Extreme Crime drama fantasy

Probably not everyones cup of tea. And not condoning or supporting rape. But a friend of mine brought up her rape fantasy when we were watching crime dramas on TV. During one show, a rape kit was used during the medical exam and interview.

So, my crazy thought of combining a mock rape fantasy and followed up by a thorough medical exam.

Any thoughts?

I do apologise if this offends anyone. Just as a work of fiction. Extreme precautions and consent advised. Safe words required.

Google “rape fantasy”. It’s a fairly common fantasy amongst both men and women. Wiki has a good description and some article from the UK claims over half the women in some poll have this fantasy. Not sure how many actually act on it. Shortly after we first met I asked my future wife what she would do if I threw her down and forced myself on her. She said she’d fight like hell for a minute or two...then love it! BTW I didn’t and a few days later we had incredible sex!

Just make sure it’s acting out a fantasy and be safe!

Doing something like this without a safe word is not wise.

Not my cup of coffee, but I've heard from quite a few women that they wanted to be abducted & "used" (incl. Rape, anal rape, forced penetration of various kinds), with no safety net, and of course no safe word. Is it something I would do, as a Dom? It's not for me. I am not sure these women were serious about it, either. From personal experience, when I am administering certain punishments, there can be something very primal, violent, evil within my own psyche that gets released. I don't like that side of me & don't want to release it. I fear that I'm dangerous when I'm like that. The "sadist" side of me is pretty ugly. Many of the old "Insex" videos focused on that type of sadism, but even there, some control was present. Let's just say that things can get out of hand, and I don't want that to be me. It hasn't been, and even if the woman wants it, I feel I have to refrain for her preservation and mine.

Safe, Sane, Consensual, right? If everyone knows the parameters, the safe words, etcetera, and everyone is a consenting adult on the same page, then, yeah, why not? Of course it’s not everyone’s cup of proverbial tea, but I think play like this can serve real purpose in catharsis and healing.

I have known several friends over the years that are embarrassed to admit they have this fantasy. My Lover (now husband) and I have acted on this scene. I told him my thoughts after seeing each other for about a year.

My house has a sliding glass door, I leave it open during nice weather. He puts on a dark scary mask and comes in while I am doing chores. I bought him a toy gun and painted the orange tip black. He comes in and threatens me with it ……. and I have to obey. Then he gets rough with me. Rips off my clothes and tells me to not scream or else!! Then has his way with me. Even though I know its him, I get super excited and my heart races.

After living with a vanilla sexless ex for many years …….. he goes crazy for the scenes I create.

We have the typical green, yellow, red safe words. I never get to red.

I love shopping at resale shops. I buy thin tops and misc for him to either cut off or rip off when we have a scene. I LOVE role play !!

@des said

Safe, Sane, Consensual, right? If everyone knows the parameters, the safe words, etcetera, and everyone is a consenting adult on the same page, then, yeah, why not? Of course it’s not everyone’s cup of proverbial tea, but I think play like this can serve real purpose in catharsis and healing.

Safe, Sane, Consensual, right? ---- WRONG!

There is no such thing as "safe sane consensual" when you play hard.

There is only RACK. You consent to things that you know have risks.

Very few things have no risks, and I have to say the most risky were among the most memorable things I have ever done.

@SwitchableSusie

---- WRONG!

There is no such thing as "safe sane consensual" when you play hard.

There is only RACK. You consent to things that you know have risks.

Very few things have no risks, and I have to say the most risky were among the most memorable things I have ever done.

safe, sane, and consensual are the hallmarks of bdsm, so by invoking them I’m immediately invoking a circle of trust and safety. With those as givens, with a trusted, loving partner, this kind of play can be extremely healing. Not sure that I agree that you can disagree with my assertion that I have personally found something helpful and healing, in the safest of situations, with the most attentive and considerate of partners.

In MedFet point of view you can read horror stories from some "developing" countries using abuse, torture and forced examinations applied by "law" reinforcing agencies during interrogations. A few years back it was a scandal in a central asian country where a mid age woman was arrested at the airport for suspected drug trafficking. She was strip and cavity searched at the airport in front of male officers, then taken to a nearby women's prison compound where she was subjected further humiliating examinations and forced enemas for 2 days. Her lawyer encouraged her to file a complaint against the state, and her interview with all details presented in the mainstream media. The "interrogators" just got warnings. None of them lost their jobs. I think these subjects are not really fits in this forum. Unless it stays exclusively on the "fantasy" level.

Most part of our word still basic human rights are not observed at all, and mainly females are subject to similar or even worst experience.

"I think these subjects are not really fits in this forum. Unless it stays exclusively on the "fantasy" level.“

I understood the introduction of this post in that way that rape and other sexual violence should not be trivialized or supported. I understand the fascination for a mock rape. That means I also feel sexual excited if I imagine a man would play a rapist and I play his victim if I can trust him fully and both of us agree. Safety issues and risks are allready mentioned above. I fulfil my dream by writing little stories just for myself. I‘m the protagonist in this stories and my "rapist“ is a very masculine man maybe a doctor and I‘m his "victim“. Of course this is only fantasy. Sexual violence is one of the most destructive crimes. I wish nobody becomes a victim of sexual crimes.

Thats crazy that you ask that question because its something i've been working on - we were going to do a vague re-enactment of the Ealing Vicarage attack after which i'd be examined by a specialist and have photos taken by the 'police' x

@honey_drizzle Are you making a movie about this crime?

Yes i'm going to - it'll just be an amateur low-budget affair but hopefully it will prove popular xxx

@honey_drizzle Interesting! I never heard about the Ealing Vicarage attack before but Jill Saward seems to be a well known person in UK because of her campaign against sexual violence.