Enema friend

Have you ever had an enema friend with whom you enjoyed enemas with a sexual purpose? I expect some have had enema friends that did not include sexual reasons, but rather were social or medical. My interest is in the use of enemas for sexual purposes, but were not particularly romantic, and were not expressions of love for one another. I did have such a friend, and we each enjoyed the participation and gratification of enema activity and I guess it was because neither of us had enema activity in other situations. I will add that I never would have an interest is such a relationship with a male. Isn't sexuality amazing?

There was one phase of my Parent's relationship where that was basically what it was.

Not sure HOW it got there or how long it lasted.

It was before I came along.

I once had a lady friend.....she live in la cross, an easy 50 min drive. Amazing mind meld of enema wants and desires. Which eventually led us to touchy sexy moments. But alas, the world turned against us and she moved to Minnesota. If by chance she Is on this site, as a member....it would be nice to chat...?

I have shared enemas with a couple of zity members. The odds of finding these two people without zity would be astronomical. But the relationships are very friendly and just being able to share and chat about enemas with another person who is into them as much as you are is such a delight and turn on. Most of us are giving ourselves enemas solo throughout our lives, so being able to share this time is very special. Both of my friends are men so I liken it to guys who enjoy a round of golf together every now and then, instead sharing a fetish you both love with a happy ending. Very sexual but nothing romantic; just a great deal of fun and pleasure.

Lisa K, Your comment was very interesting, and told of a great relationship growing from a friendship. It looks like a best outcome to me.

Had a few enema friends over the years. I prefer such friendships to be non-sexual, though that's sort of an oxymoron. It would more accurate to say I wanted such friendship to be limited to just enema and perhaps some anal activity.

As posted elsewhere on the site:

Yes. Am straight, but have indulged an Adult Baby friend quite a few times with high volume enemas via large nozzles, tubes etc. He needed some for pleasure and some for discipline. The relationship was reciprocal but non sexual. We were friends with similar interests in areas other than fetish relations. But life goes on and people move on. Hope he's well, wherever he is.

So... I have done that and would do it again with either sex given the appropriate circumstance.

To enemafan00

my Father said several times when I was growing up, "Two complete strangers can have sex, but you have to be friends before you can be lovers, and close friends before you can really have truly good sex."

I've had a couple of enema friends. One was a lady that was married and her husband wanted nothing to do with enemas. We met a couple of times and exchanged enemas, but nothing more. That was a condition of our meeting. The second was a lesbian that enjoyed enemas, so again, we just exchanged enemas at our one time meeting (see lived on the other side of the country and I had a business trip there).

I have had a few Zity friends that participated with me. Sexual was the main reason. I like to get cleaned out prior to sex. My first partner was Buzz who has since passed away, RIP . My current partners, I found out they were on Z.B. after the fact. We met on C.L. before personals were dropped. I have reached out to several others who have yet to get together with me.

I've had a few I met here, and a few I met on Craigslist before the personals were removed. A lot have been connected with medfetish play. Lots of fun, and sometimes great D/s (I'm Dom, which you know if you've read my posts). I'm completely straight, so my experience with males is nonexistent, but I do see that quite a few guys share, as do women. For me, it has to be a woman. It's not a "mommy" thing at all. It's just...I LIKE women, and men...yeah, no. Like a lot of you, I know I'd enjoy sharing with a woman, but for me, enemas are pretty sexual, so that's an issue, since sex with random people is pretty much a no-no. Just enemas, though? Thorough, large, till clear? "have bag, will travel..."

"Some is good, more is better, and too much is just enough..."

I wonder if it would have been easier to find enema friends back in the 1970's or earlier. I wish we could find enema friends to meet for monthly enemas.

I've answered a few ads, but get very few responses to my replies. I wish people would have the decency to at least respond with a "Thanks, but your profile doesn't fit with me." It's rude to just ignore people who respond to an ad.

