Anybody here who masturbated late?

Masturbating? Not my thing, I don't even know how to do it properly and I'm too lazy to do. I only tried two times when I was 17 and since I didn't really searched to go far, I suck at it anyway lol

But I don't really see it necessary, does anybody here too started late? Share your points of views peeps! We're chilling here

I was a late bloomer and didn't start masturbating until a few months before I turned sixteen.

I've more than made up for lost time since then.

Same here. In ninth grade at age 15 I discovered how to generate an orgasm while in my tub bathing one night. Right after that a few days later I gave myself my first enema.

Eric

Great question to have posed. I suspect that there may be some differences between male and females regarding this acquired behavior. That said, it wasn't a steep learning curve for me. Wet dreams happened first. I still recall the rhythmic sensations that took over my body during the night only to find wet briefs later in the morning and question what the heck happened. I managed to toss many in the trash until I figured it out. For me, it wasn't something I wished to discuss with my parents but found a friend or two who was a bit more advanced!

Masturbation was also more experimental; a teen boy with an erection is hardly new news. Learning that the erect penis was very sensitive in ways I was unfamiliar led to curiosity and self stimulation. As any male will tell you, it can take some time until you reach a point like no other as the body prepares for ejaculation. With experience, one learns how to intensify the feelings of arousal and stimulation. I also learned that it didn't require much to produce an orgasm.

The experience of discovering my erection had mixed feelings sometimes. The fact that my penis could have a mind of its own was at times embarrassing. I surely didn't want one in the locker room! It was also a major source of concern when seeing the doctor. How do I hide it or would it react? I suppose that is the worry of most teens seeing the doctor and may still concern us adults.

Nick

I was late. Maybe 15. Late puberty so started wet dreams first. And being circumcised I needed lube to get going and didnt work that out for a bit.

It appears that everyone assumes that the initial post was created by a male. The last time I checked with my female friends us guys have no monopoly over masturbation.

I first masturbated when I was around 12. I started to get erections around 10 or so when my mom diapered me at night because I wet my bed. At that time all we had were cloth diapers so mom would wipe and powder me and them pin my diaper on and at some point I started getting erections when she wiped and powdered me, but I didn't know anything about it and my mom didn't say anything at first. But after awhile, as I was entering puberty, and everything was growing including things like pubic hair, my mom explained about puberty and all that would happen as I got older. I was curious and started to touch myself under my diapers when mom would tuck me in for the night and I soon learned what an ejaculation was. I just thought it was fun and I began to look forward to being diapered for bed, and would get pretty excited when mom would touch me all around my bottom and then my penis cleaning me. Sometimes she took a little too long before she pinned my diaper on and she would tell me to relax so she could pin my diaper over my erection. And then every morning when I woke up my diapers would be wet and I would masturbate again before mom came in to take my wet diapers and rubber pants off and help me get ready for school. I continued to play with myself secretly under my diapers usually at night after my diapers were on and again in the mornings. I really got turned on doing it under my wet diapers and frankly still do.

I was a late bloomer. I'm female and didn't start masturbating until my early 20s. Now I love it and have every female masturbatory toy on the market. I think it's a very healthy pass time

I started mmasturbating at 7.

I was really late starting in my 50s. I tried it when I was younger but didn't get anything from it and gave up. I started googling how to masturbate until orgasm around the same time I started having a medical fetish.

I learned sometimes it could take as long as 20 minutes and you have to get in the mood. I started to give up again. Now I know where to massage and rub where it doesn't take that long.

Late, considering I started having wet dreams before i turned 14, and couldn't figure out how to get a handle on it until after I turned 16. By that time, they had become more frequent, sometimes twice in the same overnight. My body was doing this on its own, and I had no control over it. It was scary. And then having to get up in the middle of the night, quietly run water to get it out of my briefs, and find a quiet place to dry them.

It seemed like bedwetting, and a scary thing to mention to anyone, because I was too old for that. But I couldn't stop it.

Then one day after school I lay in my sleeping bag on the floor in my room. My cock started rubbing against the inner wall of the sleeping bag, and I started sliding my body back and forth. Suddenly I exploded. It was then I discovered masturbation, which was at first hands free, as I would use my arms to tighten down the sleeping bag and let my cock rub against the inside of the sleeping bag as I rocked back & forth until I ejaculated.

