Guys: ever felt penis envy regarding male friends

Hi all,

Did you ever feel a kind of penis envy when you have seen male friends naked? I mean, I am straight, but I had two weird situations: in each I saw one of my friends naked for the very first time and noticed that they had huge flaccid penises. I felt kind on envious of their penis size and was even fascinated by their size. Did anyone have similar experiences?

I grew up feeling penis envy because my older brother had a big penis and I had a very small one. I kept thinking mine would grow eventually but it has remained small all my life. Then I visited with an army buddy once and was very surprised that he was envious of my small one. His was huge and he said he hadn't found a male or female who could take it. That put my envious feeling into proper perspective. I certainly fit into any orifice that I've tried!

When I was fifteen years old muscular boy with blonde hair down to my shoulders, I had attended softball team practice on a Saturday afternoon with a good friend of mine, who was my age, and who was six foot two inches tall with a thin white swimmers body. We went back to his house to shower, and when we got there we discovered that his family was out of the house and visiting a relative's house. He surprised me when he took me into the bathroom and showered with me, and while in the shower he got a huge erection when he was washing my back and plump white bottom. After we had dried off, we went into his bedroom and he had me measure the length of his long and wide uncircumcised penis. I became envious when I measured his erection with a ruler and discovered that it was eleven inches long. My circumcised penis became erect when I held his large penis and pulled the foreskin back and forth. He surprised me when he held my low hanging balls with one hand, jerked them down a couple of times, and stroked the shaft and large mushroom head of my circumcised penis with his other hand. He informed me that my erection was six inches long when he measured it with a ruler.. He told me he liked my penis size because if I ever wanted to put it into his anus, he expected that it would fit inside if I wore a lubricated condom. He had me lay on my side on his bed, and he lay behind my body and then pushed his big erection between my bottom cheeks. He then examined the size of my anus and told me that it would probably take a lot of stretching with butt plugs to get it open wide enough for him to put his erection inside of me. He showed me his magnum size condom that was in a wrapper, and he said that maybe some day he would wear one with me if my anus was able to be stretched open wider.

Apart from one or two highschool acquaintances….

At the start of my fifth year of doctoral school, I was seriously in need of rehabilitation. I was willing to invest major bucks this time out, and I struck up a terrific emotional bond with a psychotherapist I saw the entire school year(he also taught at the university). At spring quarter’s end I made such fantastic headway; he was the first therapist I really opened up to; the next-to-last session, I cried for the first time. We both swam late afternoon at the college’s main pool, and we always saw each other naked. I was always secretly envious of his considerably larger (flaccid) penis.

The pity of it all was, at this time, he moved to Asia for about half a year.

I've never really understood the idea of penis envy, or rather, I understand that some people think big is better in almost everything, but I just don't see it myself.

Even before I started sexual activity I figured that some girls might be put back by a large penis and that they certainly wouldn't care for an anal insertion and maybe not even vaginal. That seemed so utterly obvious.

And even aesthetically, a large penis just looked out of proportion on a normal body.

"I was always secretly envious of his considerably larger (flaccid) penis." - That's the feeling I experienced... It's not about erect size of the penis and it's not about thinking, that women prefer hung. From my point of view erect penis size is pretty insignificant. It's about noticing another guys bigger soft penis and being fascinated by it... quite an archaic feeling LOL

Yes! I think this is a common reaction for most of us "average" sized men. Surely was a focus growing up and less so now since it is what it is! No amount of exercise will enhance my size. Some of those penis growing Ads are hilarious. I feel sorry for those who pay money to improve size. I guess the one thing that seems true is that size and girth varies across the age span. That's rather remarkable as far as I am concerned. No one is precisely alike when it comes to genitals.

I guess there are women out there who find it desirable to have a guy with a huge dick, and so be it. I watch some of these video's of guys with huge penises having anal sex with gals, and I can't imagine it's terribly comfortable unless they themselves have gone thru a lot of anal stretching exercises prior to the anal encounter. I'm not huge myself, but my wife found anal sex with me uncomfortable when we tried it years ago. As they say, each to his/her own. My wife has had physical relationships with a couple other men following her failed first marriage, so it's not like I've been the only man she has ever been to bed with. Unfortunately, my wife isn't healthy now, but we've been together for 34+ years, so I guess my size has been fine with her.

