Male chastity devices

I was poking around on Aliexpress and saw that chastity devices/cock cages are very affordable, and was wondering what the thoughts of people here are on the various styles. I see a plastic one shaped kind of like a mini penis with a hole in the front, one with metal rods parallel to the long axis of the penis, and one with rings that go around the penis (also one that is like the plastic ones but in metal).

Some things are pretty obvious, like the ones that have built in sounds or mini-catheter tubes being a very bad idea, but I don't know much about the other pros and cons. Personally I see this more for short-term play, at least right now.

The plastic ones if you get a decent one are good to find out how you like it. IMO they are not necessarily as comfortable as the metal ones but I have the custom Mature Metal Jailbird Chastity Device and have been able to wear it over 2 months straight. It needs to be a good fit otherwise you will have issues like pinching, cock or balls slipping out. Take you time being as sure as possible. Here are some pics of mine:

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=gallery;ox=showalbum;ax=6771

I have half a dozen 'cock cages' that i bought for myself, all on Amazon, the latest cost $25 and is of great quality. i've seen stuff on Aliexpress that looks just like what you can get on Amazon and i have read that 25% of the vendors on Amazon are Chinese. Frankly, i can tell no difference between the less and more expensive cages. i had a Dom a couple of years back who had me go through the process of measuring for a custom made cage that would have cost $350... not necessary or worth the cost in my opinion.

i have pretty much every style device that you describe: plastic, metal, rods and solid material and one with a removable catheter (which, while it intrigues me and i've tried it is concerning for long term use and UTI).

Personally, i have a whole drawer of toys all purchased in a fit of hormones. i almost never use them on myself because it feels to much like me trying to top or dom myself. Their purchase was out of wishful thinking for someone who wanted to use them with me. This is probably truest about the cages. For me, the cage is one of the most deeply psychologically impacting devices, and i'm very desirous of 'mind fuck' in a relationship. i've tried all of them on and worn each for several hours.

Fit and finish is important. Finding the right sized ring to hold the device on is important to long term use. To tight, and blood circulation is impeded, to loose and the device can be removed without unlocking. Same with the part that holds the penis, smooth is important. Material is important too, especially the more restrictive the device. If it's a tight fit, there is continuous pressure, so even distribution of pressure is important so blood circulation isn't impeded risking a pressure wound.

i was sort of surprised to find that a micro cage was the most comfortable for me long term (i'll attach a link for the one i am describing here). What i found is wearing it has the effect of sort of internalizing the penis into the body, which i found particularly mind fucky and had a few guys comment that it looked like a "clit." i have two micros, the one made of rod material didn't distribute the pressure enough and i see pressure wound potential with that one. The one in the link worked very well, but did find that the little hole for voiding could leave a pressure mark on the soft tissue of the penis... which didn't happen with the urethral tube in. i really liked the urethral tube, but there's risk for UTI with that.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07FQBWVX1/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

When I started having to cath disposable catheters didn't exist ,red rubber Rob Nell was the one you used ,i have 8 of them,after use you boil them ,let them dry and use them again ,do the same with the mini catheter.

For beginner play, you can try the Oxballs Cock Lock Chastity (https://www.liberator.com/oxballs-cock-lock.html). Very stretchy, so little likelihood of injury. Possible downside is that it's relatively bulky...

I've been wearing a MatureMetal Jailbird for the better part of five years now and couldn't be happier with it. Having gone through many plastic and cheap metal ones before, I've gotten my money's worth.

I am curious to see how the much smaller cages on Amazon feel and for $25 there's no reason not to try.

I'm thinking that I'd probably wind up wearing it for less than a day at a stretch, mostly for "foreplay" and to keep myself away from my penis during playtime (probably just solo though).

Enjoy, @moliere, it's all good. I hope you find the feeling of being restricted as good as I do.

I am curious to see how the much smaller cages on Amazon feel and for $25 there's no reason not to try.

As noted (and linked) earlier, my most recent experience with a cage has been a "micro," which is essentially a cap. It has been a counter intuitive experience to wear in some ways. It's the most comfortable cage i've worn and it 'fits' better than any cage i've tried.

i have about 7 inches and girthy when erect, about 3 or 4 when flaccid and decidedly less girth. So, not huge and not tiny. As noted in an earlier comment, what happens with wearing this is the "cap" has the effect of internalizing what i do have, into my body, so the shaft of my penis not forced or contained by the cage, just the head is retained. i find it a lot more comfortable to wear for longer periods. Though i have a little concern about pressure wounds and the urethral opening maybe becoming an issue with extended wear, rubbing, chaffing or pinching have been non-existent for me.

