Diaper punishment ideas

I've been open about diapers in my relationship for quite some time now, and have had a lot of fun thus far. But I am looking for some new and interesting punishment/play activities to do with my GF.

I am super into wetting, messing, and just wearing in general (publicly and privately). I also really enjoy experimenting with laxatives. She enjoys seeing me in desperstion, and has progressively gotten a little dominant with me by telling me to hold it, or making comments when I tell her I need to go after taking lax. But her and I could defienently use some punishment ideas.

So if anyone has anything creative, I would be more then willing to try it! I have access to diapers, stuffers, plastic pants, regular butt plugs and a hollow one (for uncontrolled messing), laxatives, and an enema bag.

Hi CsawDL, back when I was a kid I was often made to mess my diaper in front of others which I hated and it felt like a punishment. Maybe get your GF to have you stand really close to her, her sitting on a chair or sofa and you facing her standing between her legs. Have her place one hand firmly on the seat of your diaper and have her tell you to look at her face and into her eyes while you strain and push a huge poop into your diaper. Having to mess in such close proximity is very embarrassing. Feeling her hand mushing the poop in your diaper while you are actually pooping is also embarrassing, especially if she tells you what a bad boy you are and tells you how red your face is. She might tell you to push harder, or she wants to hear you grunting and straining like a good boy. Once you've finished pooping, she could do the same with you peeing for her, place her hand at the front of your diaper while you pee or even more embarrassing, sniff the front of the diaper while you pee. Of course naughty boys who go in their diaper or pants need to get their butts spanked. Possibly she could take you across her lap and smack that poopy lump flat???? Hope that suggestion helps?

Interesting if the diaper (and diaper cover) were to be LOCKED on and permission to use the adult loo must be asked/requested. Permission denied then you are wearing your very own personal portable loo so go ahead and use it. Wearing something oversize to emphasize what is worn beneath is a - what is this a diaper - you are wearing a diaper and it's LOCKED ON - what did you do to deserve this ??? That is oh so cute that short hemmed baby like dress leaving no doubt that you are wearing something really out of the ordinary in adult wear ! That color PINK really becomes you and I must say you really are into this - booties with cute frill ankle sox - a bib with pacifier - and those thumbless mittens to keep everything in check - no short cuts here just the full enchilada in diaper punishment humiliation. Yes I know you are speechless (with that paci) but you seem excited with keeping your legs together as if trying to keep back the flood gates and keeping your rear upended to avoid sitting in the mess you are creating. Too late to use the adult loo now guess it will be clean up in the nursery - but first lets play some games - - - - - you could get used to this - - - - -

To set the stage and make this all that much more fun - load the poop shoot with a primer of suppositories - take a dose of castor oil or alternatively a laxative or a power flush with magnesium citrate - LOCK the diapered gear on and get ready for the circus to begin with the baby elephant dance of the not so sugar plum fairies - since the loo is off limits - no place to sit down and traditionally dump a load - this could be interesting - a whirling dervish done to a new different beat. Just make sure that diaper has adequate room for expansion !

Two things that have fascinated me about diapers and could maybe be used as punishments:

Having someone else wet the diaper first. Depending on personal preference this could be long before hand, while you're preparing to close up the diaper, or even after it's all wrapped up (perhaps using a funnel / hose setup).

Marshmallows. The first person I seriously talked to about diaper play wanted to use frozen marshmallows to insert as a form of "clean" messing when they worked their way out. That comes with a lot of interesting psychological angles, like forcing more in than comfortable, as well as being able to instantly "reload" as soon as you wanted to make it happen again, and sooner or later that bum and/or the person attached to it would be begging for mercy.

Do you wear 24/7? If not, when your GF diapers you there will be certain rules (or goals) that you either know in advance or learn "the hard way". When a rule is violated there is an extension time to your diaper time, or if a goal isn't achieved your diaper time starts over. The punishment need not be time. Perhaps each infraction brings another level of babyhood; i.e. 1 infraction you need to drink from a bottle, 2 you may only crawl etc.

Something that quickly becomes uncomfortable is being forced to lay face down on your wet diaper (the wetter the better) and having it pinned tightly around your face and head. Your stale plastic pants pulled over them. It gets really hard to breath in short order and VERY uncomfortable quickly. The best part is it sounds really kinky and fun until you've tried it for a few minutes. The fun quickly becomes the intended punishment.

Something that quickly becomes uncomfortable is being forced to lay face down on your wet diaper (the wetter the better) and having it pinned tightly around your face and head. The best part is it sounds really kinky and fun until you've tried it for a few minutes. The fun quickly becomes the intended punishment.

