Just purchased first toy is apprehension normal

I just purchased my first sex toy a 10 function pink rabbit. I wouldn't say I'm scared but very apprehensive.

What are the do's and dont's of sex toys. I know I should use water soluable lubricant and to wash it after each use any other hints and tips. Do you only play so long when you first start? Sounds silly to ask but if you dont ask you will never find out.

DO NOT BE APPREHENSIVE.

Just do what feels good.

Water soluble lube us usually best.

Dakotasuz you may want to limit your "play time" the first few times. Body parts are not use to the toy and you don't want to get too sore.

Listen to your body and you should enjoy yourself.

I think the only apprehension I'd have is that once used to cumming via vibrator you will have a harder time reaching orgasm or your orgasms in the future will not be as good as before. If you are someone who doesn't normally reach orgasm or does only with great difficulty than there is nothing to lose.

I'm sure this is different for different people but I know I have been told that once you are very used to playing with a vibrator you desensitize yourself and may not enjoy playing with just your hands like you used to.

Its not a magnum can only be good

Definitely don't be apprehensive. I view sex toys as a way to fill in and satisfy your sexual desires when you can and want it. It doesn't have to be replacement for sex with another person, but more of an add on. Sex toys can aid in reaching an orgasm- maybe more powerful than you could get from just plain masturbation.

Relax and have fun.

I'm sure you will do fine with it and before you know it might even have a nickname like Peter or something. Just go slow and have fun. Relax a bit.

Congrats Suz ! I have yet to make that leap, one of these days lol

Have fun exploring & enjoy ! 😃

Vibrators and toys will NOT make it harder for you to have an orgasm in the future.

You'll just have one more way to have a good time!

I totally agree with Susie ! While I do not have any toys of my own I have had the pleasure of them being used on me.

Exploring will only lead to knowing your body better and finding out how you like or do not like to be touched and where.

Enjoy !

What previous repliers have said. Plus, your mileage will vary. Everyone is different when it comes to sex toys. Do not become discouraged when you discover that a toy you spent good money on does not do the job your expected from it. Toy drawers around the world are full of devices that fell flat. On the other hand I have to wonder how the cordless wand I bought three years ago is still going given how often I use in on my play partner.

I totally agree with Susie ! While I do not have any toys of my own I have had the pleasure of them being used on me.

WTF ? ? ? ?

You don't have toys of your own?

GO GET SOME!

@SwitchableSusie, Its like flowers, they make a better gift when you receive them from a special someone. 😉

One day I may venture into the unknown lol

So. . . hint that you want a present. . . . or at least have some toys left at your house.

To enjoy intimate fantasy(ies), to share emotions with your partner, I think it is mandatory to know your self so you can lead your partner in your private preferences. Who better than you can discover, know your preferences ? You are mature and have the rights and opportunity to enjoy your private life, is it not easyer for your partner and for you to have some idea about what is so good for both. There is a time for discovery, and there is a time to really enjoy intimate pleasures, for you it is time now, don't spillage time

@SwitchableSusie, yes Ma’am, but No special someone at the moment .

@SwitchableSusie, yes Ma’am, but No special someone at the moment .

All the more reason to buy toys.