First time submit: what should I expect?

Hi, I am a submissive person but never do any submission in real life. Recently I met someone who willing to teach me to be submissive in real life. But as we were discussing what our first meeting would be like, he said like he would train me till I will never say no to his request and then I will be his most precious slave. Whenever I said I don't think I want to be your slave, he will agree at first then he brought back the term after a few more chats. I don't really like the idea of being slave, I just want to be submissive for him. I afraid that he will eventually ignore my safe word if he think I am his slave. I become afraid and want to cancel but idk what to tell him. He become furious when I ignore his message and call, so I block him. Did I do the right thing to block him immediately? Or should I still negotiate with him that I don't wanna be a slave?

. . . . I become afraid and want to cancel but idk what to tell him. He become furious when I ignore his message and call, so I block him. Did I do the right thing to block him immediately? Or should I still negotiate with him that I don't wanna be a slave?

Yes you did the right thing.

The guy is an asshole.

You need someone who will listen to you and respect you and what you say and who you can trust. I do not see how you can trust someone who becomes furious with you when you are having a conversation before you even meet in person.

You cannot negotiate that you don't want to be his slave. You need someone who will accept what you want and are willing to submit to.

Get rid of this guy. Tell him to fuck off and you will never agree to meet with him.

I hope you didn't give him any identifying information where he could find you.

Jjangsub,

I'm a male switch (likes both doing Dom and sub at various times). Susie is absolutely right (below) about this guy. He needs to respect you and your needs and also your worries or concerns. So far, he already sounds very disrespectful of you and could easily be dangerous. Find someone else and keep asking any questions here you have about being submissive safely.

Eric

You did the right thing. Communication is very important before scening with agreements by both. Never see anyone without a safeword. Never meet anyone right away and I did a back ground check on the man I met here two years ago and still seeing. I met him in public places for three months before we had alone time, and he never pushed me. His role as a Dom is to make sure you are safe, ok and enjoying. Don't be quick to give out your phone number either. There are places you can talk thru Google store that are free and no numbers show up. Be careful, cautious but enjoy

Don't be quick to give out your phone number either. There are places you can talk thru Google store that are free and no numbers show up. Be careful, cautious but enjoy

That's my mistake, I share my phone number with him. I am really an idiot, how can I trust people so easily.

That's my mistake, I share my phone number with him. I am really an idiot, how can I trust people so easily.

Jjangsub,

ARE YOU ALRIGHT, OKAY AND SAFE?

A month ago you were writing about a new Dom who was disrespectful to you and I thought he might even be potentially dangerous. Did you ever break it off with him or actually meet him? You haven't been here for a month and I'm starting to be concerned for your safety.

Please let us know you are okay and anything else you wish to discuss.

Eric