Doc or Patient?

It seems that the majority of people's med-fet fantasies have them as the patient. I suppose it's the attention & care which is somewhat arousing. I certainly and the same, and it's the patient side of things which I enjoy.

Just wondering.. what are people's preferences?

Those that enjoy the Dr side of things, is this because it's a turn on to be the doc, or because it's a turn on how much the patient is aroused?

I see doctor vs. patient as mostly a power thing. In the exam room, the doctors have all the power over the patients. It's a question of whether to give or receive...?

My wife and I will switch roles for our play exam sessions. It isn’t necessarily taking turns, but more of whatever we feel like being at the moment, doctor or patient. I think we both like being examined, or being the examiner equally as well.

Both sound very exciting to me. I guess i would like to be the patient first, but somewhere down the line it would be fun to do the exam also.

I love both in equal measure so it depends on what type of mood I'm in as to whether I'm the doctor or patient. Having said that, if it's anything to do with a stethoscope I'll gladly do either in the beat of a heart

I much prefer the patient role...I'm just naturally submissive and want to please, my gf when I started to explore was very much the Domme. She loved playing Evil Nurse or Doctor and tormenting me to no end

I'm completely a patient... my gf has never expressed interest in role reversal, and I'm not sure the doc role would be something that would arouse me. Of course, I'd happily switch roles if I was asked to, but it's not something which turns me on.

My preference is surgical, Dr's offices don't even do much for me. Everything about surgery is a turn on, so role reversal in that setting would be a preference. The outfits are fun.

I tend to take on the Dr role in play and do not mind it at all 😃 For me it's a combination of being in a professionally dominant position and knowing that my patient is aroused and turned on. But I do like to be in the patient role as well 😃

That's interesting.. so does the role of the dominant nurse turn you on sexually? In the same way that the patient role does for me? For me, play has always been very sexual, and examinations / procedures always end with ejaculation. From the other side, what happens when the patient reaches climax, since we all know us men tend to lose some libido after orgasm.

I’ve always been the patient and think I always will be.

Being dominant doesn’t come naturally to me at all and being vulnerable turns me on. That feeling of someone having total control, and actually knowing what’s going on inside me, but in a safe environment.

I really like playing the doctor and I also like realism but there can be little twists here and there.

Patient all the way for me , always get stuck being doctor on role plays and never get the chance to be the patient , more of a turn on for me that way and love having firm female nurse or doctor over me

I would love to be the patient. Show up, asked to disrobe but my female doctor/nurse watches me as i do it, asking me intimate questions as i stand there nude, then its time for a rectal temperature, i become aroused if i'm not already aroused, she says i need to give a semen sample and i ask where the restroom is, she says just do it right here as she watches, i produce her sample and then the real exam starts. rectal, prostate, genital. etc.

Either doc to a female patient or patient to a female doc. A female nurse in either scenario works a well.

Definitely a play doctor here. 36/m. With an openness for both clinical and sex/erotic exams.

To me, it's definitely the incredible combination of having total control...the patient's nervousness, embarrassment, and uncontrollable arousal...and the aspect of taking your time with the whole examination.

Of course, the control and power part is obvious. The patient starts clothed, but must continue to peel each piece off, as the exam goes further and further. Rarely does an exam start with the patient nude or even in underwear. And the whole time, I'm clothed. Just a subtle piece of power. And then, the patient has no choice but to listen to the doctor's orders, because it's what's "best" and "needed". The patient does as told, because they have to...and really, because they want to.

Second: the patient has those three feelings. Nervous, not knowing what's coming next. Will the doctor check "down there"? Or " back there"? Wondering if they will "get hard" and will the doctor notice? The heart starts to race and beat faster...and inevitably, the erection comes. Then the embarrassment hits. The heart races faster...and the more the brain thinks about it, the harder the patient gets. That factor of uncontrollable arousal that can't be fought. Pre-cum. A wet spot. The patient has no idea what to do...

And then the door opens...and the doctor enters...

Leading to the last piece: the doctor gets to take his time. Make the exam last. Checking the vitals, the ears, nose, throat. Asking questions. Embarrassing questions. The shirt comes off...checking the heart, palpitating, pressing and prodding. Leading to the inevitable fingers-in-the-waistband. And well, it goes from there. And it goes on and on. Genital, rectal, enema, samples, and on and on...and if it's a sexual exam, all bets are off.

That's why I love being a play doctor. Just so much fun, haha.

Im more a patient but would switch

@ #15 ME TOO!!

Me I like both. Being the Patient is always exciting as you never know what the doctor will do with you. The most exciting Question is always how much I will have to undress for the doctor.

On the other hand I really also like beeing doctor. I know what it means to be the pateint and then to put the patient in this uncomfortable or exciting situation is also very interesting for me.

I love being the patient, in general submissive and I honestly don't understand the mentality of a doctor/Dom, but I'm so thankful they do exist

Depends. I like the patient role but as I get older I want to do more ‘doc.’ I think that it makes sense and as I like older docs, it’ll be harder to fulfill that dynamic. I suspect I’ll start a collection of gear at some point

I enjoy being the patient giving up control is such a turn on and trusting a complete stranger that is doing their best to take care of you.

I enjoy being the patient

I like a male doctor being in charge. Giving control to some one who does things for your own well being

Most definitely being the patient. You get to experience all the great sensations. The excitement of being submissive and being told what to do. The feeling of the cool air when you remove your panties. The feeling of having your butt cheeks spread or labia spread. Feeling a finger inserted into your vagina and / or rectum. The feeling of anal speculum being inserted. Feeling of vaginal speculum opening up your vagina. Need I say more.

The patient

Most definitely the patient

Patient. For sure

It does seem from the anecdotal evidence comments here and elsewhere that the patient sorts do outnumber the doctor sorts of people. It is no wonder that finding the right kinky doctor is hard work sometimes!

Both in fantasies and in the fairly infrequent play scenarios I've managed to make happen, I am mostly in the patient role (occasionally I've been a switch). However, as I am getting older and more experienced, I sometimes fantasize about the doctor role quite a bit as well. Like a lot of other kinky fantasies and play scenes, deep down it's mostly about power, control, and vulnerability. There is a lot to enjoy on both sides of that equation!

Patient, for sure. Even better when I am restrained and fully exposed

In play exams I am always a doc

It doesn't bother me a lot how much (or little) the patient is aroused. The attraction for me is the control and knowing that the patient must do as they are ordered even if they feel nervous/embarrassed or humiliated