Ask my sister to spank me?

Previously I asked who you would like to be spanked other than your usual spanker. Well last night my wife(my spanker) booked a hotel to go visit my sister in a couple of months time. She then asked if I wanted her to ask my sister if she would spank me while we were there?

I said I needed to think about it. It's always been a dream of mine, but what after asking she says no? That means she knows I like to be spanked. I don't know what to do. I want to say yes ask her, but I'm scared. What would you do?

This depends a lot on how close you are to her, how you grew up, and family dynamics. Also on the type of spanking you are talking about. If it’s an erotic thing, where you are going to be getting aroused, no way. You will most likely destroy that relationship and cause problems with your wife.

Otherwise, you could always test the waters by casually mentioning adult spanking in the third person and seeing how she responds. (Best done in person so you can see her face.)

This might be a test of your loyalty. I would never ask my sister to spank my husband and I am sure she would not ask me to spank her husband. I think the answer you would most benefit from, would be, "no honey, you are the only one that I would consider letting someone spanking me!! That privilege or duty is for you and you only!!" Denise

It really depends on your relationship and your agreements on involving other people into play. @Denise has a good point that she is testing you. I would like to add that maybe you should not involve relatives or friends because there is a good chance of ruining your relationship with them as it is very likely that you won't do it again and after it will be weird seeing eachother.

Swinging and involving other people into your relationship requires magical bond with your partner. It is risky of ruining your relationship.

I would like to add that maybe you should not involve relatives or friends because there is a good chance of ruining your relationship with them as it is very likely that you won't do it again and after it will be weird seeing each other.

The discussion at family get togethers could get very tricky and possibly embarrassing if your sister says something.

There's one Zity member whose spankings are a family affair. Makes for very interesting reading. I hope she will chime in here.

Thanks for the comments, I now have to think this is through.

Woman's intuition: if your wife asked you about your sister spanking you, your sister-in-law probably knows that you get spanked at home. Tell her to ask!

Woman's intuition: if your wife asked you about your sister spanking you, your sister-in-law probably knows that you get spanked at home. Tell her to ask!

I concur. I bet she already knows or she wouldn't have asked you. The ball is in your court.

If your wife is truly Ok with it, I would say go ahead and let her ask. If sister says NO, then no harm done. Who cares if she knows, could make future conversations interesting, no?

And if she says YES then you’ve just opened up a whole new set of possibilities.

My sister spanked me once and she got away with it. I spanked her once on a different occasion and our dad gave me a very hard spanking for doing it.

To me it would seem to be an obvious NO. Just seems wrong headed. I can understand an older sister spanking a young sibling who she is watching, but as adults? To each their own, but not for me. Now I have seen a sister allowing her sister to spank her husband in an amateur video somewhere in the past which I would have no problem with. Guess it's just the brother/sister thing that I question.