Transgender folks on Zity

I’m curious how many other transgender people are active here? I would love to connect with any of you other kinky trans folk out there. It seems we are rather few here.

I’m curious about those on hormones and if anyone experienced any changes to their tastes in kink. I’ve heard of some feeling new attraction to the opposite gender but I myself have noticed and increase in my attraction to women and recently desired and been very turned on by the thought of dominating women too. My current mistress and play partner asked me to top her one night and it really surprised me how much I enjoyed it. In the past being dominant always felt forced or disingenuous.

Hello. I am a trans gal. I am not currently transitioning tho. Just starting to peel apart that onion with the professionals.

Hallo ladies. I am a out and proud trans woman, since 01-01-2015, I am on HRT (Estradiol injections and progesterone pills) since mid 2015. I am post-op since October 4 2017. (I have documented my GRS in pictures right here on Zity)

I am very much into anal play, by myself with toys, I mean large toys. 😃

I haven't been with partners yet since my GRS surgery. (except for giving one BJ)

This is probably going to change soon. 😃 I hope the guy I am currently talking with is as cool as he says.

Any question, just ask dear.

Erin

Great post. Happy to hear you are doing well

Hi there! I'm a fellow trans girl.

I've found that, over time, I've lost interest in some of my more extreme kinks. But the largest change is still in that of sex drive, as my drive basically switched over to being aroused by emotional intimacy with other people.

I'm a trans guy, and have come across a few other trans guys on here as well. I've been taking testosterone since September 2010. I actually think I'm pretty much asexual, in that I don't think I want to have sex or be in a relationship where sex is involved. As far as I can tell, this is separate from being trans -- it doesn't seem to be that I'm super uncomfortable with my anatomy, it's just that I simply don't seem to have a sex drive. However, I do have a medical fetish, but I think I experience a fetish differently than sexual people do. Happy to connect with other trans people who are interested in talking (about anything, not just about fetish/kink).

I am just coming at as transgender non-binary but starting HRT and looking into top surgery and a hysterectomy. I’d love to connect with other humans and explore what this transition will do to my sexual preferences and kinks. I haven’t decided on any form of bottom surgery yet, but would think it would be interesting as more masculine to undergo play exams with male genitalia as opposed to female

Have had the pleasure of knowing trans, very courageous. two are women to men, one man to woman. all much happier. I wish the politics were not so onerous, its about live and let live. like said, happy they made their transitions. will be enjoying bkfst at diner with Angel next week!

I hope this recent change is some use for transgender members here.

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=112332

Oh yes it is, especially for non binary folks like me. Its great progress. Thank you for adjusting to reality.

I'm a trans man very early in transition. I've been on testosterone about a month.

Hey, another trans man here.

Unfortunately I'm still pre T but I hope to start by the end of this year. I'm still figuring a lot of things out but the fact that I'm kinky is the only constant thing.

Hey, update,

since I started T I noticed that I got a lot hornier (duh). but also, I think my medical kink evolved into a medical fetish. Some other kinks I had before got less intense and some got a bit more intense. My relationship with sex and kink definitely changed a bit. Not drastically so but as one would expect when going through puberty again

And another trans guy here. I’m hornier than ever before and my medical fetish is way more intense.

I am trans ( MtF ) , though transitioning is not in the cards , not at my age .

I often feel I was born at the wrong time , but could there ever have been a right time ?

Doubtful , it is the dysphoria that is the hardest for me , the inner girl and the need to let her shine , but fearful to do so is hard .

The constant struggle to keep her tucked away , at times , can be very hard .

Stay well and safe ,

T.

Welcome to all of the trans community. It's nice to have this an all-inclusive site.

I have felt feminine all my life. My mother encouraged me by constant comments on how my eyelashes were so long, and how I didn't like boy sports. She always wanted me to be submissive. I started playing with other boys in Jr HS and always loved to be the girl with them. With girls, I was the man and had my share. In college there were too many available girls to need men anymore.

While I was married I visited gay saunas when on trips. I enjoyed being with nude men - I found I loved cocks and balls as much as I did girls. Never really attracted to men, but loved to be with men. Thinking back, I never had my cock in another man, but loved to be naked and be penetrated. I loved anything in my anus -

After my wife passed away I decided to pursue feminizing. I keep my male persona when dressed. But I have been taking Estradiol for 3 years and have developed nice A cup breasts. I don't know if I am trans since I still have a girlfriend, and still love to be with men. Hetro-flexible describes my feelings. I wear clothes as a male that don't show my breasts - until I get undressed and can be a girl. I can never pass in public, and don't really want to. I am happy being me. The Estradiol has shrunk my cock and balls but I am happy with that. I still have much interest in sex with girls and guys. It's more of a spiritual thing now. I have the best world for me. I love everything feminine - especially breasts - mine let me know a bit about how girls feel, but I know it is different.

In my late 70's I love my life!

I posted on this forum back in 2019 and have things changed since then - I started HRT in 2020 and haven’t looked back. I just had top surgery 3 weeks ago and it’s incredible. The body changes from T have been so euphoric and beautiful.

My preference in who I’m attracted to has changed, I would now consider myself to be more queer - I’m attracted to both men and women now, although sometimes I’m not sure if my attraction to men is genuine attraction or if I want to be them.

Still on the fence about bottom surgery, as of right now I am very happy with my body and everything. I’ve become more anal erotic since transitioning and have become more open in sharing my fetishes unapologetically.

I posted on this forum back in 2019 and have things changed since then - I started HRT in 2020 and haven’t looked back. I just had top surgery 3 weeks ago and it’s incredible. The body changes from T have been so euphoric and beautiful.

My preference in who I’m attracted to has changed, I would now consider myself to be more queer - I’m attracted to both men and women now, although sometimes I’m not sure if my attraction to men is genuine attraction or if I want to be them.

Still on the fence about bottom surgery, as of right now I am very happy with my body and everything. I’ve become more anal erotic since transitioning and have become more open in sharing my fetishes unapologetically.

Congrats on getting your too surgery done! I hope your healing fast! And I'm glad your happy with yourself and your body!

I am male to female and have recently begun identifying as twospirited though this definitely falls under the transgender umbrella.

I have been living out and on hormones for the last 9 years. The journey through hormone therapy was wild and at times I felt as though my sexuality amd interest in sex was gone.

I am active with my partner and enjoy sex fully. I also have many fetishes and find it comforting that there are others like me here.

I am a transgender woman, over 40 years old, living in Brazil.

I started my HRT when I was almost 3 years old, I took hormones for a long time, but now I don't take them anymore, they make me very depressed. I had breast implants ten years ago.

I have no desire to have gender reassignment surgery, perhaps an orchiectomy.

I'm a MtF transgender, would love to share experiences if you like. I just started HRT myself and looking forward to a full successful transition.

I'm transmasc and have had medical fetishes, especially butt stuff, all my life. Glad to see that there are other trans folks on here!

I want to add more to this trend. The more we share thoughts and experiences is how we can learn and this site grows also. Lately a Zity friend returned from being away for a short time.

They reached out and we have shared so many thoughts and experiences realizing we are in the same boat so to speak. I've enjoyed the friendship of sharing very much. Thanks my friend.

I took Estradiol for years to develop breasts and shrink my cock to a clit. When I am dressed, I present as an alpha male. I am a girl when I am naked with my girlfriend or any man for sex. It feels so normal to me I don't think about the compartmenting I have done. My friends and family are not scandalized by what they don't know, but I can express feminine feelings and desires and that makes me happy.

I am very happy with my body and life!