Why do women enjoy giving enemas to a man?

First I like to be in control, be it man or woman. Now a guy does have a special thing that woman don't, and that is prostate gland. I love to pre-lube anus before enemas and with the guy its more fun, I can 'accidentally' touch and caress his magical spot and also when inserting nozzle again by 'accident' to hit his spot. Some guys get visible erection too and that as bonus for me. There is nothing better when receiving person enjoys enema, like I enjoy giving it. I especially like using vaginal nozzle, better reach prostate and also gives stronger flow.

Deb,

That was a great description of a truely loving and caring partener.

Your husband is a very lucky man?

My husband is a somewhat reluctant enema patient, but I so dearly love him anyway. He can be sick and feeling awful, no BM since whenever and still tells me, "I'll be OK." It's rare that he needs me to give him an enema, but when I finally put my foot down, so to speak, he knows that the arguing is over, and he becomes an angel of a patient. He's usually so outgoing and talkative, but so quiet and compliant to my every direction when there's a tube up his behind and warm water is flowing into him. Admittedly, I do enjoy those moments of female dominance and intimacy. Frankly, if given the opportunity, I think most women would feel the same way.

My wife is not into receiving enemas at all and does everything she can to even avoid a necessary one.

She does, however, enjoy giving them to me and is really good at it. When I asked her what turns her on about it she told me that just seeing me writhe in sexual agony makes her happy. Between enemas, I make sure to go overboard orally for her and keep her as happy and orgasmic as possible. If she cums really hard she really works the last enema into me with vigor. It is an experience for both of us!

J

My wife says she likes the insertion of the nozzle into me after her lubrication of it followed by my anal lubrication from the nozzle end in a teasing manner with verbal commentary as to what I am about to endure with the enema.

A scrub outfit is often worn by her as she is portraying the part of a nurse having also previously taken my temperature by rectal method with me in the diaper change position on my back with legs up.

The enema is given with me on knees and elbows and of course my genitals dangling and hanging down in full view of her brings about numerous comments and quips to invoke humiliation and embarassment all adding to the experience. Fretter

“As for why I enjoy giving him an enema … it's a matter of taking a somewhat arcane procedure and making it pleasant and enjoyable. All the years of cajoling him to try an enema ended in him actually enjoying the procedure...and I made sure of that!” –Debgurl

Aside from giving an enema for what it's intended “medically,” a very special nurse told me when I had only been married a couple of months, if I ever gave my husband an enema, "Make him love it!” I think Deb must have known the same nurse!!

Vicki V - And just exactly how do we do that?? My wife/ladylove is a willing giver any time I ask, but she's not aggressive and has to be asked. Other than flat out telling her to GET ON WITH IT, how do I get her to understand that I need some “emphasis” from her side to enhance the pleasure/fantasy? I've tried a mild libation (couple glasses of wine) and that generally works fairly well, but she does not “receive” and that closes that door!! Is it a mental/genetic thing or what? She didn't have the “pleasure” if growing up with enemas, mom was not a real “sexual” person so her frame of reference is not “Hot”…but…Got any suggestions? (Probably should be a private chat, but….???

@Vicki_V said,

Admittedly, I do enjoy those moments of female dominance and intimacy. Frankly, if given the opportunity, I think most women would feel the same way.

Vicki you really nailed it. After our grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and we were responsible for ourselves in the enema department. My sister really enjoyed it when she gave me or my brother a couple of enemas after school with her favorite douche nozzle. Of course, the reverse was also true. A year or two into this activity, she was responsible for my girlfriend in Junior High School asking me to give her enemas for period cramps. My girlfriend, ask my sister one afternoon, if she wouldn’t mind giving her an enema, because she had just started her period and hated her mom’s enemas. My sister took the opportunity to use the douche nozzle on my girlfriend and told her about our afternoon activities. This started a monthly routine that lasted through the end of High School.

After my wife an I got married, we occasionally did enemas during foreplay, while having sexual intercourse, or after sexual intercourse. What we did and how we did it, depended mainly on our mood at that particular moment. I know my wife really enjoyed it when I was on the receiving end of her douche nozzle. Of course, the opposite was also true.

Interestingly, my wife hates enemas and never has been able to successfully take one. Only twice since we've been married do I ever remember her trying to take a good enema. However, she gives me enemas regularly- about once a week- and is very good at it. She makes sure that every detail is attended to: making me aware well ahead that she will be giving me an enema and to make myself ready for it by getting completely naked for it; speaking words of encouragement during my enema in a gentle- but firm- manner; monitoring the progress by giving me updates on the shrinking contents in the enema and coaches me on my “panting” to aid in dealing with the cramps. She gives enemas expertly and is consistently dutiful. I am reminded of the enemas I received from mom and from hospital nurses when I was growing up and it is like re-living those days. ….michael https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/16551

I don't. I would if requested to, but it's unappealing to me.