I regularly hold my freshly soaked diapers tight to my face so I can suck some of my pee out of them to savor the taste and drink some. This is not a punishment in my book.

There are several options, mostly dependent on how long you want the session to last.

The fastest response is probably from a Fleet enema. The Fleet Extra is the preferred choice because the larger volume goes higher, hence the evacuation is more complete.

A bit slower, but probably more intense, is a glycerin enema of 2 to 4 ounces of glycerin or 50/50 glycerin and water, given with a piston syringe and a colon tube, about Fr 22 or Fr 24 inserted at least 8 to 10 inches.

The next option would be 2 Magic Bullet suppositories, dissolved in 4 ounces of warm water and given as above.

Another option is to insert a number of marshmallows. After a while, they will dissolve / melt and the sugars will cause a powerful urge to poo. They are kinda sticky and messy, but that's what you want, isn't it?

With any of the above, a diaper full of poo is certain within an hour. None of the options are likely to cause a flood of liquid a highly absorbent diaper can't handle. All should cause strong cramping and cannot be resisted.

If you have more time, like a morning to play, consider one of the following, all best started on an empty stomach.

A dose of Castor Oil washed down with coffee or orange juice.

If you want to be sneaky and not have the diaper wearer know they've had a laxative, a glass of orange juice laced with a full dose of Lactulose will produce strong results within about 3 hours. Expect a lot of farting before the pooing starts.

An even more powerful option is a dose of Picoprep. The humiliation can be increased by putting the solution in a bottle and having the diapered person drink it all down. A full diaper can happen within an hour.

My favorite is the overnight session. The person is given a powerful laxative at bedtime. Typically 2 Maximum Strength Ex-Lax, or 50mg of Senna baked into a chocolate brownie, or 4 Dulcolax pills. The person is also given one or two doses of Miralax in a baby bottle to drink with the laxative. The person must stay in bed until you return in the morning. A soaked, fully soft poo loaded diaper is inevitable.

How about filling the diaper with crunchy peanut butter and grape jelly to elicit memories of when they they threw their peanut butter and jelly sandwich on top of their sister's white Easter dress when they caught her stealing their chocolate Easter eggs?

During punishment time it may include a suppository or enema. Both are quite unpleasant .

The only thing that I do not mind is after the mess my wife cleans me up and palces me in a fresh diaper

I wore diapers and plastic panties from age 14 through high school and still do when there is a need. I found wearing diapers much preferable to not wearing them though there was a kink before I started. I started to wet the bed again at age 14. After a couple weeks of this my mother was exasperated every morning so she started to spank me. If she came in and the bed was wet, I'd have to take my pj's and underpants off, bend over the bed and she would then use the strap on me. She had a special spanking strap that she liberally used on my sisters and I. It got so that she left the strap on my dresser because she had to use it almost every day. At some point the spanking started to become erotic for me because I'd get a hard on starting when she would tell me to bend over the bed. That all ended however during the summer of my 14th year. I was spending several days at my aunt's summer home with three girl cousins. The second night there I wet the bed. When my aunt came in I figured I'd be in for a strapping but instead she told me to take a shower. When I was done she walked into the bathroom while I was drying off and handed me a pair of my cousin Cathy's nylon panties. That night she told me she had talked to my mom and had told her that strapping was not the answer but diapers were. She had me lie on the bed while she diapered me with a snug fitting disposable. Then she walked out and came back with a pair of pink plastic panties. She told me that one of the girls had the same problem so I shouldn't be embarrassed. So, the rest of the time there I wore a diaper and plastic panties every night and a pair of my cousin's panties every day. The second day after this I had asked her if I could continue to wear her panties. She agreed but suggested that I think about getting my own. That week was when I first started questioning my gender. I continued to wear diapers, every night for sure and that meant no more strappings. I got attached to the diapers and plastic panties and didn't feel right till I had them on every evening. That is also when I started wearing panties almost every day.

There is no greater punishment than wearing a Depend product you can't depend on .

I wear a diaper on my ass ,so its not on my mind. Depend will be the opposite

I'd can't imagine concealing one under trousers ,imagine wearing one on your head . .

@CsawDL

In your OP about diaper punishment ideas, you mentioned a hollow butt plug. This is an interesting topic because, like having an indwelling Foley catheter, once the device is in a person, they are deprived of all control of that bodily function, a very primal instinct. Almost the first thing a baby really has any control over is their poo and pee, and a hollow butt plug completely strips the wearer of that capability.

