Trust, friendship, communication

My experience is that without trust and friendship, it is more difficult to put yourself fully in the hands of a playdoctor or nurse.

It starts with communication, probably online, e-mails, or messages here.

After some meetings, there is an opportunity for real friendship which makes it possible to go very intense. The excessive nervousness of the first time is gone, and make place for an exciting anxiety of what will happen this time...

Most important: play, experiment, have fun, without too much expectations, and without guilt.

Discretion, sure, this is very intimate stuff...

I agree with your post completely.

Mashie

Very true

My experience is that without trust and friendship, it is more difficult to put yourself fully in the hands of a playdoctor or nurse.

That is the key for all fetish play. If you can't or don't trust those you play with things will not go as well.

I'll add that a meeting in real life should take months to achieve. Play scenarios and plenty of communication beforehand can lead to a great experience with no surprises. Go slow and stay safe people.

Yes I agree, trust is paramount, without trust on both sides a real life meeting is not really possible or advisable. And agree with Moppy 100% , a real life meeting should normally take some months or more to achieve. Lots of communication, lots of email then perhaps some phone, and read between the lines get a feel for the person. And yes there is that particular nervousness of the first meeting but it also makes the experience that bit more intense and pleasurable...

Enjoy but play safe...