A 3" diameter Butt Plug

I paid $40 for this 3" diameter Butt Plug. I didn't think I'd have any issues with it, since I always use a 3" diameter Dildo. I inserted the Plug into my ass. It was a tight fit and almost didn't want to go, so I backed up to the bathroom sink and forced it in. I walked into the Living Room and back to the Bathroom, about 30'. I noticed it felt like it almost wasn't there, so I checked with my hand. And got the shit scared out of me. My hole had almost swallowed the whole thing inside me! I did a "push" and reached into my hole with my hand and pulled it out. I didn't realize it, but the flat base part was the same size as the plug itself. So there was nothing to stop it from going all the way in. Definitely not good. The last thing I want is to have to go to the hospital and have a doctor figure out how to get that huge thing out of my bowels. It really scared me. So much that I quit using my toys for a month or so. I threw the plug away. The next time I get a butt plug, it'll have to have a bigger base on it. Or a strong string to pull it back out.

I had the same thing happen with an Ace of Spades. First, the shape of the plug was too blunt for a 3" plug. It took me months to get the thing in. I only had 3 successful insertions, but on the third time I got it in, it went all the way in. Luckily for me, my hand was still close by and was able to reach in after it. I gave it a nice big push and was able to retrieve it. Like you, scared the shit out of me and I threw it away. I still have my XL Colt Big Boy, and that is also a 3", but the base is much wider and thicker (not as flimsy) and I haven't had any problems with that plug. I do only use that once in a while and tend to use my dildos more for the bigger stretches. Anything past 2.5" I'm not going to push out very easy.

Right now, most of my everyday wear plugs are anywhere from 1.75 to about 2" and I'm thinking to bumping to 2.25-2.5" but that seems to be a good fit for wear. For stretching, I use my 3" plug and dildo, and I'm pretty much maxed out at the moment. I would like to bump up to a 3.5" but I don't know if I want to own, hide, and/or explain why I have such a monster plug or dildo in my box!

But back to the point of the post... yes, look at the base; very important!!

Happy Pluggin'!

@soggy I read your post-that's a surprise!

Pipedreams makes a 3" plug under their label ANAL FANTASY called the "Mega" silicone. Measured with calipers it is just a hair under a true 3" (2.9"). I found mine on Amazon. It has a substantial well shaped base that is 4" long and about 1 1/2" wide and anatomically shaped for the ass crack. The neck is oval shaped and about 1 3/8" diameter. I got that big plug for $35.

For me there is no way that will ever get "sucked up" in my hole. The other positive is it shaped well for inserting and removal as there is a good curve to the top and base of the "bud". I first purchased the 2" large, then the 2 1/2"(really about 2.4").

I wish they had a longer neck but they do fit comfortably overall. For long term I like my glass plugs I occasionally wear the 2" and 2 .4" for longer periods. I don't think I could ever wear the MEGA for extended periods-tooooooo intense.

Bigger problem than filmsy base is short neck - that causes the bulb to sit too low inside the sphincter so when squeezed it gets pulled in. If the neck is long enough the bulb gets behind the sphincter so it can't pull the plug futher in when squeezed, with a neck long enough the plug would not need the base for other than just being convenient for pulling it out by hand. My most comfortable plugs have long necks and some have really small bases, so small you'd think they can't keep the plug in place, but there is really no need for that and can be safely worn, even overnight. On the other hand, I had plugs that had bases even wider than the bulb, but with a so short neck that my butt wanted to swallow it whole in no time (ace of spades shape). Of course I got rid of them quickly.

Happy plugging!

@afternine-totally agree with the stem length theory-got to get past the muscle for comfort. The glass plugs are about 2" long stems and allow movement. My XL has a 2 5/16" head and only a 1 3/4" round ball base and unless I intentionally push it in it couldn't on its own. They also have a curve like the Njoy plugs and fit more naturally and move with my body, sitting, standing, walkings etc.