Once a Foley is in someone, they will pee. There is absolutely nothing they can do to stop it. They will pee until their bladder is empty, then dribble pee thereafter. No amount of clenching or any attempt to stop the flow makes the slightest bit of difference. Furthermore, with the Foley balloon inflated, it is all but impossible to pee out the catheter. Face fact... you will have no control at all. End of story.

Similar things can be said about a hollow butt plug, either metal or plastic. While they feel quite different... the metal ones feel "heavy" and unyielding, and the soft plastic ones feel somewhat "squishy", either will hold the passage open so there is no chance of any control over your poo. If there is soft poo in your rectum, it's going to come out. It cannot be controlled. If shopping for a butt plug, you might want one with a removable core, to ease insertion.

For best effect with a hollow butt plug in, you want the poo to be very soft, but not liquid. So that pretty much rules out an enema, certainly a large one, but probably a small one too. It'll dribble out and hence won't make you poo, at least not big time.

If you are constipated before the plug goes in, anything that makes you poo is likely to also expel the hollow plug. The plugs don't retain as well as a Foley catheter, which gets inflated after insertion.

So, for best punishment, if you are wearing a hollow but plug is a strong laxative that will make you poo but not result in a very liquid mess. This is not difficult to do, but does take some preparation. That starts two days before your planned diaper session and goes like this.

Two days before, you eat a high fiber cereal for breakfast and/or take a full dose of a fiber supplement, plus an Imodium tablet. Lunch and dinner are high fiber again. The same routine is followed the second day. By now, your bowel should be full of poo.

Assuming the next morning is playtime, after dinner drink two, or even three, doses of Miralax. You should get this down well before bedtime. This will make all that poo nice and soft. At bedtime, take two Maximum Strength Senna pills (50 mg senna total), insert the hollow plug, and put on your diaper and plastic protective panties. Senna is a stimulant laxative, but doesn't soften like Dulcolax, so you won't get liquid poo.. Sometime, in the next approximately 12 hours, you will get strong cramps and uncontrollably fill your diaper with a lot of soft poo.

You will completely lose control and will not be able to stop going.

Just the fact of having to wear diapers 24 hours a day, for me I found that it was already a good punishment for my bedwetting, since she found other punishment for me, when my diaper leaked in bed, she likes making me keep my piss diapers for a few more hours in the morning, because she knows that i hate keeping my diapers wet and cold too long. Or if she surprises me with my hand in my diaper which happens quite often, she tells me immediately that naughty boys like you playing with their diaper or their plastic pants must have their ass spanked, and that I was preparing to masturbate, even if sometimes she is right, I can tell her that it was only to check if my diaper was wet. Especially that it is useless to persist with her because I know that I will never have the last word, instead of spanking, well then i will be entitled to my chastity devise pink for at least 2 days, that just for making me take my hand in my plastic pants, and in addition to complete my punishment I will have to wear pink plastic pants on my diapers for the rest of the weekend?

I agree with SAP. You want diaper punishment?Then use the cheap junk diapers and pull ups from department stores like Walmart, CVS, and Walgreens etc. Put one on , wet it good, then go around do whatever waiting for it to start leaking showing the wetness in your crotch through your clothes for everyone to see. You get what you pay for!!!!

I agree with SAP. You want diaper punishment?Then use the cheap junk diapers and pull ups from department stores like Walmart, CVS, and Walgreens etc. Put one on , wet it good, then go around do whatever waiting for it to start leaking showing the wetness in your crotch through your clothes for everyone to see. You get what you pay for!!!!

I do use 2 different brands of diapers. The Dry Direct are the ones with much greater capacity and are, in my opinion, superb diapers. But, because of the cost, I also use a less expensive brand. If I'm just hanging around the house, working in the yard, or doing other mundane things, that's what I wear. However, if I will be spending a good part of the day with other people, I wear the Dry Direct brand. The reason is the cheaper brand, if I've peed enough into it, has a tendency to sometimes separate where the front of the absorbent portion meets the waist band portion. All of a sudden I have the front of the diaper hanging by itself. Depending upon the clothes I'm wearing that could be an issue. Normally, if I'm wearing 2 diapers (like I am right now and do many nights) I have the Dry Direct brand on over the other brand.

Have you seen this thread?

