it very little and now its several years since last time.

I always thought that injecting the lube with a syringe before a catheter or sound play was erotic. At its best if done by a matronly nurse in full uniform. I had it done by several dom's over the years and once by a retired nurse who was giving me a colonic. The last several times I have had a catheter was for surgery and sure did not get to watch or enjoy it. I do enjoy the feeling and would like to explore it again maybe while getting a enema at the same time. I am not sure why the first time but was suggested by a Dom that I would enjoy it and I did. Still looking for a older nurse to help me out.

@Wezel

As someone else said. Patience, the discomfort took about 6 hours to not be horrible, as you use it, your body becomes more accustomed to it. The removal part, yeah that was horrible the first few times. I’ve found clamping the catheter, then deflating the ballon after half an hour so pee comes out and lubricates the urethra at the same time, since doing that, I have zero pain after

So you deflate the ballon and keep the catheter in for a while until you need to pee and then pee with the catheter still inside ?

And remove it just afterwards?

I keep it in for some time before removing

Curiosity really. And my first play partner who wanted to do it. A large part of it is having someone probe you against your will and giving up that piece of privacy an autonomy and that you just can't achieve on your own. (of course this was still a play based on mutual consent)

Having a wife who is a visiting RN with carh kits available made the curiosity a reality. She offered to catch me but when I enthusiasticly said yes, she reconsidered. I took matters into my own hands.

A few surgeries and urological tests had others csrhing me and enjoyed that even more.

Haven't been able to get my hands on any lately, exploring my diapered side more these days and don't want to mix the two for infection control reasons.

Well I came from the sounding fetish route. But eventually the desire to go deeper led to catheters - somewhat from my own fantasies about being forced to pee. Being somewhat piss shy, a fantasy of being cathed in front of others but a lot of it is really about control of myself and others.