We’re in our 50’s, and consider ourselves to be rather kinky. I would say that perhaps 75% of the time we are playing, we utilize props. I’m curious to know if you all enjoy the same simple items to spice up your sexual explorations. Particularly, we love fucking in black light, strobe light, and laser light. First, it was just a strobe light… an expensive one that my fiancé had for Halloween, that you can adjust the timing of the flash. The effect was erotically transcendent. Seeing flashes of your partner moving from one place to the next was fun. The tactile sensations were heightened due to the limiting of the visual element to reinforce the tactile sensations. Getting a blowjob with a strobe light was a blast. Hard to look away.
Next, we turned on her black light, a small 18” single bulb unit again used for Halloween. The spectacular explosion of color and its effects on the human skin is wild. We quickly went from bare naked to skimpy white clothes…sexy things. And subsequently, we purchased extremely exposing all-white or fluorescent colored clothing, G-strings, jocks, crotchless undies and accouterments, creating amazing visuals under the eerie glow of the black light. We had so much fun and so many ideas that we added two more lights… one a double bulb 4’ version and the same in a 2’ version, realizing that with the large one placed on the headboard, and the others scattered about the room at the foot of our bed, we had flooded our room with an erotic purple glow.
Next, we found a dance laser light that had multiple colors and created wild patterns all over the room. It even moved to the timing of any music we had playing, which can create a trance-like state with everything else in play! Needless to say, when it is all said and done, we look like a sexual circus had landed in our house. And the effects are amazing. The light show is more flattering to less than perfect bodies our age. And our minds run wild with fluorescent accessories, body paints, fingernail polish, hair spray and of course, sex toys. Several companies make fluorescent dildos and butt plugs, and watching one glowing like it is on fire disappearing into your ass or partners’ pussy is incredible.
We even use fluorescent temporary tattoos… always a creative add-on to any kinky scene you want to indulge in.
So, anyone else using these easy to acquire, inexpensive additions to their sex playtime? Any other ideas using lights or glow-in-the-dark accessories that we might be missing? The obvious condom from the famous movie is a no brainer… try playing in backlight or just a strobe. It is a game-changer!