Dealing with Hypospadias

I was born with Hypospadias and always had a stigma attached to it until I became an adult when I found my affliction was mild compared to a lot of others cases. The penis is not fully formed and the urethra opening is somewhere on the bottom side of the shaft and the foreskin doesn't form. In my case the glans is more or less like half of a large mushroom. the urethra is about 3/4 inch below the head and a partial foreskin ( which was trimmed at age 11).

Needless to say it took a long time to over come this difference when being exposed to nude swimming in school swimming class and in sport shower rooms. But, as I say as an adult and interfacing with men and women, it generally was not an issue.

In fact quite a few women were really intrigued and thought the wide glans a plus and always wanted to touch, lick and suck it.

Only found two women that could not put it in their mouth.

So do you have this condition and how have you handled any stigma?

Hi was born a long time ago with I now know a touch of hypospadias the hole in the penis is not lined up perfect and I spray my wife always wants me to set and pee.I guess was not smart enough to know about stigma at that time.Good luck

When I was young I accidentally met a boy that I liked, so I seduced him. He was very shy and avoided staying with me alone. But I managed to bring him to my room. For a long time He did not let me strip him naked. I finally dragged him to the bed and we started to have sex. I hardly made him climb up to me, in a missionary position, which I rarely do. When he had orgasm I felt something warm on my butt. I turned on the light and after an hour of tearing I finally managed to see his penis. His urethra has been located near his testicles. That looked very funny for me, not for him obviously.

I was born with Hypospadias and always had a stigma attached to it until I became an adult when I found my affliction was mild compared to a lot of others cases. The penis is not fully formed and the urethra opening is somewhere on the bottom side of the shaft and the foreskin doesn't form. In my case the glans is more or less like half of a large mushroom. the urethra is about 3/4 inch below the head and a partial foreskin ( which was trimmed at age 11).

Needless to say it took a long time to over come this difference when being exposed to nude swimming in school swimming class and in sport shower rooms. But, as I say as an adult and interfacing with men and women, it generally was not an issue.

In fact quite a few women were really intrigued and thought the wide glans a plus and always wanted to touch, lick and suck it.

Only found two women that could not put it in their mouth.

So do you have this condition and how have you handled any stigma?

Consultation with a good plastic surgeon (NOT a urologist) could help correct that.