Ever been to a "dark grope room party" ?

I understand these go on in Tampa. It seems like an ideal concept for bisexuals.

Was wondering about folks' experiences. How long they last. If folks are clothed, nude, both.

You figure with medfet, it's all about touching each other's bodies in the doctor/patient context. Touch or be touched. So i would guess that a percentage of folks on this website would be into something like a dark grope room party

This may also be ideal for those who enjoy blindfolds. In a dark room where folks can hardly see, if at all, it would be like everyone in the room were blindfolded.

Sounds like fun.

We have visited many swingers clubs in the South of France and most have a black room where you go in and feel your way around what ever you touch is yours to play with as they are in there for the same

I would love to experience this. Sounds like a great time!

Sounds like a heap of fun to me!

I love being gropped, but am far less confident doing the gropping, so it sounds like this would be ideal for me.

I never heard of a "dark grope room party", let alone been to one.

Is this something you do in high school?

I never heard of a "dark grope room party", let alone been to one.

Is this something you do in high school?

Who are you and what have you done with Susie?

Who are you and what have you done with Susie?

I have played "Under the Blanket", "Spin the Bottle", "Seven Minutes in Heaven", attended far too many "Make Out Parties" and numerous BDSM parties, but never a "Dark Grope Room Party".

Seriously, it really sounds like a middle school or high school game like "Seven Minutes in Heaven", (only a multi-player version) where two people are selected to go into a closet blindfolded so they don't know who they are making out with. That one sometimes turned out to be "Seven Minutes in Retrospective Hell" when upon leaving the dark closet you realized who you were with and that you were generally turned off by them.

I thought it was after the party was going well the lights are turned off and everyone has to select a partner by feel.. Then the lights come on.

I went to a swingers club about 10 years ago which had a dark room like this. When a staff member was giving me the initial tour, he told me about the dark room and said not to go in there with anyone you don't know. I laughed a little, but he then said, no really don't do that.

I never saw that room get much use, but I wasn't there on any nights when many regular members were there. Far more people just did their groping, and licking, sucking, screwing, etc. out in the well-lit areas of the club.

I have played "Under the Blanket", "Spin the Bottle", "Seven Minutes in Heaven", attended far too many "Make Out Parties" and numerous BDSM parties, but never a "Dark Grope Room Party".

Sounds like there are still some things you have yet to experience. Just because you have not experienced them (just yet) is no reason to be dismissive about them. West cost (Tampa) Florida seems the place where you can experience such a phenomenon. Beyond a school game that you ridicule it out to be.....

Sounds like there are still some things you have yet to experience.

I have this thing about NOT wanting anonymous sexual contact.

I have this thing about NOT wanting anonymous sexual contact.

Yes, I agree. This sounds like a disaster waiting to happen, on several different levels.

Eric

Never as an adult. We used to do something like that at parties as teens in a friend’s basement. The lights would go out and people would start making out all kind of in a pile on the sofa. You would ostensibly be with your boyfriend but pretty soon there would be extra hands. Clothes stayed on so things never went too far and you basically knew who was there but there was the illusion of anonymity which was pretty hot.

@SwitchableSusie said

I never heard of a "dark grope room party", let alone been to one.

Is this something you do in high school?

I have to say I had the same thoughts when I saw the title of this thread. "Dark grope room party" does sound like some furtive activity of the early teen years.

I have this thing about NOT wanting anonymous sexual contact.

@SwitchableSusie , how about if you could select which people were in the room ?

Where in Tampa ?? Never heard of them going on around this area

Dark rooms used to be a feature of gay clubs in Great Britain, but perhappenstance less so now.

myself I never ventured in, but the dimly lit areas of a gay sauna are groping nirvana, and I regularly indulge.

@SwitchableSusie , how about if you could select which people were in the room ?

If I could select the people in the room, I would just make a date to have sex with the person or people I was interested in.

Sounds like a fun party, as long as it does not get too out of hand.

In most cities in the saunas or sex clubs there are dark areas. In some cases the entire club is near black out. I personally am not comfortable in these areas, not because of the safety factor but just I like to see with whom I am playing. it seems from the responses that many are straight and not as familiar with this type of play as the gay members. In my opinion,it is much more erotic thinking about it than experiencing it.

This is in response to Samjack's post that it sounds like fun unless as long as it doesn't get out of hand.

From my limited experience in dark room clubs, that is exactly the mystique of it. Of course anyone can say "No" but it is the anonymity of unknown people fondling you and your ability to let your guard down to accept (or reject) their advances. I guess it is all how you define "out of hand". I have done some things in a dark room setting that I never thought I would do just because it was dark. Again, "No" is ALWAYS an acceptable response to anyone.

Never even heard of a "dark grope room party" before, let alone ever been to one. I for one like the visual aspect of knowing whom I am fondling and groping, it adds to the experience.

Never even heard of a "dark grope room party" before, let alone ever been to one. I for one like the visual aspect of knowing whom I am fondling and groping, it adds to the experience.

ME TOO.

Nothing beats sex with the lights on so you can see all the debauched, illegal, biblically forbidden things I like to do and have done to me.

I had an interesting experience hiking. We were camped near a hot spring. Went there in the middle of the night, must have been 10 people soaking. You couldn’t see your hand in front of your face. Pretty much an equal group of male and females. All of a sudden, hands were everywhere. Interesting Grope Fest.

I have never heard of them or joined in on them. Perhaps I am too old for them to know anything about them.

Well I’ve been blindfolded and on display, where men could grope, touch, feel or kiss me.... The room was always dark, couldn’t see anyone, then a blindfold would cover my eyes. I had a choice of being tied and or gagged or not. I believe it’s a lot easier being tied. I would be exhausted by the end of the evening, where it would be edgy and I’d end up in a puddle of excitement.