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=95767

I agree with others about wearing cheap brands. Hopefully you will be caught with a leak and maybe a mess. Make sure everyone sees the wet clothing and maybe get picked on and called a baby

Here it is

https://xhamster.com/videos/nicole-rt-in-a-diaper-position-xh9budm

One of the best/worst punishments I ever endured came from a friend of mine who knew about my ABDL interests. Things got out of hand during an argument we were having and I called her something I shouldn't have. A word I had never used before and haven't used since. After not talking to me for a week despite my many apologies, she finally contacted me. She said she forgave me for what I said but still thought I should be punished for it. I was pretty sure I knew where she was going with this. She told me to show up at her place in my training pants and to bring one of my pampers (ABU cushies) and a doubler (abena M4). I showed up on time and she let me in. I immediately saw a one of her straight backed wooden chairs in the living room, with a hairbrush sitting on the seat. Which I expected. I also saw an unwrapped bar of ivory soap sitting on her kitchen sink, which I also expected. I mean, after what I said, I think a good spanking and mouth soaping was definitely warranted. I just wasn't sure what the diapers were for. She didn't waste anytime. She told me she accepted my apology but that I still needed to be punished for my actions and that because she knew I was still just a little boy at heart that I should be punished accordingly. I must've smiled a bit because she then told me “Oh, you won't be smiling much for the rest of today”. She then led me to a corner, put my nose in it, and pulled down my jeans exposing my training pants. They were pink with cupcakes on them. (I've always had a bit of a sissy side) She only had me stand there for a few minutes when she grabbed me by the wrist and led me to the chair. She told me I knew what was coming and why, and with that pulled me over her lap. We were never sexual together so she didn't pull my training pants down till I was over her knees. She pulled them down to just above my knees. I then heard her open something up, like a cap to something. Next I felt her rubbing some type of lotion on my bare butt. I just figured it was regular lotion to keep my skin moisturized for the no doubt long and hard spanking I assumed I was about to get. She then asked for my right arm. I looked back at her as I gave her my arm and she told me “you are definitely not going to like this one, I don't want you getting away.” With that I felt her index the hairbrush on my bare bottom and then my spanking began. It was by far the WORST spanking I had or have ever gotten. She started off fast and hard and never really broke rhythm. Now usually if you start off like that with a spanking it really hurts the spankee for several minutes and then part of your bottom goes numb because the nerves can only process so much at one time. I figured that's how this would go. I was wrong. Whatever lotion she put on my butt seemed to keep my nerves sensitive throughout the whole spanking. Which means the last minutes felt exactly like the first. I don't know for sure how long it lasted. Not because I couldn't see a clock, I could, it was right in my line of sight over her knees. But because after about 10 min. I was crying and bawling like a little boy should who is getting a good spanking. I was 24 at the time and after about 15 minutes I sounded like an actual 5 year old. I'll tell you how I know that later. After what seemed like forever she stopped spanking me. I couldn't tell right away because my butt was completely on fire. She then helped me up and told me to stand there. I must've looked pathetic and a little humorous because she kinda half smiled. She then took a picture of me from the side with me looking at her. Next she led me back to the corner and put my nose in it again. I heard another picture being taken bit didn't care. My bottom was stinging like crazy. She let me stand there till I had calmed down. Then she pulled up my training pants and jeans and took me over to the sink. I thought this was for my mouth soaping but she got me 2 glasses of water and told me to drink them both and swallow a pill she gave me. I did as I was told understanding now what the diapers were for. I was then put back in the corner for a bit. After about 5 min. she took me back over to the sink and I got my mouth washed out with soap. It was a thorough mouth soaping that lasted a good 20 min. or so. After I thought it was done I told her I had to pee, assumed that would mean diaper time. She said “just go in your training pants little boy, I'm not done with you yet.” I wasn't sure where this was going, so after a moments hesitation I wet my training pants and consequently my jeans as well. She put the bar of soap in my mouth and told me to face her. Another picture was taken. This time I must've really looked pathetic because she laughed. (Obviously peed pants, bar of soap in mouth, and soap suds all over the outside of my mouth and cheeks) She then led me to another corner and had me sit down on the spanking chair. I sat there for 10 minutes with the soap till she brought me over to the sink and allowed me to rinse. After I was done she brought me into the living room again and proceeded to diaper me up with both the M4 and Cushies. After she was done and stood me up, she said in a serious, non-joking tone “I can't believe that at your age you still have and wear actual potty training pants, wet them like a toddler after you get a spanking, and let a girl younger than you put you back in pampers that you brought over in the first place. Think about that. You came over to my place wearing training pants, got them pulled down for a good spanking, carried on like a little boy during said spanking, got your mouth washed out with soap, peed in your pants like a toddler, and got put in pampers that you bought yourself. You're kind of pathetic and you deserve this.” She then snapped another picture. I'll never forget those words mostly because of what she said next. She looked at me asked if what she just said hurt me. I said of course it did. She said “That's what I felt like when one of my best and oldest friends called me what you called me.” (I won't say or write what that word is because she told me if I ever used that word again for any reason, she would do the whole ordeal again only worse. Since we're still good friends I would have to tell her if I did.) She then walked me back to the spanking chair and had me sit. We sat there talking for a bit. It was more cordial now. She asked how my butt felt and told me the lotion was from an herbal place she found online, and it is used to stimulate nerves for healing purposes. She figured she'd try it for a spanking. I told her it worked! She also told me we weren't done yet. The first part was punishing me for using that word. The second part is for making her feel humiliated and betrayed. She then asked how my tummy felt. In truth it had been gurgling for a couple of minutes now. I told her so and she said “Well, when you have to go, just poop in your pants like the toddler you obviously are.” After another 5 minutes I did just that. She took another picture. This one of me filling my pampers. Then she told me to sit down on the chair. The mess I made was soft, but not liquidy, so I wasn't worried about it shooting out of my diapers onto her floor. I'd sat in many poopy diapers before on my own, so I didn't hesitate and just sat down. After 10 minutes she told me to stand up and she brought me to the sink again. She washed my mouth out again for 5 minutes then stuck the bar of soap in my mouth and told me sit back down. We repeated those steps 3 more times for about an hour. After the last soaping she told me to put my wet training pants on over my diapers and to put my wet jeans back on. I did and looked at her questioningly. She said “We're done here, now just to get you home. Walking is the best way." I told her there was no way I was going to walk all the way home like this. She said I didn't have a choice, I had humiliated her now it was time to see what its like. She said she would walk with me and use the back ways. (Its a small town) Or she could call my sister or parents to pick me up and they could see my wet pants, wet training pants, well spanked bottom, and full diapers for themselves. I resigned myself to walking back to my place looking like the toddler I actually was. Before we left she put the soap back in my mouth. I didn't even resist. The walk took only 5 to 10 minutes and no one saw us. The back ways are usually deserted. The surprise came when I got home. My sister was there! She came to visit and I must've left the back door unlocked. (Small town) She saw me and my condition and my friend and started laughing her ass off. My friend calmed her down, explained everything, and asked her not to tell anyone. My sister agreed not to and said I deserved every bit of what I got. My friend didn't tell my sister about my ABDL stuff, which I was thankful for. But she did have me show her my wet training pants (she said they were her nieces) and my loaded diapers. My sister left and my friend said that my punishment was done and we were OK. She told me she was going to hold on to the pictures for a bit incase I say something stupid again. She also showed me a video she made of my spanking. We both laughed, her more than I obviously, as 10 minutes into the spanking I actually did sound like a little boy getting a good spanking. The video and pictures have all been deleted in my presence so don't ask for them and I still haven't nor will I ever say that word again.

