Best of Both Worlds

I wear diapers much of the time especially in the winter but I only wet them when it is inconvenient to visit a toilet. I was out all day yesterday so I came home with a very full Tena Slip Ultima but if there had been convenient toilets they would have been used instead. If it is cold at night I will stay in my cosy bed and use my diaper but at other times I will get up and use the bathroom. I was diapered at work all last week but stayed dry (more a less) all the time but as I was diapered I was able to keep my bladder relaxed and reduced the toilet visits. Also no need to be too careful when you finish.

Any one else do the same.

R

I wear cloth diapers and plastic pants nearly 24/7. I don't like being out of them, If I used my diapers freely I'd be buried in diapers to wash. As it is, I wash my diapers every other day and even that is a huge load, Added to that, I'm not fond of diaper rash. I'd love to just forget about having to pee but the reality is it's just too much work.

So, if a bathroom is convenient during the day I'll use it. Unless I'm having play time then I'll wet all the time. If I'm out for long it's likely I'll come home wet. As I age, holding it isn't nearly as easy as it used to be. Any long period away from a bathroom will make me desperate and I give up the fight after a while and wet. Also if I drink alcohol I'll almost always lose a battle with my bladder if a bathroom isn't immediately available.

Night time is when I look forward to a wet diaper. I make zero effort to stay dry. If I wake up at night with the need to pee, I just let go. Usually several times a night. Then just go back to sleep. The result is many times now I've wakened in the morning and realize I'm soaked with no recollection that I wet. It's always a bit of a scare along with a little thrill when this happens.

I love my diapers. Wet or dry.

I have to wear and even if my bladder was good it would be sorely tested in Wales as public toilets are as common as Hens teeth !

For example there is only one public toilet in Porthcawl and apparently that is threatened with closure.

It is no wonder many folks resort to Nappies/Diapers ?

@squirmy go to play store or Coloplas t website and download the Wheelmate app ,it works all over the world and will get you to nearest bathroom and tell you what it offers ,also lets you make favorite lists and you can ipdate the database if you know some that arent listed .

I have to wear and even if my bladder was good it would be sorely tested in Wales as public toilets are as common as Hens teeth !

For example there is only one public toilet in Porthcawl and apparently that is threatened with closure.

It is no wonder many folks resort to Nappies/Diapers ?

I can say the same about huge swathes of London too, or any part of the UK, so just don't highlight Wales as though it is any difference. There are plenty of cafes and pubs in most towns you can use.

Hi SAP and thanks for the advice on the app, that may well help me in the future.

Hi The Welshman yes it is the same all over it was just that Porthcawl was the last place I visited on a trip out and out of all the places in the UK I have visited South Wales was the nicest by far with the friendliest people too.

Love Wales.

Yes, diapers certainly come into their own now that there are so few public facilities. I rarely bother to look for them now.

Well, having the choice is fair enough... but if I'm wearing a nappy I certainly won't look for a public toilet (unless I need a change or #2), or get out of bed to go for a wee (why disrupt your sleep?)

In my experience public loos are, with few exceptions, dirty disgusting places. I tend to shy away from them with the predictable outcome - a wet and sometimes messy nappy. Anyway, why wear a nappy if you are not going to use it?