The other is the psychological factor. For me, it sort of makes my penis look like a clitoris... or at least, i've had a few Dom's make that comment. i'm not fem, nor do i have any identity as a female, but for some reason when a Dom uses terms like that on me they push buttons in me that evoke my sub nature and a positive erotic, embarrassed response. So the look of this one figures pretty heavily as well.

Lastly, i have not found myself (able?) getting erect in this one. Not sure if it's coincidence or it somehow effects my physical ability to do so.

I use either the silicone chastity cage with spikes or the full metal cage 24/7 and found that the lock to the metal cage rattles around so therefore I decided to put tape around the lock and it’s a lot more quieter now. I still do get night time erections and it does get painful now and then.

Regarding the cages with catheters or tubes built in, how long have you left them in? I wear my cage for months at a time and am unsure if it's safe to leave tubes or catheters inside for that long.

Regarding the cages with catheters or tubes built in, how long have you left them in? I wear my cage for months at a time and am unsure if it's safe to leave tubes or catheters inside for that long.

I’ve worn mine for several hours at a time but share your concerns about long term wear. I’m sure I’d be removing mine and re-sanitizing it at least daily if I were to try an extended session.

Years ago I developed a chastity fetish and began searching for one that was comfortable and stopped me from being able to masturbate. The first was a mature metal device. It was really heavy, bulky, and I could slip out of it easily. I was so disappointed that I tossed it in the trash. Next I tried an expensive titanium custom device from Germany. I figured it would be light weight. I followed all the measuring guidelines the best I could. It was another disappointment. I could slip out easily and it made an unnatural bulge in my jeans. Next I tried a Holy Trainer. I could escape easily. I emailed the supplier about it and then I spent more money on different size cock rings and tubes. Nothing worked - easy to escape and left a big bulge in my jeans. Then I came across a company selling custom devices made from a 3 D printer. They had styles that work with a frenum piercing. The piercing would keep me from escaping. At that point I talked to my wife about it and she said she didn't want me wearing a device. After all I could cum anyway using a strong vibrator. So we do the honor system which works fine. The idea is that she decides when I orgasm and that's what we do. No device needed. Wish I had not wasted all that money. Should have told my wife about this new fetish at the start. My plan was to get the device, see if I liked wearing it and if it worked, and then tell her.

In the past I have had the plastic chastity cages and always broke so I decided to go for

The metal cages as well as silicone cages and cages with spikes and the penis head so that the spikes dig into the head and I can insert my catheters quite well into my urethra with the spikes digging in and it’s a better sensation. I can wear my cage for a good period of time and the metal cage has got a silicone tube which can be removed if needed.

I have a metal cage that I use sometimes while I am holding an enema.

I have try to wear it for a day and a night but it is not very comfortable and it is very easy to escape from the cage.

Perhaps a better quality will work.

I think that to be sure a cage must have a piercing but I am a little afraid to piece.

Regarding Ternence cages... Having just spent a full week locked in one I thought I might offer my comments on the various Ternence cages I've tried. First off, here's a link to them: https://smile.amazon.com/stores/TERNENCE/page/DAF15518-05E0-4946-A51B-03FE9DF14A19?ref_=ast_bln. By the way, if you are not already using SMILE.amazon.com, please do and choose a charity... don't have a favorite charity? Then select Shriners Hospitals for Children.

My favorite cage by far is the Mature Metal JailBird which I've owned for more years than I can remember, and have worn for many months 24/7. Even then, the only reasons I remove it are for doctors, shaving, swimming and skiing. The JailBird cost over $300 and was custom sized. It's the most comfortable cage I've ever worn for long-term use and well worth the cost (imho). I did, however, want to try other cages and the cost & selection of the Ternence were very appealing.

Given all of that, the Ternence B07K13SF32 (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07K13SF32/ref=emc_b_5_t?th=1) is the most comfortable cage I've worn, besides the JailBird. Eight days on, very comfortable and little bulge (actually less bulge than most others due to the sideways lock. Smart. The biggest downside to this cage is the hinged ring. Although getting a closed-ring on can be a challenge, holding the hinged ring closed while fitting the cage on while not getting pinched by the pins on the back of the cage while fitting in the sideways lock while trying to remember why I'm doing all of this required more skill and patience than I had expected. My suggestion based on experience: with a little lotion, get the cage on first, then deal with the ring and holding everything together. This cage is a bit narrower than others, which actually feels nice once it's on but makes it more difficult to get on to start with. This cage supports the use of a 4" urethral tube which, I'm happy to say, can be inserted/removed without removing the cage.

