Why Are There No Play Nurses?

I have had a number of "medical examinations", always with a male "doctor" and always just the two of us. I would like to experience an exam with a female "nurse" present. It would change the experience totally. I see ads for doctors but never nurses. Why is this?

The only reason I can think of would be that nurses usually work for doctors around here. I did have a nurse ARNP for my primary care provider at the VA for about 20 years but they are in a different classification than a regular RN. She retired a couple years ago and now I have a female doctor whose first language is NOT English and I have a very hard time understanding her.

I also had to find a new family doctor when the new health (non)care system became law and most private practice doctors closed up including mine of 30+ years. Now we have a female doctor at the new, approved, local confederacy of doctors. Both of my female providers have done the DRE on me with no one else present. I don't think they worry much about having a witness present unless they think you do.

The only reason I can think of would be that nurses usually work for doctors around here. I did have a nurse ARNP for my primary care provider at the VA for about 20 years

The OP isn't talking about real medical examinations, real doctors or real nurses. He's asking why there are 'play doctors' but not 'play nurses'. You will also see that the thread has a Roleplay classification tag, so that is another clue as to what he was asking.

The original thread title didn't make this clear, so I've changed it.

That would indeed be exciting to have a play exam with two people attending to your care.

In real life, I go to a female G.P. who always leaves he exam room to get a female nurse to chaperone the genital and rectal exams. I like knowing another female is observing me on the table.

It would be great to take that feeling to the next level in a fantasy exam with a nurse handing the doctor his gloves, the thermometer, speculum, etc.

I note in your profile that you are "bisexual" and that fuels your interest in exam and exhibition with both genders present in a medical role? i can think of a few different switch ups too, e.g. a female doctor and a male nurse.

As an aside, as a male nurse in a hospital, i give a whole lot more physical exams than any of the doctors i work with. When i started my practice i included a lot of assessments that are often not included by others, doctors or nurses, unless there is a cause for targeted assessment. Now, i just do it automatically and it's second nature for me to do so after doing thousands of them. i work at a teaching hospital and often get residents observing while i perform an assessment, and as well common for doctors to be present while i am giving an exam. Some observe and others join in and we give a dual exam. i can't count the number of times i have auscultated a patients lungs along with a doctor. i like the team approach to health care.

Statistically only 4% of women who are interested in kink identify as dom (vs 75% of men). You’re way more likely to find a play doc than a nurse.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unique-everybody-else/201502/personality-traits-bdsm-practitioners-another-look

Statistically only 4% of women who are interested in kink identify as dom (vs 75% of men). You’re way more likely to find a play doc than a nurse.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/unique-everybody-else/201502/personality-traits-bdsm-practitioners-another-look

Not disagreeing that men are more dominant. But in the pro-dom world, it seems there are more female professional doms than men.

My observation - I can't back that up.....

@wino_v2

In real life, I go to a female G.P. who always leaves he exam room to get a female nurse to chaperone the genital and rectal exams. I like knowing another female is observing me on the table.

That's interesting. I've never had a female dr. bring in a chaperone. Maybe I'll make a thread 😃.

11 years ago when we joined this site, we met people on here. We offered play doctor and play nurse team but the guys only wanted me. I am not putting myself alone with a strange guy. Nobody wanted to take the time to get to know us. When even bought a home that we converted into a play clinic with waiting room, consulting office and two exam rooms. People just wanted play mind games with me. We decided to make our own videos there. My sequence of pictures showing me getting a Fleets enema was filmed there. Let's face it there are not that many women who are willing to play other men here. I was very fortunate to meet a Zity member who was willing to take the time to get to know us. Others just don't want to spend the time to meet us so they never make it into our play room. It is my play room and my rules.

The only time I've had a med play exam, it was given by a lady who called herself Nurse XXX and advertised such on her webpage. And from what i remember seeing in German medfet magazines/publications like 'White Rooms/ Weisse (t)Raume', it seems like virtually all the ads were for female 'nurses and doctors'. These were professionals and also conducted other types of dominance games and play ...

Not disagreeing that men are more dominant. But in the pro-dom world, it seems there are more female professional doms than men.

My observation - I can't back that up.....

Which sounds like a classic case of ‘see a need and fill it’. Ie a lack of dommes hence the opportunity for a pro. It could also mean men are more likely/inclined to pay for it.

That's interesting. I've never had a female dr. bring in a chaperone. Maybe I'll make a thread 😃.

I've been seeing her for all of my primary care for the last 3 years. Exams are always one-on-one until it gets to the genital and rectal exams. At that time she always announces what is coming next and says something to the effect of "Okay, I will be right back with a nurse." And she shows up a minute or two later with an assistant.

I had a physical at a different facility 7-8 years ago with a female nurse practitioner who did the same thing. It was one-on-one until she wanted to do a hernia check. She came back with another nurse who held a large white sheet in front of her so she could hear, but not see, what was going on. Was that a nod to my privacy or something? I guess. Sadly, no rectal exam that day.

Good question by the OP. In my stories that I write, there is a medical team: the doctor, one or more floor nurses, etc. Frankly, if I were to engage in a medfet exam or similar, it would be a threesome or foursome, I'd hope.

It could also mean men are more likely/inclined to pay for it.

Bingo. I had the same thought. We are also more gullible and let our little brain trump our big brain so women can exploit us! ?

Bingo. I had the same thought. We are also more gullible and let our little brain trump our big brain so women can exploit us! ?

We appreciate that ?

@wino_v2

I had a physical at a different facility 7-8 years ago with a female nurse practitioner who did the same thing. It was one-on-one until she wanted to do a hernia check. She came back with another nurse who held a large white sheet in front of her so she could hear, but not see, what was going on. Was that a nod to my privacy or something? I guess.

It probably was for your privacy, but wouldn't it have been easier for her to just turn her back to you?

And, with a nod to the Larry Nasar fiasco, what's the purpose of having a chaperone if they don't watch the doctor?

I have had a number of "medical examinations", always with a male "doctor" and always just the two of us. I would like to experience an exam with a female "nurse" present. It would change the experience totally. I see ads for doctors but never nurses. Why is this?

@NeilW Female play doctors and nurses are few and far between, I've never heard of one in the UK apart from professional ladies who would do it for cash. The logistics of arranging a play exam involving 3 people, probably each coming from different parts of the country, would be quite problematic anyway. One of them could easily encounter a problem on the day that would delay them or something, that's life. But if you had a female partner or friend who might be willing to act as a nurse then that might solve your problem....Another option would be to contact male play doctors who examine both female and male patients. One of their female patients might be willing to act as a nurse in a threesome, some women would certainly be up for that but you just need to find the right combination.

I've seen ads for pro Dommes who do some enemas, etc. But never a male. Never see any pro male spankers. Maybe it's too risky for them to do it. Don't know...

I'll give women spankings and enemas, and I'm very inexpensive. 😉 😁

I'll give women spankings and enemas, and I'm very inexpensive. 😉 😁

@mike4

I’m cheaper! 😄

@mike45 said

I'll give women spankings and enemas, and I'm very inexpensive. 😉 😁

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@gwhap said

I’m cheaper! 😄

You can't be cheaper than FREE and I bet many men would go beyond free and PAY the "play nurses".