Giving up your last vestiges your independent self to become totally submissive in a relationship

For many submissive and even switches in a sub role one of the hardest things to do for many who desire to totally submit to a Master or Dom .. If you are being honest about it. When one totally submits --you do it from your heart and mind , and must surrender any and all of your personal power, or force you use to shape your own personal destiny. Before you can honestly feel that aura of total submission , that last and sometimes very small but stubborn element of personal power must leave you. Your Dom cannot forcibly take it. You must give it up with your own free will. The best a Dom can only extend a warm pathway and ask for your total surrender. Often you wrangle with the problem, and out the blue, the moment is right ,then you feel the change or u figures out that it occurred hours or the day after.

there is nothing more pleasing to a Submissive than to derive pleasure from giving one's self in total submission to, and also to derive pleasure by pleasing the Dom.

For a Submissive this is a joyous event. Not all achieve this

For many submissive and even switches in a sub role...

You talk of this as though this applies to role playing, yet, part of the post seems geared more to a lifestyle. Regardless, so long as I were allowed to express my own thoughts, I would gladly submit totally to my wife. I would, as part of the agreement either in role play or real life, demand I was rewarded in certain ways for being her submissive. Those ways would be to orally service her to orgasm and to be allowed to "breast feed" from her daily. If I could do those 2 things daily, I'd be putty in her hands and do anything, and everything, she demanded/commanded me to do.

Pees alot we all wish for that and hope to be there subday

I did one time for about 3 years. I totally submitted. Became totally emotionally dependent on my friend's sexual desires. I gave up my wants and needs for no responsibility except to please. To suffer for my friend's wants and needs. My happiness totally depended on my friend's sexual satisfaction. To be used as desired.

I always liked being anxious during sex. I'm not sure why. To be anxious and paying attention to my friend's every movement. Every sexual urge.

We got into ball busting. My balls well being depended on my being attentive, alert, responsive, and hurrying to serve to his every whim. Not just sexually.

I don't know why I liked it. I just loved worrying and being concerned all the time. It kept my focused on him. I loved it. Paying close attention at all times. Being under strict control. He was strict but not cruel or mean.

I had no possessions. No personal space or anywhere to keep any belongs if I had any. I was naked. I didn't have any clothes. He sent my clothes that I came in back to my family nonchalantly. I was not allowed to make any decisions let alone have to make one. I was not even responsible for myself. I was only responsible for his sexual desires.

I did that for about three and a half years till my mom got depressed when my dad got cancer and I had to help take care of my parents.

When my wife reminds me that i am the submissive one "LITTLE BOY" i meekly respond "yes mistress" i

I especially become 100% submissive & resigned to my spankings when she say's " Yes you have been a good BOY BUT I am still going to spank you BECAUSE I CAN & BECAUSE I WANT TO!" !!

My story started about 30+yrs ago just married my 2nd wife she entered the marriage on same footing. Then when I became incontinent and had to return to diapers per her request she [DID] become more dominate. I don't know if me being in diapers makes her more strong, but the male ego is about gone.

I'm totally submissive to my wife and we are both submissive to her family.

I hope you're profile is still active. We have things to discuss.

Kik is CainUser

Was always a submissive personality

My wife expanded and took it to the next level

Physically, sensually, and mentally.

- I now wear diapers full time (could have previously gotten away with just night for my bedwetting but she insisted).

- I wear feminine/cute clothes. Not much masculine.

- she handles all decisions, what to wear, where to go, where to live.

- I have no privacy or modesty around her. She has full access to whatever, whenever.

- sex is for her. I haven't had p in v for 2 years but I giver her oral and use dildos and virbraters on her a few times per week. She will occasionally get me off but usually I'm left to jerk myself.

I like this life. I have minimal responsibilities and have really learned to enjoy. My previous stress and anxiety is nearly gone.

@ explorer902....exactly***

I would be bored shitless with a sub that didn't have some fight in her.I like to take.

I am terrible for trying to top from the bottom.

I give in eventuality after a good switching, whipping or rubber hose beating. Being put in a uncomfortable position and strained works as well; Especially the donkey . I have a love hate relationship with that thing.I love the way it breaks me and fear how much it hurts me. It frightens me and makes me intensely horny at the same time.

I am lifted on by my tits and left hanging over the dulled metal knife edge just inside my vulva while the 14 KG weights are roped to my ankles and 2KG to my big toes I hang by the tits trying not to scream over the ridge while being positioned, then dropped the rest of the way. I cant help but let it out at that point. By 40 minutes I will submit to anything to get off. Often I have the weights removed and my ankles brought up over the tail of the beam then bent backwards and driven deeper into the ridge for being insincere, learning my place while my nipples are pulled and tortured.

I let my dominant do what they want after they put the effort in to properly break me.

The threat can be enough after that for a while.I need frequent reminders who is boss when my collar goes on.

@Bad_Princess And that's what makes you scary and hot at the same time!

Yeah, it's hard to give up and submit. It really takes a lot of trust.