Eventually I learned to use a backhanded left hand stroke. The wet dreams stopped completely. I was relieved.

I think that period of not being in control of my own body was the eventual onset to early sexual fantasies of authority figures having their way with me with my hands tied behind my back.

Started around 12 or 13 and still going strong! never gets old!

Started early,around 10, no thanks to a degenerate old man in the neighborhood!

Started early,around 10, no thanks to a degenerate old man in the neighborhood!

I started late I suppose, at 15 and a half and then only by accident. Sometimes I wish I had had someone to show me the ropes earlier. .

I dry masturbated starting around age 10 before puberty, but I masturbated properly and ejaculated for the first time a month before my 14th birthday. I then started having frequent wet dreams. I think for teenage boys having very frequent erections that feel nice, encourage them to touch and rub and they soon discover how pleasurable it is. It took me a few attempts over a couple of weeks to reach climax, and I had no idea what a climax was or what would happen when I did reach one, nobody taught me it was just instinctive. But once I had ejaculated for the first time there was no stopping me, it became easy.

For girls it could be different I suppose, although I would imagine they experience that same pleasurable hotness and sensitivity in their labia and clitoris. One of my Dr Philip patients was married at 19 but didn't experience her first orgasm until age 25. She is still very orgasmic now at age 60+ , I can certainly confirm that…On the other hand I also personally know women that despite their and my best efforts have never had an orgasm. I'm not sure why that is, perhaps psychological?

I think for teenage boys having very frequent erections that feel nice, encourage them to touch and rub and they soon discover how pleasurable it is.

While my first time masturbating to climax was at 15 and a half, I had certainly been having erections since much earlier, at least since 10 or perhaps earlier. It was for me just something that happened and which I paid little mind to. I would get an erection when reading books, and not anything special but just books that I really enjoyed or looking at illustrations in comic books or Sunday supplements. I know that the novels of Edgar Rice Burroughs, the Tarzan or Mars series really gave me some hard stiffies, though I bet Dejah Thoris would do that to any kid of any age … ha ha.

I certainly got them in school, sitting at my desk, though what there was to be excited or contented about in school beats me. Maybe I got them from nervousness or just plain and utter boredom.

But even though I had erections, I never did anything with them till much later and then by accident.

Probably a side effect of not having many friends and always moving around a lot and going to too many different schools when young. You never get time to make good friends who show you the naughty ropes.

I’ve been having erections since I was 3. I never forget being aroused at kindergarten when I was deliberately wetting. Frequent erections encouraged me to touch and rub myself in my wet pants since then. I’ve became addicted to that pleasure. But I only ejaculated at 12, rubbing myself in the wet bed I’ve peed on purpose. I associated orgasm with wetting on purpose, then I masturbated everyday in my wet pants or wet bed. I really got turned on deliberately wetting and, being honest, I still do.

I was about 12. But I had erections before then. Just didn’t know what to do with it until one day…..

I wrapped a small ace bandage around it and shot semen across my room onto my desk. Very messy. After that it was all about exploring!

I was 20. Shortly after losing virginity. Didnt really know what it was before that.

Did not masturbate to orgasm until 16.....a long story for another time!

The first time I masturbated to the point of orgasm was at age 14 when I was a high school freshman. I know that by age 10, I was already sporting a full bush of black pubic hair. And I began to engage in body exploration/sex play with boys my age beginning at age six and during all my years in elementary school. But one thing we never tried was masturbating. We simply didn't know about it. And my parents never, ever discussed sex with me. That would have been unimaginable and embarrassing. It wasn't until I began reading books on human sexuality that I learned about masturbation. So one night, while I was taking a bath, I lay back in the tub and tried it for the first time. I held my penis with my right hand, and began rubbing the head of my dick with the palm of my left hand. I kept rubbing and rubbing, faster and faster, and then I was overcome by a feeling that felt almost hallucinatory. It felt so unusual, like an explosion within me, like I was going to black out. And then, semen began spurting out of my dick and all over my hand like a volcano. I was so overwhelmed by that experience. And I remember I started to feel guilty afterward. But then I read that guilt is a common feeling associated with masturbating. Nevertheless, from then on, I continued to masturbate frequently and felt only pleasure from it.