The other Ternence cages I tried were the shorter ones... a couple that have been described as "caps" which I don't find comfortable for long-term wear and too easy to pull out of. Someone in here mentioned disappointment at how easy it is to pull out of cages, and that's mostly true. However, remember that we're not the "Man in the Iron Mask" here... this is a game we play with our partners and/or ourselves. Unless you are going to spot-weld something on, you will be able to remove it. That shouldn't take away from the fun in playing with it.

My last comment is to pay attention to the measurements and sizes that Ternence lists. Sometimes they measure length from the back of the pins to the tip while other times it's from the front of the pins. Also, measuring along the top or bottom makes a difference. Basically this is where they fall short: you may have to buy a couple in order to find the size (mostly length) that works for you.

I put back on my JailBird and expect to wear it 80% of the time with the other 20% being the latest Ternence. With and without the tube.

Sorry for being so long... I'll be happy to field any questions and I'll post more pictures to my albums soon.

@Toy_Story said

. . . . Ternence cages I've tried. First off, here's a link to them: https://smile.amazon.com/stores/TERNENCE/page/DAF15518-05E0-4946-A51B-03FE9DF14A19?ref_=ast_bln. . . . Given all of that, the Ternence B07K13SF32 (https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B07K13SF32/ref=emc_b_5_t?th=1) is the most comfortable cage I've worn, . . . .

While not anywhere as effective as a sharp knife, those look like nice male chastity devices.

I will consider buying a few.

I think it will be fun putting them on my husband while he is tied to the four corners of the bed, then sucking on a lemon slice for a minute and letting my saliva ooze out of my mouth and drip onto his penis while ignoring his desire for an orgasm. What the hell, I don't need a chastity device to do that! 😈

Oh Switchable, he'll serve you forever

Regarding the cages with catheters or tubes built in, how long have you left them in? I wear my cage for months at a time and am unsure if it's safe to leave tubes or catheters inside for that long.

This probably isn't TMI for a medfet site lol, so here goes.

First off, i think it's good that you make a distinction between "catheters" and urethral "tubes." They are different in that a catheter goes all the way into the bladder while the urethral tube does not.

The two primary sources of catheter associated urinary tract infections (CAUTI's) is introduction of a pathogen during insertion, or infection from biofilm growing from a pathogen that has gotten into a sterile environment. For instance, evidence based practice avoids flushing a catheter because it can disrupt a pathogenic biofilm that may have grown in the catheter and push it along with the flush into the bladder. In hospital, we do catheter care every shift (every 12 hours) that involves mechanically cleaning the area (the glans) and the cath where it enters the urethra to remove bacteria that may be attached and growing there.

A catheter can remain a sterile environment internally (i.e, the inside of the catheter tube) and the idea behind routine cleaning is to thwart infection from the outside of the catheter surface. Urethral tubes are a different story. They are attached to cages that can grow and convey bacteria. They are an open system vs a sealed, sterile foley catheter system (for instance). One of the ones i have has about a 2 inch stainless steel tube that attaches directly to the micro cage. Sometimes it works as a cath, sometimes it does not. i.e., i have had times when i peed and the urine came out of the hole in the tube, others when it came out around the outside of the tube. Either way, urine is going to get on the surface and if there is bacteria present, it will grow. There are no studies as far as i know of for infections associated with urethral tubes in chastity cages lol, but observationally, the risk is going to be much higher because of openness and greater contact with potentially contaminated surfaces.

I have several, a 4" curved metal one and a 3 1/2" silicone one. Both work well for me and it all depends on your size and purpose for wearing it. The metal one is a bit tricky to put on as it is in two pieces. You put your cock and balls through the metal collar and then slide the cage over your cock until it meets the collar. After you "carefully" attach the two you secure it with a small lock that comes with it. I have found that some guys don't like this type of case as they are really too big or too small for it. If you are on the small side I hear that it easily slips down as it is pretty heavy. I find that when I try to get an erection the metal rubs against my cock so I usually use a jelly to put it on. I also put a rope through the collar and pull it up to attach to a dog collar so it doesn't keep slipping I don't like its weight and the looks of the lock when you are seen in your underwear. Because of its size I wear regular white briefs when wearing it.

The silicone one is easier to put on and is more light weight. Because it stretches it is easier to put on and as you try to get an erection it allows some movement but not enough to get really hard. Just put it on using a water-based lube as an oil base will ruin the silicone. It is comfortable, slips only a little and looks great underwear .

Sadly here the chastity device here is the words back from the female of the house, "get over it". regards, irrigator333

I have no experience but am very curious. Would love to hear the thoughts of more women.