When I started wearing a catheter I called my urologist's nurse. I asked some questions, about how often to change it, can I masturbate, can I take a shower and a couple of other questions which I don't remember.
As to how long, she said they usually change a catheter every 30 days or there about. She said 30 days was about normal.
Masturbation, she had to find out the answer, she said the Dr. didn't recommend it. I still did it, I liked having the catheter out when I did masturbate.
She said I could shower, but Don't take a Bath or sit in a hot tub. That was one sure way to get a UTI. (Urinary Track Infection.)
Other than that, she said to keep the head of my penis clean, not to do anything stupid.
In the end, I had a catheter in for 90 days, changing it every 30 days. Save a lot of wash, didn't have many enemas, did plan when I would masturbate, sometimes I would leave it in, other times I would remove the catheter, masturbate, then put a new catheter in me. I took showers since it was cold outside and there was no way to go into the lake. I live on a lake. I can wade into just below where the catheter is, but not swim. I have to remove my catheter if I go swimming. I think the water is too cold right now to do that. We are running about 58 degrees for the lake. Has to get warmer for me.
I really did enjoy a catheter in me. I wore it everywhere. I find the leg bags to be a pain in the but, but the larger ones for bedside use are wonderful. I didn't have to get up at all to go pee and got a good night's sleep.
I have tried both the leg bags and overnight bags(bedside ones), leg bags give you lots of mobility. I just carried the overnight bag around the house.
My wife doesn't care, she doesn't want or desire sex anymore, so I enjoy my catheter wearing and enemas.
Best feeling in the world.