Cleaning after sex

Among the ladies here (or the partners of male participants), who cleans the semen after sex?

My wife often does it because it feels yucky (just externally - at times she has used a douche but it's uncommon), and sometimes does not do it because it feels sexy for her to be reminded she has been fucked. The stains on she sheets are a bit of proof of being treated like a wife. 😉

When I was doing sex work I always kept a large supply of tissues and wet wipes in my bag.

It was a kind of unwritten rule that as the client had paid for sex it was your responsibility to provide cleaning items and to clean up.

Working for an agency was much the same, however usually it was in a hotel room with a shower and bathroom.

Again it was your responsibility to clean both yourself and the client as an unwritten rule, but a matter of courtesy.

Many clients would like you to shower with them, as you cleaned them.

Others would prefer for you both to do it alone.

When I was in a relationship and living with a man, again it was usually down to me to do the washing , and change the bed clothes. !! Lol

Douching after sex was very common before it was determined to be ill advised. That got rid of anything dripping out later. And it was a poor birth control method. The bidet also was handy for clean up.

My husband goes into the shower with me if we are not in the shower or the bath already. He puts two fingers in my vagina and he swirls them around and I like him to take care of me like that. I wash his penis well too and I throughly wash his foreskin which I love doing. We just clean and look after each other really.

Post coital swamp twat. The least pleasant part of sex. I clean the semen off me, he cleans it off himself and we usually fuck on a towel which facilitates wet spot issues.

When I was married, I would be the one to get up and get a cloth to clean us up, but I didn't realize how intimate it is until a past Dom would do it for me! Since I was usually in restraints and unable to. It was actually a great part of his aftercare process.

If the lovemaking has been in the morning and I have to go somewhere, I still will douche. It doesn't take much to rinse yourself out and a pint of plain warm water takes care of things. If I can stay in bed, then draining on the towel we keep there is fine.

My wife used to push a paper tissue between her labia and go to sleep with that in place...

At night, sometimes I do the clean-up in bed with a warm washcloth, sometimes my husband does it, sometimes I jump on the bidet, sometimes we sleep in a pool of semen and vaginal secretions, it varies.

During the day/morning we usually both take a shower unless we were busy working outside and came in for a quick fuck and were going back outdoors again and we would take a shower after completing our outdoor project.

I am a clean freak …. but if its at bed time and we do vaginal sex only, I just go to sleep and if it leaks so be it.

If we have deep anal …….. I always shower. In which is most of the time. (and he always showers after anal)

If its an afternoon delight, we often shower together. And kiss under the water.

We have a bidet in our main bathroom. I had it put in twelve years ago when I bought the house. Those days it was for "apres loo". It still serves that function but now it allows us to wash after "cuddles". So much nicer to be clean and dry than sticky! Can't imagine life without one.

I too have enjoyed bidets while traveling in Europe. My tiny house doesn't have room for one. So I purchased this.

Easy to install and works awesome. and it saves on TP. Great for a rinse after a quickie.

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Just depends on the time of the day. Afternoon or nights, just a tissue or wet washcloth. Of mornings before we get our day started, a shower of course.

After vaginal sex in bed i just do nothing, like the feel off it after, as i fall asleep. If anal sex, i do shower.

At home we just do it on our bed sheets. I fall asleep right after I orgasm so I just leak out and often wake lying on a sticky wet spot. Since I use a diaphragm for BC I always douche in the morning and wear a light days pad. If we have sex in the morning, I have to wear a regular pad until I can remove my diaphragm in the afternoon. If we are doing something kinky,I usually just let his semen dry on my tits or wherever until morning. We fuck on my side of the bed 90% of the time so their are usually a lot of stains on my side by the time our house cleaner changes the sheets every Friday.

If we are staying with friends I always put a towel down to avoid a dried semen spots on their sheets.

Anal is a different story all together. I put down a rubber sheet first. I leak a lot after anal and the leakage smells a bit even after clean out enemas. We usually shower together after we finish.

Dita

OMG!

@Dita, You are one dirty girl!

At home we just do it on our bed sheets. I fall asleep right after I orgasm so I just leak out and often wake lying on a sticky wet spot.

Dita

Semen stains on the bed sheets are part and parcel of a healthy marriage, that's what the bed sheets are there for...

When were going to make love, usually after we both had a bath, my wife would get some tissues or a wad of toilet paper and put it under her pillow. After we had sex, and were ready for me to pull out so we could clean up, she would get the tissues or wad of toilet paper and hold it against her vagina to keep the semen in as she got up from the bed and walked to the bathroom. I just held my penis to keep it from getting on the sheets and also went into the bathroom and waited on her to clean up so I could sit down and clean up. We used a wet washcloth to wash after wiping the cum from her vagina and my penis. A couple of times over the years I had her stay in bed on a towel so I could watch my cum run out of her vagina and then clean her up with my fingers and a warm, wet washcloth.

