Extensive bruising after spanking

I'm curious if many of you have had any experience with extensive bruising after spanking. My spanker said he'd never seen anyone bruise as much as I did with little to no swelling. I didn't mind the bruising but he was concerned. We are meeting again and he talked about using a different variety of implements - less wood ultimately and more leather implements. We also talked about using arnica gel and after reading about it, it seems to work for some and not others. Any input, experiences or suggestions are welcome 😃 Just a side note, he is very skilled and gave me a wonderfully enjoyable but painful spanking.

@Redbottommiss, spanking is not my primary interest but I dearly love your avatar.

@Redbottommiss , I have watched spanking porn and seen some severely bruised bottoms and always that was just too much for me and I would never engage in something that hard core.

Then once I was paddled, (wooden)pretty hard( longer and harder was my request) and was not ready to use my safe word when my “dom” stopped. It ended up being a good call on his part as several hours later I became quite bruised and the next day it showed even more. It looked much worse than it was.

I think some people bruise easier than others.

I am curious to know if the arnica gel helps.

Please keep us updated.

Have fun ! 😃

Speaking from experience here, my wife's bottom used to get bruised and quickly, and then in hours would go away. We are not sure if it had anything to do with her taking Aspirin or that she was diabetic which she did not know at the time. Physiology will vary from person to person, as I won't bruise right away. By the time I notice my bruise from whatever I was doing, I have to think back a couple of days to remember what caused them.

Thank you for all of your comments. I'll let you know how it goes today 😃

Arnica is good for everything!!!!

Just dont know if its allowed in USA....

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I didn't mind the bruising but he was concerned.

I think it's a good sign that he's concerned. That demonstrates that he's looking out for you and doesn't want you to be injured.

In my personal experience getting spanked, I've found that I bruise very easily. I believe as others have said, some people just bruise more easily than others. It may also be the types of prescription drugs that you might be on, your age (old skin might not be as resilient) and your overall level of health. The bottom line is that you and your spanker need to do what's right for you and not go too far.

I've given myself bruises that have lasted about a week by self spanking with a 1/2" thick oak paddle. The bruises didn't bother me much. In fact, when I felt them when I was out among my friends, it was like a reminder of my self play session, leaving me more aroused than usual. The only time I worry about it is if I'm going to be swimming at the gym where people might take notice and become concerned. My other paddle is a 7/8" thick, 2.5" wide zebra wood and hurts like crazy with the lightest of slaps. It leaves bruises that aren't visible but you can feel for days.

It isn't only the size of the paddle, how thick it is, what it is made of, or if it has holes drilled through it. It is ultimately how hard you swing it.

I can use any size paddle you want me to use and if you want me to go to town on you, I can make you wish you were dead.

Rounded corners are important because the "edge marks" caused by paddles that aren't rounded on the corners take a long time to dissipate.

...I can use any size paddle you want me to use and if you want me to go to town on you, I can make you wish you were dead.

Am I the only one got very wet just reading that paragraph. To have switch as a mentor 😃

Sure I could take it though.

I have never tried to make bruises, and I think hand spankings are much more sensual for me but that hasn’t kept me from using a variety of implements. Ultimately, I want to please the lady I’m spanking. Some say, “Harder.” Some say, “More.”

Bruising is a sign of a good and effective spanking as far as I am concerned (but only ever in the context of consensual adult spanking). The last caning I received did leave some decent bruises (pictures on my wall) but I don't always bruise as much as that. But, as has been said, whilst some implements can have more of an effect than others it really does vary from person to person.

Bruising is a sign of a good and effective spanking as far as I am concerned (but only ever in the context of consensual adult spanking).

Thank you qualifying that to consensual adults! Excessively spanking children to bruise etc is abuse. No different than punching children a few times except black eyes are more visible in public

...yes, I do get bruises (= in my case, small dark red spots) after said corrective measures by my play partner. Bare hand, over the knee. I cry, a lot; although I'd prefer taking it like a big girl.

It does not happen that often ofc, only if I gave him reason to do so, and I always know when he considers it inevitable. Reason would be not sticking to rules/arrangements and sometimes overly bratty behaviour.

I document them as a reminder to myself. Sitting might be rather unpleasant (same day) and usually they are visible up to three days in which I avoid showing too much of my cheeks in public (e.g. swimming) - always carrying the marks with the thought in mind that it was a necessary punishment to bring me back down to earth, though.

Everyone marks different, and some people’s butts will build tolerance to getting hit if you do it consistently enough.

I know this is an older thread but I felt it worth mentioning that certain medications and supplements can affect this. For women in particular, go to the doctor and see if you are iron deficient (a lot of us are, and if you find yourself cold all the time you most certainly are) and increase your uptake if it is a concern. My girlfriend is pretty athletic and is a nutrition nut but she still struggles with low iron especially when on her period. She can barely bump her knee on a piece of furniture and be bruised for weeks.

I’ve always enjoyed having and seeing a well bruised and marked up bottom. It’s rare that I see a picture or video where I think “that’s too much” and I think the longest I’ve had marks stay solid before they started to fade noticeably was about 5-6 days.

I have several paddles that my wife uses on me, most of them just make my butt very red but one paddle that has holes and is 3/8” thick and is heavier than rest will leave marks where the holes land and cause bruises the next day but will go away in a couple of days. I do like the sting and burn it gives but the wife doesn’t like it leaving marks.

Extensive bruising is a reason I have not spanked my sub recently. He is on blood thinners and I do not wish to cause him any unnecessary health issues that a bruise(s) might cause. Any of our kinky play gives me cause to stop and consider the options of "what if". Causing a slow down or ceasing of certain activities.

It depends on how hard you were spanked, and what you were spanked with in regards to the extensive bruises. The recovery time will tell how extensive the bruises are.

Recovery time depends on several factors and can be as short as a couple of hours to a couple of weeks or more if you were to have gotten a spanking that caused broken and chaffed skin.

If you got a nice over the knee hand spanking

just a hour or two for the worst to be behind you if you got a brush or paddle as well a couple of days before things get back to normal. If it’s the cane it can last for a week.

It depends on how hard you were spanked, and what you were spanked with in regards to the extensive bruises. The recovery time will tell how extensive the bruises are.

Recovery time depends on several factors and can be as short as a couple of hours to a couple of weeks or more if you were to have gotten a spanking that caused broken and chaffed skin.

If you got a nice over the knee hand spanking

just a hour or two for the worst to be behind you if you got a brush or paddle as well a couple of days before things get back to normal. If it’s the cane it can last for a week.

I have posted before but I am shortly going to get the strap which will be a first for me. Normally I get the cane which leaves its own distinctive bruising. I suspect the bruising from the strap will be very different and cover much more of my bottom.