I would suspect that many of us were very much in the closet back then. My interest was extreme, but until the Internet it was practically impossible to meet other like minded enthusiasts.

Since attending an Efest in Vegas, and realizing there were many otherwise "normal" and professional folks out there, it has been my privilege to cross paths with others who share our interests. It has been easier to establish some friendships online as well.

I found it easy in the late 50’s through the early 80’s to find female friends with likeminded attitudes towards enemas. In that era enemas were commonplace, talked about more openly, and most used them for one reason or the other. It wasn’t unusual, when I was in Junior High or High School too have a conversation about enemas with peers. For example, my siblings an I had friends we shared enemas with as teenagers, weather we were at home or their house. This continued into our twenties with close friends. My sister and the girl I married did enemas while sharing an apartment before we were married. After we married, we had single and married friends my wife an I shared enemas with on a regular basis before we had kids. Since the late 80’s to the present I’ve found it harder and harder to find likeminded females, even in the era of the internet.

I think that must have been how my parent's relationship started. It evolved into something more complex.

@medfedcouple - au contraire: in the days before the Web, finding others with an interest in enemas was extremely difficult! You've doubtless noticed that people who enjoy enemas for their "other benefits" are scarcer than hen's teeth. There were paper publications that catered to "perverts", but they weren't exactly widely available. You had to look hard at a news stand, and probably had to ask the clerk, because such "literature" was frequently kept under the counter. A few local weekly papers (I'm thinking locally of the now defunct "Houston Press".) carried personal ads of a prurient nature, but you wouldn't find those ads in the newspaper that got thrown in your yard morning &/or evening.

I had one starting in h.s. The first time he washed me out was before his bbc shot a big fat load of cum up my ass. The next day, we gave each other enemas, and to help retention, i gave him a nice slow blowjob (man his cock made me gag a lot.) The pressure from my enema made me masturbate. He shot a lot of cum down my throat.

Personals have been removed from Craigslist however now just look at activities,general,and missed connections,it’s all mostly back!

Never found it hard as a teenager in Junior High or High School in the late 50’s an 60’s, because most every family had an enema bag hanging in the bathroom. Enemas were the go to relief for constipation, and conversations about enemas were commonplace. My brother, sister, an I gave each other enemas after we were taught personal hygiene, as did some of our close friends and their siblings. My girlfriend asked me to give her enemas every month for period cramps, thanks to my sister. Every time I gave her a couple of enemas, afterwards, she always gave me a couple. Her younger sister caught us one afternoon at her house, when we forgot to lock the bathroom door. My girlfriend was on the toilet at the time and gave her consent for me giving her sister an enema. When her younger sister asked to give me an enema, she was told, “he’s my property not yours.” Sex was a taboo subject then, enemas weren’t. Unlike today, were enemas are taboo and sex isn’t.

I wonder if it would have been easier to find enema friends back in the 1970's or earlier. I wish we could find enema friends to meet for monthly enemas.

I know in the 1980's before the Internet took off it was easier. I never found a partner on Web, but back before the Web, thanks to the personal ad section in Enema Erotica , I did! I also found lots, and mean lots of men and a few couples, to do things with thanks to personals in other magazines. I was also safer in that since friendships began with hand written (mostly) correspondence, and then some sort of telephone contact, it was easier to screen people.

I have, with someone who occasionally is here on Zity. Our problem is that she lives in two other states, one fairly close and the other distant. She is a wonderful, warm person. So far we have been able to meet only once, but post virus, I hope to see her again. I have placed ads here but no responses. It is quite challenging to find someone interested in enema play and if yes, the type of play that both parties wish to enjoy.

I've been lucky enough to find a play partner that wanted to explore her anal side. Doing enemas and exploring a few new things is exciting for both. This lock down surely doesn't help.

I am fortunate enough to have an enema friend only a couple hours away. It is strictly for sexual release and there are no love feelings. We both get off on enemas and anal play so why not? My wife doesn't care because she does not have to hear me beg to give her an enema.