Another thing I wanted to mention about the way I first masturbated - holding my shaft with one hand and rubbing the head of my dick with the other hand. I subsequently learned and switched to the usual way guys masturbate - by holding the shaft with one hand and rubbing with an up and down motion. I have a natural penis, meaning I have a foreskin. I do not use the term "uncircumcised" to describe my type of penis. It's not to say that I don't like men with circumcised penises, because I do very much. I think circumcised dicks look sexy and cute. But circumcision is rare in Europe, Latin America, East Asia, and the Indian subcontinent. I'm American born, but in my culture circumcision is unheard of. The foreskin is full of sensitive nerve endings that enhance pleasure. And that extra skin helps prevent too much friction that can cause irritation. Plus I can always roll back my foreskin to expose my dick head whenever I want to.

I started early, before ejaculating. Haven't stopped since! giggles

I try to get it done before 10pm! 🤣

I did not start late like most here, but some advise is to take a hot shower or bath, self massage with a light lotion or after bath oil and then have a quality silicon personal lube at your bedside. Set the lighting low and light music of your choice. Get comfy on the bed and warm up by lightly touching your nipples and brushing your genitals. Using the personal lube just warm up your body till ready for more... guarantee F or M this will get you in the mood for deeper play or masturbation.

I had no formal sex education from my parents, no talk of ANY kind, just the sex films in 7th grade. They were all cartoons basically they never showed an actual person. They talked about ejaculation but they did not elaborate much. Certainly they did not explain what ejaculate looked like...milky. I started playing with my dick every time I would sneak enemas, rubbing until a clear liquid would ooze out of my dick. It was pre-cum, but I did not know, I thought it was cum. I would usually stop after the clear liquid came out, thinking I had cum and I was done. One time I was doing this and it felt so good I just kept going until I ACTUALLY CAME! OMG!! I almost passed out! I need to add that I was 16 at the time! Right then I realized what I was missing and what I was doing wrong!!! And as they say...the rest is history!

My first masturbation to completion was not exactly an accident because I was sexually aroused at the time but I had no idea what ejaculation felt or looked like. I was 10 or 11when a classmate of mine told me about masturbation and actually demonstrated the motion of stroking his penis. I had not become sexual at that point but had become somewhat curious about other boys and had discovered that I enjoyed seeing other boys’ bodies and penises. My point being, I did not have strong sexual interests to serve as the impetus to cause me to masturbate. In the late fall when I was 11 years old, I had to go to the pediatrician for a physical which was required for sports. I had not been interested in or excited by exams to that point, but I had never had a complete physical exam. This year I was seeing a different pediatrician because the one I had seen before had passed away. The previous doctor had never really had me undress but had just worked around my clothing. The new pediatrician had me strip down to my briefs before he began the exam and did a systematic full body examination which included dropping my briefs to fully expose the genitalia. This was followed by palpation of both testes and the doctor holding the penis to inspect the head and spread the meatus. When I got home from that exam, I was very excited thinking back about the experience and the embarrassment I felt. I went into the bathroom and pulled my briefs down, recalling the events of the exam, and stroked my penis. Suddenly, I got a brand new sensation throughout my body followed by several bursts of semen from the meatus.

I was having wet dreams from about 12 but had no idea what they where or what was happening to me, even started fooling around with a friend at 13 but didn't masturbate to orgasm until nearly 15. No one ever talked to me about sex.

I started early, before ejaculating. Haven't stopped since! giggles

Yup - me too; in fact I had no idea what sex was, but found if I looked at women in swimsuits and focused upon their crotch I would dry-ejaculate faster. (It was the naughtiness of looking at that area that worked for me.)

I was a late bloomer, but I started playing with myself really early, at around 8

the joy of retracting my foreskin and touching my glans and playing made me really at ease and relaxed.

At a certain moment I did experience a real release and 'orgasm' and I have to say I was addicted to that feeling already at that age.

and that never went away anymore.

Ejaculation was not part of it yet, that started at around 14,5-15