Age play along with regression

I have been approached lately by a couple of subs about age play along with regression. It appears that I am getting asked to assist them to regress to teens in the ages between 13 and 16. Never having done age regression I am not sure what actually to do to assist them? Suggestions?

Never having done age regression I am not sure what actually to do to assist them? Suggestions?

Just don't do it. If this specific practice is not your forte, don't do it. If you have any experience with meddling with the mind, you know just how much damage can be done by missteps. As Nancy Regan was fond of saying, "Just say no".

Just don't do it.

I see the point, but to some degree - we all got where we are by trying something new and a bit out of our 'familiar zone'. That being said - everyone's comfortable with different things - and there's a significant difference between being unsure of something and being uncomfortable with it. Unsure can be fixed with time and communication and learning. Uncomfortable MAY change with time, and learning - but if you're uncomfortable, not just unsure, than it's definitely not something to try - at least right now, until that changes, if it ever does. Only you can answer which applies in this case, so you will need to consider it.

If you decide you are comfortable enough to try, I think the key is (yep, I'm going to say it - the same thing I say everywhere else) communication. Be honest with them. Tell them it's not something you've tried before. Talk to them about how they feel about it - what excites them about it, what they expect in general, etc. Take it slow - start with short, simpler scenes, featuring less intense regression. Communicate AFTER the scene - talk about what happened - their headspace, your headspace, etc. Be open and honest. Make sure that everyone knows, going in, that particularly since you've not tried this before, should you decide this isn't for you and you'd rather not continue, that has to be ok - just as ok if they decide not to continue it either.

With that, you stand at least a reasonable chance at being able to learn something new, and something you might come to love 😃

Have fun, stay kinky!

I certainly did give a knee-jerk answer, didn't I? I think my answer should have stated that I am an age-player. I have had a number of very bad experiences with people who didn't know what they were doing even though our negotiations seemed thorough. It can be a very rewarding experience when the two players get it right. Just please, please do your research, talk to ageplayers both the elder and the younger. Read a lot and look to your own experiences as the older/younger participant in your own life. And my last bit of advise is to know why you are doing this.

Another point I'd like to make is that age regression is a hypnotic practice and age play is just that -play-. Some use the terms interchangeably and that was a part of the reason for my initial reaction.

Hello Lana and welcome to Zity! It appears you are negotiating this forum with finesse after just a month! I'm afraid I've little to offer as Age play w/ regression as mentor... I don't have enough experience to feel qualified. But do not misunderstand; never would I knock anything that has not been tried.

By the way.. have you ever been presented the opportunity of placing a licensed physician into full restraints?

I'm sure you've got the wrong discussion thread, this one is about regression and age play,

If this site has a classifies or a pick up area, this comment/question would be more appropriate there.

Knsh100, reading Your profile, You already seem to be Dom in Your presentation, which suggests to me why You were approached. i have little experience in age play or regression, though as a sub i've been triggered (in an amazingly good way). A few Dom's have discovered an apparently age related button in my psychological make up and used encouraging praise and the term "Good boy!!" which mysteriously transports me. It's a combination of affection and matter of factness on the part of the Dom that seems to make it so powerful. The result for me is: i feel like a kid, i also feel embarrassment (humiliation? the good kind), and with some, adoration for the Dom.

i express that because, like lana peter, i encourage caution. my own limited experience with Dom utilized age regression has been with affectionate, caring Dom's. Bullies or forceful Dom's evoke a kid in me; karate kid. A mean dom is likely to get back kicked into tomorrowland if they try to bully or force me. i've developed some coping skills lol. Seriously though, i can trace my own sub nature way back into childhood. i experienced a lot of bullies growing up, and i have come to believe a lot of that was immature dom kids responding to my immature sub personality. None of us knew what was going on, we were kids. i learned how to hide and bury my sub nature as a kid, and i suspect the reason i can be triggered and regressed by the right kind of Dom is because some part of me wants/needs to experience the acceptance that i didn't get at a younger age?

So, i'd encourage affectionate and caring Domination as a means of regression. i'd also suggest getting familiar with the Erik Erikson stages of psychological development. i've found his ideas and theories very useful in my nursing practice and dealing with patients. For instance, i had one repeat patient who didn't seem to develop much beyond stage 5 ("identity and confusion"), and when he was in crises (i work at a hospital) he would regress to stage 2 (autonomy vs shame, doubt) and would throw tantrums. Understanding his regressed state helped me treat him with understanding. i find Erikson's theories insightful.