Ejaculation versus Orgasm

I would be interested in hearing guys comments on sensations experienced during sexual activity, from watching porn films, the impression one gets gives the assumption that most guys have a growing sensation of pleasure leading to ecstasy, however, that is not the experience I have, for me there is no pleasure in the build up, and Ejaculation is just a release of semen and sexual tension.

Except for one occasion, with a tantric practioner, where I experienced waves of overwhelming sensations in my mind and body, which I would certainly call an Orgasm.

Am I odd in my experience, or, generally do other guys have similar experiences, and could it also be dependant on if you are circumcised or not?

Great question. You are correct, orgasm and ejaculation are separate. For men ejaculation usually triggers orgasm as the cock pleasure is so great, butt you can orgasm over and over without ejaculating. Tantric and Prostate stimulation are two most popular methods to learn to separate the two. Dabbled in tantric, butt Prostate play really did it for me. Takes lots of practice to learn new sensations and let them grow to level on par with cock play. Butt once you do they quickly getting much better then cock stim and you have full mind and body orgasms-- over and over!

Cut/un-cut makes no difference. It's really about the mind and relaxing into pleasure cumming from entire body, not just cock.

Up to about age 55, when I’d gotten a near-fatal illness, masturbation had always been purely for relief from everyday tensions; and it also was a great sleep aid. Generally it became a force of habit, mechanical experience. I then became sexually inactive for a full year, no more relationships, then slowly returning to self-stimulation.

Whereas the fulfillment of my solo orgasms depended on a variety of factors—but mainly when I don’t give a damn—I’m now more limited in my options. I almost have to PLAN when I get my jollies, being sure to take my Viagra an hour beforehand. But recently I’ve been able to have a couple of nice, spontaneous quickies without the assistance of a pill. And these last three months I’ve been amazed to find nearly all my self-induced orgasms have this incredible feeling I never experienced anytime in the past—a fantastic tingle that goes through my entire body.

I don’t know if this is some kind of age-marker, or how long it’ll last. I’m 60 now and don’t look forward to many years left for me. But I want to cling to this period and enjoy it as much as I can.