Cleaning up after sex is the one thing you never read about in stories or articles about having sex. I doubt that you see it in any porno movies either. But it is real life and if you don't get up and clean up, you sleep in a wet, sticky mess. That said, sleeping in a sticky mess is not nearly as bad as waking up with your pajama bottoms stuck to your pubic hair after you had a wet dream during the night. At least my mother never said a word to me about my stiff pajama bottoms when that happened to me. But I did have an older brother who no doubt educated her with his stiff pajama bottoms before I came along. Sometimes when I had a wet dream, I would wake up just as it was starting and get to enjoy the orgasm and yet had time to grab it with my hand as the cum started shooting out, to keep from messing up my pajama bottoms. It was a trip to the bathroom and clean up time in the middle of the night on those occasions.

Highndry: Indeed. Ignored both in porno and in "romantic" novels etc... as many "non glamour" issues about sex.

We always just shared the wet spot - depending which side of the bed it ended up on. We liked to cuddle after sex - so usually we both got it. Showered the next morning.

My wife (when we had sex) always cleaned herself immediately after I came. I always hated that she did this but I came and she’s in the bathroom with a damp wash cloth cleaning up. No cuddling. No basking. Just a quick clean up. I told her how I felt and she told me that she didn’t want cum on her

Sex ed classes in school never teach how messy [good, wild] sex is.

Sex ed classes in school never teach how messy [good, wild] sex is.

Haha can you imagine if they did, kids use a towel or sheet for the wild stuff otherwise you have to lay in wet bed mixed with cum, your own juices and lube or change the sheets in the middle of the night.

I love it when there is a large mess afterward.

Haha can you imagine if they did, kids use a towel or sheet for the wild stuff otherwise you have to lay in wet bed mixed with cum, your own juices and lube or change the sheets in the middle of the night.

Except when I am on my period and we fuck on a rust colored or brown towel, we usually have a wet spot on the sheet that one of us might sleep on. If I am on the bottom, the wet spot might be on my side, if I climbed on top of my husband, the wet spot is usually on his side when it all drains out of my vagina while sitting on his dick. By the time we are done, we could be facing any direction. Sometimes we don't even go to sleep with our heads at the headboard because my husband throws me around on the bed to get into various positions..

By the time we are finished with sex for the night, our entire pubic areas and hands are usually wet and slimy.

I recall that when the class was discussing masturbation, we were shown a film of a young man and a young woman masturbating, which I was surprised to see. One of the sex ed teachers said that sometimes it could be disgusting for the male. I blurted out that it doesn't matter how disgusting you think it is, we all do it because of how good it feels. The teacher told me to see her after class.

SwitchableSusie,

The teacher told me to see her after class.

And what did the teacher discuss with you after class??? You were absolutely right in what you said of course.

SwitchableSusie,And what did the teacher discuss with you after class??? You were absolutely right in what you said of course.

She didn't like having her statement annotated by me. The teacher was about 50 years old, so she was born in the mid 1930's and was too old to have experienced the sexual revolution of the 1960's and 1970's in person as a teenager or twenty-something. She was yet another person who couldn't or wouldn't stand behind what she said or accept what another person with more varied experience said. I feel pretty certain she had ONE sex partner in her life--her husband, and by the time I was in her class I had my way with a number of guys, having had more semen shot at and into me than she probably did. She said most kids did not have the experience or sexual knowledge that I apparently did and I should not to foist my interest or experience with sex on other less informed or less mature students.

Most sex ed teachers in the mid 1980's didn't seem to have a very varied sexual repertoire or experience.

The only times I have cleaned up after sex is if I was on my period and it got everywhere.

Once at a hotel, with a FWB, I unexpectedly got my period as we just arrived, there was no way it was going to stop us!

We did not bolt out of bed to clean up, we both thoroughly enjoyed that after, wild fucking, bliss, cuddling, caressing and kissing before we showered.

I did take the sheets into the tub and gave them a quick wash, it literally looked like a murder scene.

The only times I have cleaned up after sex is if I was on my period and it got everywhere.

I did take the sheets into the tub and gave them a quick wash, it literally looked like a murder scene.

@bridgette

Lol ... Love it Bridgette...A murder scene, that is a classic! 😁

But I know what you mean, no matter how careful you are it does get everywhere when the woman's on her period. But the sensation is divine so it's all good...

When I was in a relationship with a man it was always me and if I did nothing I ended up sleeping in the wet spot. Now when I have sex it is with another woman or myself I sleep in the wet spot and don't mind it.