I'm very secure in my masculinity. In fact, I'm put off by too much masculinity. Butr as far as penis envy, no. At least not for reasons around insecurity. More that most of my sexual fantasies (usually penis-to-mouth or penis-to-anus) revolve around my having a big (sometimes pornographically big) penis. And because of spina bifida, I am smaller than normal.

Never felt penis envy or inadequate, as it always seemed longer and fatter because of my slim body... Also, one good thing my 1st wife did when she admitting to cheating on me, was to tell me she missed the sex we had because I was so big...

From the statistics I've read, I'd say I'm an average sized penis, hard and soft. But still, I definitely wish my stuff was bigger. Especially when I'm at the doctor's. Due to anxiety and embarrassment, my penis and scrotum shrink up high and tight. It's terribly embarrassing.

Never felt inadequate in the size department, but I do like the look of a large flaccid dick. We have been watching an English TV programme called Naked Attraction. Basically a dating show where 6 contestants are naked behind individual screens. For a start you only see their feet and lower legs. Then as the show progresses the screens rise to reveal their cock and balls. Then their torsos and finally the head etc. Meanwhile the woman to be dated is eliminating the men at each step of the reveal until she ends with the man of her choice.....fascinating.

We have been watching an English TV programme called Naked Attraction. .....fascinating.

We have or rather had this TV-Show in a German version as well. Quite interesting... some really big flaccid one.

It just doesn't bother me. It is what it is and someone's going to like it.

I have never been dissatisfied with the length and girth of my erect penis, however the flaccid length is much smaller. In colloquial terms, I am a grow-er rather than a show-er. The flaccid size also varies a good deal, being decent when the weather is warmer and I am not anxious or have not just finished a vigorous workout. I have always envied guys whose penises hang large regardless of these factors. Also, I am circumcised and, when erect, the skin is tight on the shaft, but when it is shrunken to its smallest dimensions, the shaft skin bunches up behind the corona. I have always liked the appearance of the coronal sulcus being fully exposed even in the most flaccid state.

I have an 8.5-9 incher so I have never been envious of my friends' dicks. The only one of my friends I see naked is my best friend. He's got a nice one but it is not nicer than mine and I take every opportunity to let him know that.

I am completely satisfied with the size of my penis and never had envy of any others.

Nah, I can hold my own LOL, and have been told it does the job just fine. 😉

As I've posted elsewhere, I underwent early puberty. As a result I did not have penis envy as a child / teenager; but was the object of other boy's envy / curiosity - at least until they went through their own puberty and ended up developing more than me. At that time I wasn't envious of them. However over the years, I've had several partners comment on the smaller size of my penis & I certainly have had some envy of friends who have much thicker and longer penises.

Nope. Never. I measured it once or twice in my teens but don't recall the length. It never worried me (I also had other things, birth defects, that kept me from spending time considering my penis dimensions), and eventually in my twenties I got some unexpected unsolicited compliments on my size from a couple of girlfriends, so that really ended any concern I might have had. Actually, I do remember in my teens thinking that my erections were noticeably curved, and wondered whether it would ever fit inside a vagina, but no GFs ever complained, and on my very first intercourse I learned that it fit just fine and felt good too, for both of us.

Eric

I tried not to look and I was in a lot of locker rooms in high school. There is also an unwritten rule about NEVER looking over or down while in a public facility. Penis envy was never a problem, I'm just happy I have one instead of a vajayjay!

I have heard a lot of bragging before, but I always thought that made up for other short comings. I agree with @Moppys_jalopy. Also I have never had a woman complain about that, or even heard about it...later. 😜

In my prime, I had an average size penis, however with time it seems that my member has slowly and gradually diminished in size. My wife now refers to it now as “a mini weenie”She even suggested that since it’s so small I should wear panties for more support of that little thing. In fact she mentioned that I should tuck it under since it was of little or no use. Teasingly, she also mentioned that a 5year old might have a bigger package. Thank goodness for an educated tongue!

Penis envy no; vagina envy yes - oh, the power of the vagina...

“Guys: ever felt penis envy regarding male friends”

I have never seen any of my male friends - so ??

I wish I was still as big and hard, as I was in my 20's and 30's. Many times, over the first 10 years or so, while having sex my penis would hit my wife's cervix.

My erections now are about the same size as flaccid back then.