Spanking and erection

I am getting old a baby boomer--so I grew up in an era when guys got spanked/paddled frequently. Like my friends I got an occasional paddling, bare butt, from dad during high school. It hurt on my bare butt but had no sensual element. My football coach spanked my bare butt and made it hurt and I got hard---totally different from the reaction to dad paddling me in high school. I was humiliated he saw me when I got up after the bare spanking and he saw me hard. It was one of the most humiliating experiences of my life. Any other guys have same reaction?

I have had the same reaction to being spanked by a male. I realized it was the embarrassment and humiliation that brought on the erection , not the spanking itself. I kept thinking while I was being bared I hope I don't get hard, I hope I don't ,please God don't let it happen...The more I thought about it the harder I grew.....Blushing red

I never did but a couple of lads at school got erect when whacked by the PE master in the gym, quite a sight indeed.

I have experienced both getting an erection when being spanked as well as losing one

My wife spanks me whenever I have screwed up and disappointed her. I am told to go to the bedroom and get naked and wait for my punishment. Most often I get an erection while waiting for her. Once the spanking begins, my erection disappears.

When I was younger, I don't remember having an erection while spanking. When I was about 11, I started getting an erection when my mom was spanking me. Usually it happened during a spanking on mom's lap. Sometimes I had erections before the spanking started, when my mom told me to take off my panties. Mom never commented on this. But from the age of 12 she stopped spanking me on her lap. For spanking, I had to lie down on a padded stool. I don't know if it was caused by my erections. The flogging did not arouse me sexually, it did not give me pleasure, quite the contrary. Erections were caused by fear, shame, tension, and the rubbing of the penis.

My younger brother always had erections when being undressed for his spankings, It always popped free when my parents would pull down his underwear..

@Amy93 I bet you enjoyed watching your brother get a spanking. :-)

I grew up in a family where the adult would remove your clothes, discuss the reason for the spanking, and then administer the spanking. This was a common practice among families of my male friends. My bare bottom was usually spanked when I was laying across the lap of my mom or dad. When I was ten years old, I began to have erections when I was spanked and laying across someone's lap. This caused me to become quite embarrassed. By the time I turned thirteen years old and my circumcised penis had grown larger, I had erections more frequently when received a bare bottom spanking when I was on my knees on a chair, when I was standing and being held around the waist by the adult, and when I was standing put leaning forward with my hands against a wall. When I moved out the home at age eighteen, I would seek out dominant women and dominant men to receive erotic spankings when I was nude. I currently receive this type of spanking from men and cd/tg persons during meet ups at hotels and houses. I always get an erection at the beginning of a spanking. Feel free to message me or chat with me to discuss spankings and erections.

I grew up in a family where the adult would remove your clothes, discuss the reason for the spanking, and then administer the spanking. This was a common practice among families of my male friends. My bare bottom was usually spanked when I was laying across the lap of my mom or dad. When I was ten years old, I began to have erections when I was spanked and laying across someone's lap. This caused me to become quite embarrassed. By the time I turned thirteen years old and my circumcised penis had grown larger, I had erections more frequently when received a bare bottom spanking when I was on my knees on a chair, when I was standing and being held around the waist by the adult, and when I was standing put leaning forward with my hands against a wall. When I moved out the home at age eighteen, I would seek out dominant women and dominant men to receive erotic spankings when I was nude. I currently receive this type of spanking from men and cd/tg persons during meet ups at hotels and houses. I always get an erection at the beginning of a spanking. Feel free to message me or chat with me to discuss spankings and erections.

I am surprised your parents did not spank you more and/or harder for getting erections.

I had that reaction when I was younger. Didn’t happen every time but often enough.

I think this may be one of the major reasons I stopped getting spanked by Mom! I would start getting involuntary erections, and I didn't understand why, and not sure I do even now, fully. That and I stand 6'3" and Mom is 5'5" could also have something to do with it stopping! LOL!

I think this may be one of the major reasons I stopped getting spanked by Mom! I would start getting involuntary erections, and I didn't understand why, and not sure I do even now, fully. That and I stand 6'3" and Mom is 5'5" could also have something to do with it stopping! LOL!