@Sean

Two days before, you eat a high fiber cereal for breakfast and/or take a full dose of a fiber supplement, plus an Imodium tablet. Lunch and dinner are high fiber again. The same routine is followed the second day. By now, your bowel should be full of poo.

Assuming the next morning is playtime, after dinner drink two, or even three, doses of Miralax. You should get this down well before bedtime. This will make all that poo nice and soft. At bedtime, take two Maximum Strength Senna pills (50 mg senna total), insert the hollow plug, and put on your diaper and plastic protective panties. Senna is a stimulant laxative, but doesn't soften like Dulcolax, so you won't get liquid poo.. Sometime, in the next approximately 12 hours, you will get strong cramps and uncontrollably fill your diaper with a lot of soft poo.

You will completely lose control and will not be able to stop going.

I tried Sean's 2 day prep, eating food I'd normally eat, plus taking a as dose of Metamucil with every meal. My results were kind of mixed. I hadn't used fiber supplements before, and maybe there is a better one out there. Metamucil turns your poo into an almost Jello like consistency. On the second day, I took the three doses of Miralax after dinner and about 3 to 4 hour before bed. Right before I headed to bed, I took the 50 mg's of Senna, and went to sleep. I had a hard time sleeping because the plug I was using just starts to hurt after a while. I did mess during the night but was not quite the blow out I was anticipating. The amount wasn't that much and was very much just like a thick Jello. Possible failure factors could be the fiber supplement or the size of the internal diameter of the plug. Maybe that's what was supposed to happen, but I prefer the more so blowout type of effect you get with a more liquidy poo. Leaving out the fiber supplement and substituting it with a higher fiber food might yield better results, like using lentils. When I did wake get up the next day, because it was such a slow consistency, I really didn't realize I had messed, or at least not as much as I had, so it was a success in that sense.