Thin or bulky?

Thick for sure. Generally 3 layers of cloth pinned on snugly, all tucked into my plastic pants. Like you say - then there is some security that the diapers will absorb it all and no leaks or embarrassing wet spots. The drawback is having all that wet bulk, but whatever!

I would have to say in the middle on this. As being incontinent myself and my lifestyle there are definitely factors to this. I need and use higher capacity (thicker) disposable diapers. But I'm also very discreet about them showing under clothing either sticking out in plain view or the diaper bulge. I'm currently using the Northshore Megamax diapers. I cant say anything bad about them except they are a little pricey. There capacity is extremely high without being incredibly bulky. However they do swell up the wetter they get as do most disposable diapers do. I'm very happy with these diapers because they meet my needs as to protection, comfort, and without the diaper bulge.

I would rather wear a thicker diaper than a thinner one. The thicker the diaper the more it feels like it can hold.

I prefer the thicker nappies/diapers so i actually know im wearing them and i feel more secure and safer no matter if im just wetting or messing i know they will hold what i can put into them plus they make me feel more babyish

Thin when I'm out like the store or work. Thick when I'm relaxing at home. I don't need diapers. It is purely fetish.

I like my diapers thick and bulky. That is why I wear several diapers especially at night. For those of you all that use and wear disposables and like the bulky feeling I recommend North Shore Care and Supply's Mega Max diapers. Better Dry sold by them are a nice option too and are cheaper for the amount of diapers that you get with an order. North Shore is AB/DL friendly and they also sell Krinkles diapers too. Most of their diapers come in various colors now too. The Mega Max diapers come in blue, pink, and white.

I prefer my diapers to be fairly bulky under my rubber pants. I wear cloth prefolds, usually the night time style with extra thinkness in the middle and one or two cloth inserts. I like the feel of the thinkness between my legs and knowing I will not have to change more than morning, late afternoon and at bedtime. My fiance decides how thick the diapers should be because she's the one who changes me and she likes me to have a puffy bottom when we go out.

Depends on the situation and the day's activities. If i'm at home or going to be in the car for extended periods of time thick all the way with at least 1 booster(NorthShore Supreme , NorthShore Megamax, Dry24x7,Molicare). Now if I'm going to be out and about and doing a lot of walking and or moving around the thinnest i'll use NorthShore Supreme Lite briefs which fits me better for activity. As far as the generic thin store brands, forget about them, they all leak no matter what. I have even had them leak with double boosters and plastic pants on. I have been in situations when on a trip and had to buy some in a pinch and used them but i try to stay away from them.

My wife has always decided on the thickness of my diapers and my plastic panties that I should wear, may she be the one who changes me and she likes my thick bulky diapers and less leaking or for the embarrassing wet spots in bed especially at night. My disposable thin diapers with plastic panties are only for outdoor use, luckily for me.

Rearz Night Time in control for me. They fit and look like the mid-seventies disposables nighttime diapers. Nice product and just the right thickness. They can be a little shy on the dignity front but they are so comfy. Worth a try anyway.

I think about this a lot and the problem for me is I might have thought about it to much. To ask which I prefer over the other it would be thick diapers hands down. There is no further discussion however you all know me and how I love explaining. Thicker is great as far as diapers in simply the fact of humiliation, embarrassment, and a few other lesser known or thought of effects it can produce in the wearer. Humiliation and embarrassment; Well this might be obvious but hear me out. Embarrassment, in that you can not hide the wadded mass of poof between those legs. Humiliation, in that you either need them thicker to wick up your sensitive bladder's mistakes or that your caregiver deems it necessary in some way. I for one feel super babyish in thick diapers, I feel vulnerable in that it's so massive I can't hide who I really am deep down. I am at times a waddling tot who adores being cute and silly in front of his friends and other times I'm just helpless. I waddle about acting like a great big silly baby even purposefully falling on my heavily padded bum just to give a show. Other times my diapers are so thick my little baby legs can't do anything but crawl to get around. I feel so safe and comfortable and clam in diapers. To increase this factor by 100 would be putting me into thicker diapers that give me a huge poofy butt and wider stance would put me into little mode easier. The reason for doing so can be want or need or some other made up excuse but it's really just a means to and end. In some cases that butt is going into a thicker diaper with or without your say. Others it's a comfort blanket we wrap around ourselves and walk around the house in all day because we say "NO" to adulting!!! LOL. I wanna be heavily padded and cute all day and you can't stop me!

On the more thin side it's just easier to hide them out in public and cause less of a disturbance then if you were waddling about! Thinner is more changing and thicker is less if you roll that way. I mostly just love the poofyness and fact I got a serious waddle to my step. I'm vulnerable and innocent and in need of someone to help me off my butt and back onto my feet some times! No seriously, HELP! I fell on my bottom and it's hard to stand back up! Yes! I tired rocking back and forth, side to side, it's notworking! Don't just leave me here! I don't wanna crawl it's humiliating! Come back here!! hehehehehe

A long time ago I had to change from light absorbtion Nappies to higher absorbtion and was shocked at how much bulkier the more absorbant Nappy was, well it has just happened again as I am trying out some i D maxi, Tena pro skin as well as Abriform M4 Nappies and on putting on the iD maxi found the bulk very much increased-this will now make me worry about my “Nappy butt” even more for a few months.

I am hoping the others are no bulkier although looking at the packs I think the others will be even bulkier.

I do admit to liking the feeling of the “bulk” but worry how obvious a wearer I will become.

I wouldn’t say that I like my diaper thin . Work I wear better dry or the equivalent home wear n r s str8up but about to move back to full time terries .

I just waiting for my last order to arrive and then I will be back in them apart from work and going to the grocery shop.

So excited to get my terries back definitely will not be able to hide them from anyone who comes in it’s going to be very difficult to keep them out of view. they are what I grew up with and I love them very deeply. I’m going back to my old ways and trying not to be too much of an adult.

I prefer a fitted, nighttime, cloth diaper for the convenience and fit. Sometimes I add 2 inserts because I like the feeling of security that a bulky diaper provides.

Love them bulky. I love it when they are so thick and wet that I can’t close my legs anymore. Makes me very little. When I wear for an extended period of time and I pee a lot I get to the point of wetness that it makes me horny.

Either way, as long as they don't leak. And since I'm a flooder, that means thick. A few years back the manufacturers were just increasing the SAP without increasing the fiber. Yes, there was greater 'lab-rated capacity' but the SAP would clump together causing the pee to pool up and leak loooong before it should. Better wicking means more bulk. Sometimes I would put a toddler prefold as a soaker just to wick the pee to other parts. Worked great!

Since I wear diapers because I want vs. need to, I completely prefer bulky diapers. Regardless of whether I'm in public or at home. I don't show off my diapers in public but I don't go to great lengths to make it look like I'm just wearing big kid underwear under my pants either. The way I see it, if you're going to choose to wear diapers, you should have to deal with how they look under your pants.

Thick for me because even thick nappies are hard to detect under jeans unless you're especially looking for them

Thick as early eighties pampers were.

Bulky bulky bulky

As far as I can remember, my mother put me in thick cloth diapers and rubber pants, especially at bed time. So I prefer thick diapers. Then stretching those rubber pants over my thick diapers!