How old and how tall were you when you got your last spanking from your mom?

Never got an erection before, during, or after when I was spanked. Same for when I was given enemas. I would be interesting to get an involuntary one; kind of like being betrayed by your pecker.

One night my girlfriend decided she wanted to spank me. She made me bend over the bed and took my pants down. She then proceeded to beat my bottom with a leather strap. It hurt a lot and then I started getting a boner. She noticed this and had me stand up and pull my panties off. She started me wearing panties a while ago and I love it. She left the bedroom and came back in a few minutes with a bra on, a pair of thong panties and a strap on. She told me to bend over again and started beating me with the strap on my bare butt. Then she stopped and told me to get ready because she was going to fuck me silly. I spread my legs and she lubed me up and then slowly entered me. It wasn't' the first time so I knew what was coming. She started pumping and was really banging the hell out of me. I could feel my first orgasm coming and it was great. She came a little later. After I lay there for a bit I asked her to give me another beating with the strap and then plow me till I couldn't stand up which she did. It was wonderful. After she spanked me the first time she told me she loved it because whenever she spanked me she got so wet she had to wear a pad in her panties.

Never got an erection when I was spanked, but definitely get them quite often when I am administering a spanking. 😃

A famous author, Jean-Jacques Rousseau, mentions he got spanked by a young woman, Miss Lambercier… and that after the second spanking, due to some signs she had noticed, she gave up on spanking and stopped treating him like a child (changed bedrooms etc.). I think the signs that Rousseau alludes to was an erection.

I think this may be one of the major reasons I stopped getting spanked by Mom! I would start getting involuntary erections, and I didn't understand why, and not sure I do even now, fully. That and I stand 6'3" and Mom is 5'5" could also have something to do with it stopping! LOL!

Ha. None of that stopped my mom though I’ll admit our height difference was a fair bit closer.

My brother and I shared a room growing up. Spankings were often give bottomless in our bedroom. So we witnessed each other getting spanked alot. We also would usually have to stay bottomless for a while after a spanking. As a reminder or a lesson to the other or whatever bullshit reason.

We were pretty similar in that neither of us would get an erection during the spanking but would get hard after the spanking almost everytime.

Now, with my wife my erection comes and goes throughout the entire spanking/punishment process.

When I was growing up, spankings were the norm to provide a consequence for misbehavior and to teach respect for adult authority. My spankings often began when I was wearing white briefs, and after a short period of time my white briefs were pulled off by the person who was spanking me. My bare bottom was then spanked by hand or with a slipper which created stinging sensations. When I was thirteen years old, I would become aroused when my white briefs were pulled off and my bare bottom was on display. The spanking of my bare bottom would cause me to get a big erection which caused me to feel embarrassed and act submissive. Over time I began to experience a need for the erotic anal feelings of pain and pleasure when receiving a bare bottom spanking. If anyone would like to discuss similar experiences, feel free to send me a message or chat with me at this website.

Reading all the many accounts of members being spanked and getting erections, I can't help but being both amazed, flabbergasted and also incredulous that the parents/persons doing the spanking never seemed to wonder about the oh so very obvious connotations they themselves observed.

What could be more clear: spank, especially bare-bottomed or naked and almost invariably this produces an erection. Not a difficult observation to make.

And since most of these adult spankers are described as being strict, straight-laced, often religious and what not in that vein, how did they handle the dissonance that they observed? How could they not see that they were sowing the seeds that would very well link spanking and sex for the person spanked?

And I find it just as remarkable how the spanking is thought to have been administered with good intentions, while clearly producing a sexual response.

Presently, if there is any kind of nudity involved from a doctor, the insinuations and accusations of misconduct and abuse are guaranteed to follow. But a parental naked spanking? Then we get the fairy-tale story of loving parents …

There doesn't seem to be any consistency in thinking.

