Is it more humiliating in a femdom relationship to be forced to pleasure another guy or receive it?

Is it more humiliating, in a femdom relationship, to be forced to pleasure another guy or to be forced into receiving it?

I think for me that it would be more humiliating being forced to receive. I want to be upfront and say this does not fit into my list of kinks. That said, if I was in a situation like that I think being penetrated by another man would be more humiliating. I say that from a sense of control when control is lacking. If I was forced to give then in a way I would still be the top so to speak. Just to be clear, I mean nothing insulting or negative in my response.

When you say receiving I think you mean the other guy doing the oral on you. Or you being the one getting the pleasure. If your not into it or if you are being the receiver of the pleasure is better.

But from my point of view , I was forced to be the object of being used for pleasure in front of my wife. It was the most humiliating thing zi ever had to endure . I was taken analy and orally and punished on the spot for not cooperating, for not doing it right , for not accepting my place, while my wife watched with other women present.

Either scenario (giving or receiving) would bring with it a good bit of embarrassment and humiliation. But for me personally, I would feel more humiliated being forced to service another guy, either by sucking him off or presenting my ass to him for his pleasure. But at the same time, it would be a very hot scene for me to be forced to do that. I really get off on the idea of being "forced" to do something like that. I wouldn't want to do it willingly. But tie me up in some way and "force" me to do it, that's hot.

Is it more humiliating in a femdom relationship to be forced to pleasure another guy or receive it?

That all depends on whether or not either guy is straight or bisexual.

A bisexual guy probably would NOT care or be embarrassed either way.

A straight guy probably WOULD be embarrassed getting or giving.

Speaking ONLY for myself, being straight, if I were in a femdom relationship and was told to have sexual relations with another man, it would end the relationship with that domme. I would not be the least bit embarrassed, because I would simply refuse.

Speaking ONLY for myself, being straight, if I were in a femdom relationship and was told to have sexual relations with another man, it would end the relationship with that domme. I would not be the least bit embarrassed, because I would simply refuse.

So would I. I'm straight and do enjoy switching but only with a trusted Domme, i.e., a woman.

Eric

@ericmason - So would I. I'm straight and do enjoy switching but only with a trusted Domme, I.e., a woman. Same here! I have to know my playmate very well before agreeing to switch. I have several times, and enjoyed the submissive role every time, BUT my domme knew my hard limits and respected them. If she had brought another man into the session, very shortly there would once again be only one man present: I would be elsewhere!

@ericmason - So would I. I'm straight and do enjoy switching but only with a trusted Domme, I.e., a woman. Same here! I have to know my playmate very well before agreeing to switch. I have several times, and enjoyed the submissive role every time, BUT my domme knew my hard limits and respected them. If she had brought another man into the session, very shortly there would once again be only one man present: I would be elsewhere!

Soapy,

My trusted Domme was always my wife or GF at the time who I already trusted. She knew both all of my kinks but also my hard limits, one of which is no men. She always respected my limits but also was very good at giving us an exciting time by mixing in all my fetishes with the enemas and enjoying pushing the known limits of my kinks.

Eric

For me it is way more humiliating to give especially oral. Sex just feels so good so screwing a guy or a girl wouldn't seem much different to me and I love receiving anal so I don't take that as humiliating but being forced to give oral would be extremely humiliating for me personally.

I could very easily be put in this situation. I have had a guy take me anal & did enjoy when he filled me with his cum. Also I did try to suck another guy off, but he was drunk & pushed me off before I could get him hard 😢! Both were 1 time only. Very soon after I gave my G/F a paddle to use on me we were married! She found that I get hard from being spanked and she gets WET! So being spanked to submission and admitting that I want to pleasure another guy with her watching and have her cheering him on to make me his bitch would not be too difficult for me, i think!??

Receiving it would be no problem - since as a bi I like to receive, but do not like to give.. Often wonder how common is it for bi men to be like me; into getting, but not giving..

Since I have ED, I guess pleasuring another guy would mean giving him a blow job and maybe rimming his ass. To receive it would mean taking his cock up my ass. In my case, I can't differentiate between the two; so, I guess if either was humiliating then they both would be equally humiliating.

For me, it would be much more humiliating to be forced to give a blow job and receive anal sex from a guy. If the guy was dominant as well, it would be even more embarrassing.

I’m straight. A domme or GF would have to encourage me. Giving a bj would be more humiliating than fucking another man in the ass.