Adult bookstore etiquet

I like being watched when I masterbate and every now and then go to the local bookstore, head into the booths and masturbate. Trouble is nobody says a word, it's like there is some secret signs being given and I don't know the language. Some guys just park themselves by a door, is there a signal of what they are offering or want? Some times I'll go into ones that have buddy windows, somtimes glory holes and other times leave the door open. Sometimes a tounge or finger comes through the gloryhole, is there a differnce in the request, like spread my ass for a finger or dick for tounge? I don't want to give head but hand jobs are ok, I really want to be watched while peeing.

I used to go to adb's a lot and they can be strange with guys just standing around not saying anything. I used to leave the door unlocked and slightly ajar and would soon have company. What was done would depend on the guy but mostly I either got a BJ or hand job as I am pretty large so every one was always interested. I finger through the wall meant stick your Dick through and you either get a mouth or ass.

The only etiquet is not geeting caught by the attendant or cops!

You can do anything you want, the other person will let you know how far you can go....

I like the anonymity in the dimly lit rooms. But it seems too much like hit or miss there. I got lucky half the time, but they were memorable. My preference is to tell the other guy "Think of some sex stuff you always wanted to do with another guy at one of these places but haven't and i'm your guy". I have swallowed cum several times. Several times i've been ass fucked. One ejaculated his semen all over my exposed belly and pulled up shirt. And I sat in front of one fellow who pumped an enormous load out on my dick and pumping hand which greatly lubricated my masturbation.

I agree. I don't go often and don't know the code to invite another. I have left door cracked open and watched the hallways. I have had some stop and watch. Is there a signal that says hey, I am wanting company?

I have gone to adult book stores in the past, and I get eyed down every single time from the moment I enter until I leave. I'm not saying I never masturbated in a movie booth, but I would be afraid to leave the door open while I did that.

I know, I'm a baaad girl.

I used to stop at an ABS on my way up to college and picked up on a couple things. Eye contact is probably key, and is also probably the most difficult for someone already anxious about anonymous "gay" encounters. But what i noticed then was that if your eyes met with a decent looking guy, left the door unlocked he would probably come over to your booth for a peek (at least). The place I stopped at wasnt all that busy when I was passing through so I only had a few brief encounters there. Most of the time it was just me jacking off to some gay porn on the blurry tv in the wall.

@DanMichMan if getting caught by the attendant is a problem, what is the 'official' purpose of the booths? You don't need them in a regular bookstore if you want to browse the materials.

I haven't been to an ABS for several years, and in the past didn't go often enough get in on the appropriate signals. I always wondered what was on the other side of the hole in the wall, but never was brave enough to stick something thru to find out. I wish I had.

if getting caught by the attendant is a problem, what is the 'official' purpose of the booths? You don't need them in a regular bookstore if you want to browse the materials.

i don't know about elsewhere, but in Oregon, having sex in a locked booth is legal because the law here treats it as "private" consensual sex, just as if you had a hotel room. One of the local ABS that is most popular shares a parking lot with the State Police lol. Times have changed.

As far as signals go, i see visiting an ABS as like going to another country with lots of mixed cultures and different languages. There are some pretty commonly used signals, like putting your finger through a GH generally signals you want cock, usually to suck. i'm bottom and i'd say easily half the guys i offer ass too only want a bj. my guess is most are on the DL and simply afraid to go beyond certain limits. Heck, look at the comments here and several Zity kinksters express fear or hesitance. On the other hand, the other half seem like they cannot believe their good luck at being able to fuck and usually come very quickly. i've had more than a few guys ask through a GH if they could come into my booth cause it's easier to fuck that way. Some leave their door open hoping for someone to open it. Some go around looking for open doors. Mostly i think it depends on who's there. i think about half are regulars who know the ropes, the other half are infrequent or newbies who are both shy and unsure about what they are doing. Reality is always different than the fantasy that brought them there.

I some cities (mine), they were/are forced to remove the doors. Generally, the attendant (male and female, {female ....that's another story...}) will look the other way. And there are almost always some "blind" spots, not mention the bathroom which has stalls and doors. That said, undercover cops do come in from time to time. That's why I don't do anything until I see cocks out on all the men in there.