@agracier Good points and something to think about. Maybe a lot of parents simply ignore it - justifying that the spanking is deserved no matter the “distraction” of an erectioon, or just pretend not to notice. It's sorta hypocritical if they continue to use spanking as a punishment even though it brings on pleasure or some other sort of excitement and arousal. Also, it would not be so obvious with girls.

Like Susie says, maybe they should simply spank harder until it goes away. Spank the shame and sexual pleasure/arousal out of them! (I'm kidding)

Not a spanking advocate, but if I were and noticed some sort of sexual excitement, that would be the last spanking I would give. There are other ways to punish your kids. I doubt they would get an erection if I stuck bamboo slivers under their fingernails!!

@agracier Exactly. I've never understood it. The cognitive dissonance must be huge.

Never got an erection during a childhood spanking, but I did during medical procedures like rectal temps. Obviously the medical procedures were sexual, since I had an erection, and the nurses and doctors had astounding cognitive dissonance to not see it. I also got an erection from wearing silk pajamas as a teenager. I mean, obviously silk pajamas have sexual connotations and should never be allowed. I got erections from girls in fuzzy sweaters as a teen also… I had a real thing for fuzzy sweater girls. Obviously fuzzy sweaters have sexual connotations, and girls wearing them were purposely trying to make me horny.

Reading all the many accounts of members being spanked and getting erections, I can't help but being both amazed, flabbergasted and also incredulous that the parents/persons doing the spanking never seemed to wonder about the oh so very obvious connotations they themselves observed.

What could be more clear: spank, especially bare-bottomed or naked and almost invariably this produces an erection. Not a difficult observation to make.

And since most of these adult spankers are described as being strict, straight-laced, often religious and what not in that vein, how did they handle the dissonance that they observed? How could they not see that they were sowing the seeds that would very well link spanking and sex for the person spanked?

And I find it just as remarkable how the spanking is thought to have been administered with good intentions, while clearly producing a sexual response.

Presently, if there is any kind of nudity involved from a doctor, the insinuations and accusations of misconduct and abuse are guaranteed to follow. But a parental naked spanking? Then we get the fairy-tale story of loving parents …

There doesn't seem to be any consistency in thinking.

Well yeah, it obviously had a sexual element most chose to ignore. At the time I did too despite the obvious effects I was experiencing. Now - I see it and don't see why so many deny it or try to wrap it up in a way that makes them feel less guilty or to avoid the thought that their parents may have had other motives for the spanking.

You won't find much consistency with those types because they're too busy with the mental gymnastics in their heads.

In my teens I aways got an erection near the end of my spanking and would be rock hard getting up off the lap. My parents ignored it but my sister saw it the times we were spanked together!

I frequently got erections as a result of spanking over the knee. Not sure whether it was the result of the movement in response to the spanking causing stimulation or not. Getting an erection would result in additional spanks being administered. If I had the ultimate indignity and also leaked pre, or actually ejaculated, then that would result in even more additional spanks. If i was still erect after the spanking, i'd be made to remain naked from waist down and remain in the company of the spanker until the erection subsided. This was to ensure that I didn't touch, which it was claimed would “diminish the punishment of the spanking”. It certainly added to the highly embarrassing situation of being spanked naked. 😳

I started getting erections during spanking and enema sessions around 10 or so sometimes depending on the the burning and sting on my bare bottom my erection would start to go away but quickly returned upon competition of the spanking, during an enema it would remain rock hard throughout.

I've mentioned elsewhere as teen I became aware that my adult cousin had an unusual interest in discipline and whippings, as she called it. This all came to a head one afternoon while I was at her estate for a party. I went off to remote part of the grounds thinking I wouldn't be bothering anyone if I set setting off some firecrackers. To my surprise, my cousin managed to find me and mentioned how I shouldn't be doing what I was doing and that I needed to be disciplined, and that good whipping would correct my behavior! All the while she's talking to me she touching the belt she's wearing. She said I should best follow to her basement. I said "no way!" and took off back to the rest of party... Nothing more happened then or ever after it. I never forgot that, and in horny moments I fantasize about having followed her, made to strip, and of course getting the biggest erection I'd ever had, as she takes off her belt…

@reddevil ……….Missed opportunity??