Having a accident in the park

Since many of us are 24/7. It is inevitable that a accident will happen unexpectedly. The body does what the body does. I was just in the park and of course I had a accident. Thankfully my wife took me to the restroom and then quickly changed me. It was quicker then the other times. I kind of was unhappy about the accident outside but it just happens.

other have this issue

The only issue had is my diaper leaking. And wet spots on my pants.

Herb - you don't say what type of accident or wether you were in a diaper or nappy. I do hope your wife had taken the precaution of a diaper so don't worry too much about the accident. After all if it has to come out then it has to!!!

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I wear 24/7 but 99% for fun. I do have stress incontinence on rare occasions. I've often times had controlled "accidents" when out; but, never where I've needed to be changed. I don't take extra diapers with me anywhere. If I did soak a diaper beyond its capacity, all I could do would be remove it, clean myself as best I could (as in a public washroom), toss the diaper out, and go commando until I got home. But, I don't really see that happening any time soon. I assume that you, Herb, are incontinent and don't have the control I have. If that's the case, if you wear pull ups, consider wearing 2 of them at the same time with the outer layer of the inner diaper cut in 8 or so places to allow your pee to go to the outer diaper. That basically doubles the capacity. Another suggestion is to purchase a relatively new diaper on the market. It is a pull up with over a 90 ounce capacity. The brand is Dry Direct which is made and sold by parentgiving.com. You can buy them on Amazon; but, you will pay about a 10% premium to do so.

Since having accidents are a common thing and a fact of life for being diapered 24/7 it's a common thing and when I do have accidents, I get changed and get on with life.

I wear diapers during the day and I'm diaperd 24/7. almost always my wife carries a diaper and wipes.

This happened several years ago but I was with a couple of female friends of mine who know that I like to wear diapers and on this particular morning we were at a local park and I was just wearing a tee shirt and my diaper. While we were sitting on the grass talking I wet my diaper but it was decided that I wasn’t wet enough to warrant a diaper change so we continued talking on the grass until about a half hour later. That’s when I got up on my hands and knees and began pushing a load into the seat of my diaper followed by a large wetting. Well at this point my closest friend Sarah says that they need to change my diaper because they weren’t about to get into a car with my diaper full of poop so she asked her friend Stacy to go to the car and get my backpack with my changing supplies in it so that she can change my diaper. So while we are waiting for Stacy to come back Sarah has me lying on my back and is sitting between my legs patting the front of my diaper and steadfastly ignoring some of the dirty looks we were getting from the few people that passed close enough to either see me lying there in my wet and messy diaper or who happened to smell the contents of my diaper. When Stacy came back with my backpack the first thing Sarah did was to give me my pacifier, dug out my wipes and pop the tapes of my diaper pull down the front of my diaper and use the cleaner parts of it to wipe off as much poop as she could before using a handful of wipes to clean all the poop off of my bum. Once she had wiped me clean she rolled up the dirty diaper and unfolded a clean diaper and spread it out on the grass before telling me to lift up so she could slide it under my bum. Then she applied rash cream and a liberal dusting of baby powder before taping me snugly into my diaper. Then she asked me to drop my dirty diaper in the closest garbage can about 30 feet from our spot on the grass. So I stood up and waddled over to the garbage can with my diaper on full display for everyone around to see and dropped my used diaper in the garbage can with a resounding thump, then waddled back over to our spot on the grass. About 30 seconds after I sat down a woman with a baby in a stroller came over to us and asked Sarah, “Isn’t he a little old to be wearing diapers ?” To which Sarah replied, “No, he wears diapers because he likes to. He enjoys wearing diapers and he uses them for their intended purpose.” The woman huffed and puffed and then went on her way. Then we decided to leave the park and we ignored the stares and dirty looks that some of the people were giving me with my exposed diaper on full display.

@herb330 Good thing you were wearing a diaper. Accidents happen especially when away from home. There are a few things that could have contributed to your accident. You could have been too far away from the potty to make it on time. Or you could have been enjoying yourself at the park and not realized that you needed to pee. When you have an accident do you tell someone that you wet your diaper or do you wait for someone to check your diaper?

@horsecat , My wife is only allowed to change my diaper. She normally checks on me when she has a spare moment or else I need to wait ..

We don't spend much time in local parks but we do like to go on hikes in out local mountains or go to the beach. My wife takes my diapers with us and since I do wear cloth diapers and rubber pants all the time, she has needed to change me on our hikes or at the beach. There are many spots on our hikes that offer privacy just off the trail and its pretty easy to lay out my changing pad on the ground and have my diapers changed. A couple of times someone on the trail noticed and asked my wife what happened. She told the lady that "my husband had an accident in his diapers and need to be changed." One person wanted to know why I wore diapers and my wife told her I'm a little immature and sometimes have accidents so its better if I wear diapers. At the beach, we take a large umbrella and if I need to be changed while at the beach, or if I want to go for a swim and have to take my diapers and rubber pants off and put a swim suit on, we just turn the umbrella so it shields us from anyone's view.

When your incontinent there are no accidents , only nature taking its course . Since I my aide transfers me by hoyer lift , what happens in diaper well out stays there till we get home , then I am put in bed and changed after any mess is cleaned , I get catheterized to fully empty bladder before getting new diaper put on me . Since I am positioned ,restrained and immobilized in my wheelchair, very little air exchange inside/ outside of diaper , so no big stink