I found that there are all kinds of people wanting to do all kinds of things from watching to having sex and everything in between. I know (when it's safe) that if I stand ther wearing nothing more than bra panties, they either will or won't approach me and that's all I need to know. If i'm in a booth, jacking off and I keep the door unlock somebody will test the doors and open mine, sometimes they watch, some want to cum in (I may or may not let them in and they always oblige if I tell them no) and some will go to the booth next to me and put their finger through the hole, at that time I put my dick through it....

How do you know how old the person is on the other side of glory hole ? It could be a 12 year old twink?

Minors are not allowed in, and when I used to go, I would always look through the hole first. The bigest problem was that they wanted it up the ass because I wear a condom in these places and they naturally think I want to fuck them (and I don't). If the hole is big enough, I can see their lips as I push my dick in......

I have for many years visited my local ABS occasionally when I am very horny. I'll buy $5 or $10 worth of coupons for the video machines (you have to buy a minimum of $5 to enter the room with the booths). Then I'll walk around to see what is going on in the booths with the red light on (meaning the video is running). This ABS does not have doors or glory holes, too bad. Now that I am much older and mycock has gone from 7 1/2 to about 5, I can enjoy watching a guy jerking off on a hard dick. I like to offer my hand to assist as I really like the feel of another hard cock, and will gladly help him to cum. Watching the cum flow is a great turn on! I will usually have some paper towels to help clean up. I also like to see a guy getting a blow job, and to see if the one sucking takes in the cum. If I can't fine a guy playing or he doesn't want any help or me watching, I'll go to a booth and start feeding the video machine to watch some porn video, either gay of straight. I'll then drop my pants and start to JO, hoping someone will come by and offer to help. I have had some really hot BJ's where the guy swallowed my cum. As much as I would like to be ass fucked, I am really afraid of STD's, and so I only watch such action and it does not happen very often. If no one comes to my booth, then I will continue my JO session until I cum onto a paper towel. Now that I have written this note, I think I will go for a visit to my local (about 20 minutes away) ABS to see if I can help anyone have some fun play!

I Must Say, I Go to Bookstores(Adult) Here is San Francisco, and Do Enjoy Giving and Getting BJs, in The Booths.

You are the master of your own language. If you demonstrate your interest in someone and they respond, not a word has to be said. If they are not interested they do not have to tell you, you will know. If you are meek and shy more than likely most will pick up on that .Baths and booths are for sex and that is what others are looking for. If you want to strike up a conversation try your local library. I have found no secret codes. Instant gratification is everything and if you have what they want and they have what you want, just go for it and have fun.- If you are afraid of rejection, perhaps the baths are not the place to go - I again speak from experience. 😃

This happened to me in Montreal,Que , You go into a (beatoff booth) look into a tv screen to watch porn,screen goes blank ,knock on door ,are there problems? You say yes,Boy opens door fiddles with tv ,fixes it ,actually I think he flipped a hidden switch! Says 5us dollars I will make you cum,he looks like about 13 to me I asked him how old he was and he said,no age in a garbled French Canadian ,gave him the 5,the rest is history.

As a female, if I went to ABS, what would I need to do or do I just ask?

What adult book store ??? I didn't see you , you didn't see me , I was never there !!!!

Been a while since I've been to one but if you want company in the booth leave the door unlocked and maybe ajar, If you want to service a cock through a glory hole if there is one slide your finger in and out of the hole and if there is a willing cock on the other side it will present itself to you. And yes I am talking from experience. 😃

Imagine there's all closed these days... don't think they can set them up for outside dinning 😁

Now adult bookstores are open again, many fantaisies may happen again in real.

I wish to find some circle jerks mutual room in them….

I was looking forward to finally going to my local abs store for some m2m sex play now that everything is open again. I have had good play time there in the past! I was greatly disappointed when seeing the curtains closed and told that the video booths were permanently closed. I have been looking for another abs that has the video booths like I enjoyed in the past in the North of Pittsburgh area, or another place where I could find some playmates.

Commit a crime, do the time. I'm sure you will find many partners behind bars

Here in london,i havent seen a glory hole in a public toilet for years

Here in london,i havent seen a glory hole in a public toilet for years

I have never seen one anywhere in any city, town or village I've ever been in …

I was looking forward to finally going to my local abs store for some m2m sex play now that everything is open again

Be careful of monkeypox.