Sometimes fast to orgasm sometimes slow.

I find there are times that I cum very quickly after vaginal penetration and sometimes I can last a long time and just keep going. Same partner, same foreplay and so on. So what’s the influencing factor? Vaginal condition or PH? Scent? Room temperature? It would be nice to know. Anybody know? Have the ladies experienced this with their partners?

What makes a person cum – and at what speed – not only varies from one person to another, but from one situation to the next. There are as many answers to your questions as there are intercourses and people having it. The more you know your triggers, the more you'll know about yourself and what makes you tick.

The length of time since your last orgasm, what you ate, when you ate, your state of mind during the last 24 hours, the presence of pain or discomfort, your to-do list and many other things affect the speed at which you will have an orgasm.

I have always had a difficult time ejaculating during vaginal intercourse. It has gotten more difficult as I’ve aged. It has certainly caused frustration for me over the years. If I know I am going to have sexy with someone I don’t masturbate to climax for several days so that I can cum with my partner.