Feeling bad today at Zity

Messed up today during an online roleplay. Made the other person feel bad. Something I never wanted to do here. Has this happened to others and how do you move on?

It has happened. It's sometimes difficult to guess, through online interaction, whether one is hitting a raw nerve (perhaps the recollection of a painful real life situation)...

I guess the best is to apologize and ask what was wrong.

Messed up today during an online roleplay. Made the other person feel bad. Something I never wanted to do here. Has this happened to others and how do you move on?

It happens sometimes when you aren't prepared ahead of time. There are many different types of play and having a scenario worked out ahead of time certainly helps. We've all screwed up at one time or another, so all you can do is learn and move on. For your penance my child 2 soapy enemas before bed. Oh wait......

I've not played online, so haven't had that experience. I have done it to my sub in real life.

I hope you have tried to apologize and let the person know you did not mean to do what you did. Be sure that you communicate with each other to get through this experience.

I hope things work out well for you.

@friscokaty, it happens and especially online as you do not have facial expressions, body language or tone of voice to gauge how the situation is going.

Even the most planned out or repeat scenario can have a mishap or perhaps something was triggered for one reason or another.

You can not predict everything when playing,all you can do is talk it through, make amends if need be and learn from it.

Don’t beat yourself up, we are all human.

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