So Hard to Find a Doctor!

I agree it is difficult to find one. I tend to be fussy about who I choose, as well. I have only found two good ones in about ten years and believe me, when you find one, they're precious…..

@female_patient I agree…. I have had three long term patients over the years. They were difficult to come by and precious to hold on to. I, too, am very particular and have spent a long time getting to know them and them me before meeting and reaching an agreement for play. And having a clear understanding of each party's limits and desires and the nature of each session is essential.

I’d like to find a female nurse/doc to conduct my first (chat) exam but I can t find one

And here I am a play doc who can't seem to find patients. sounds like we need to get together

I've only played online so far

Its true. Most of people are patient rather. Me too. It is more hard to find a Doc for my age above 40y. Most of Doc prefers younger pacients of course. I am sad that it is probably that a lot of medical employee (i do not say all) like to try this play but it is not so surge that they would make personal advertisement somewhere.

The current pandemic doesn't help. In the present enlightened age--meeting up with a stranger “Doctor” probably has most “patients” nervous. There are some really crazy folk out there. The fear level is there. Nobody wants to be hurt/robbed or killed by some psycho. Mutual nice sounding exchanges of messages/texts/chats does not 100% guarantee in person safety …Doctor/Patient “play” would probably be way down on the general public's list of (erotic) hobbies…It's a difficult scenario. Be carefull and good luck..

From my experience, its always been harder to find doctors than it has been to find patients. Thankfully for me I'm perfectly ok with seeing a male play doctor(I've had the same one for several years now). Craigslist used to be a viable option but that is no more; and it was always a chore to filter out the legitimate inquires from the creepers.

I agree, it is hard to find a play doc. I have only played online before though.

Hmmm maybe I should set up an exam room. 😀

It also goes with orientation and interests/fetishes.

I am a doctor and enjoy meeting women for play exam/fun. Distance and mutual free time can be an issue sometime.

You would probably do well.

We bought a whole house and converted it into a clinic which you see in my screen shots. We could do both males or females and we couldn’t get anyone to show up. They would all chicken out at the last minute. We got tired trying to convince people to come and play so we just used it ourselves and made a bunch of cool videos. One of problems was most people lived too far away. We think another issue was many people were just excited enough with the possibility of playing and the other was maybe they were not who they said that their were.

From my experience lately, most act like they are serious about meeting up but really aren't.

I have been into medical fetish for literally years! I have played with one doc. Here in the UK male playdocs who are willing to meet male patients are very very rare. I have only met one. If I'm willing to switch and be the doc I can find loads of guys, but can I find a man willing to slide a lubricated, gloved finger up my ass and ask me to squeeze? I've more chance of winning the lottery!

I have found that most people on this site are really not all that interested in a person to person meet up, they will say they are (but not really), most are just here to chat and exchange stories. That's all good but my primary interest is to conduct hands on exams. I'm a “doctor” in Omaha, Nebr specializing in male patients (with a clinic set up). If you're in my area (or going to be in my area) I would be happy to schedule you an appointment.

I agree! I think most people here just want to chat and exchange stories and experiences. They talk about meeting but very few do. I have been here 13 years and I only met one person for living meetings. It is sad but it is what it is!

Such cliche but so true, only had one real life meeting and it was fantastic, many years ago. For whatever reason some of us are just poison for whatever reason and it instantly puts us on the black list where no matter what, can't even chat with people. I know trust is a huge issue nowadays but come on? What did we do to be blacklisted? Some of us yes, would agree deserve to be black listed, but a lot of us are good people looking for a common goal.

Have fun and enjoy the experience. Sure time, distance, etc are other issues with being able to have a date with the Play Doc. .

@czracer

Best of luck to you. Actual meetings and hookups do occur via Zity. I know of several.

I've done in person play with two women - one from here and one from Fetlife. I also had a meet up a long, long time ago with another woman from Yahoo.

The weekend from long ago consisted of us switching roles all day Saturday and Sunday. It was a great time! I would do an exam/procedure on her, then she would do it (or something similar) to me.

My Fetlife partner is a patient only. I've operated on her twice.

My Zity partner switches for me. I love putting her to “sleep” and love when she puts me under.

Alas, neither of my partners are available on a regular basis. Hate it that one is 1000 miles away and the other is a new Mom!

Well I suppose it all depends on your perspective. I’ve found it very difficult to find patients. I did manage to find one several years ago that was less than two hours away and we had some AMAZING exams / procedures. Unfortunately it’s a matter of numbers vs. geography. Our numbers in relation to the general population are infinitesimally small, so it becomes somewhat of a needle in the haystack scenario. Despite the odds being an extreme long shot, I keep coming here and enjoying the exchange of information with like minded people in the meantime.

I'm in Florida, but so many playdocs here only want female patients. I am looking for a male doc who gives mens exams

Oh for the days when Craigslist would allow personal ads. I was able to find several “patients” via that means. Yes, you had to filter through the responses to find those who were sincere but there was an ample number of “patients”.

Now apparently the best way you can find a “doctor" or “patient” is rely on Zity or Fetlife. (I haven't had that much luck with either).

Like I said--- oh for the good old days 😃 😃

I find it hard to find patients. Trust is a big factor.

It's hard to find Patients too! The problem is distance, time, trust, venue, poeple showing up!!