Orgasm to Retention time ratio?

Just curious as to what's the longest you've ever retained an enema by yourself or with someone watching, and how many orgasms were you able to produce during the retention? Mine is about an hour and 10-15 minutes holding four to five quarts, and I only managed two orgasms, as I'm 66. When much younger I could probably have managed at least three in that time, especially if I'm wearing a rubber suit, hood and rubber sneakers for the enema as usual. My ex would occasionally dress me in rubber and sneakers and make me hold an enema overnight to see how many orgasms we could produce in each other while I was forced to hold it. I think I managed three or maybe four one night but that was in my early fifties.

Eric

I would say when I am masturbating to orgasm while retaining I max out at about 10 minutes. I usually will do two 2 quart enemas and masturbate on the second one. I generally can retain longer on each successive enema because my colon gets more clear after each enema. I have not pushed myself to see just how long I can retain an enema, but I know I could go longer than ten minutes if I tried. But I am only good for one orgasm per enema session, and after I cum I am ready to expel and end my pleasure session.

My very long retentions have been about three hours with a balloon nozzle and I took a nap during part of that time. My enema sessions can last anywhere from 10 minutes start to finish where there are zero orgasms to two hours. Some are three hours, but very rarely--I have other things to do. 😁 I never compared the time with the number of orgasms, but I usually have two or three orgasms even in a half hour session. Sometimes I will binge and keep masturbating until my hands and fingers are tired. I could have ten orgasms in a two hour session, but I haven't been retaining the enema all that time. There are fills and empties during those sessions.

It's so nice being a woman. I guess the ability to have many orgasms is the reward for bleeding every month and being pregnant.

?........I have not pushed myself to see just how long I can retain an enema, but I know I could go longer than ten minutes if I tried. But I am only good for one orgasm per enema session, and after I cum I am ready to expel and end my pleasure session.

Come to think of it, I usually agree that after one orgasm I lose the desire to hold or take any more enemas except under one circumstance. If I'm with a trusted ex/Domme partner, and she/we want to have me hold for a prolonged retention for submissive effect, sometimes I've motivated myself to keep holding for a long time after an orgasm, with the expectation that i'll gradually regain interest in a second or third orgasm after awhile while still holding. And she'll have to help motivate me to keep holding with things like "nice orgasm, subbie - I hope your enjoying your distention, since you're not getting rid of that enema until I let you go after you give me more orgasms tomorrow........." On the few occasions where an ex and I have had me hold overnight, I'll maybe have one holding orgasm and then keep retaining overnight with the next orgasm(s) in the morning. Other than those few times many years ago, my max usual retention these days going solo is about an hour and 10-15 minutes with one or maybe two orgasms at the end of the retention. Usually I fall asleep for part of that time as I'm enjoying the retention sensations so much.

Eric

I don't believe there is a relationship.

I'm pretty much filled to the hilt after about 1 1/2 quarts of solution. I've never been able to hold an enema very long. I'll easily have an orgasm when expelling. If my husband puts a finger tip into my belly button that will send me to the moon!

Being a male, enemas don't cause orgasms. I have given literally hundreds of enemas to female partners over the years, though. I remember one woman, roughly 35 years old, maybe 5'10", close to 250#, who took and held three quarts for almost 30 minutes, who never orgasmed despite my best efforts with fingering her clit as she held. On the other end of the spectrum, I played with a cute, chubby Irish redhead who loved inserting a tampon rectally, then having me give a bulbful of soapy water. As the tampon swelled, she would orgasm almost as soon as the water hit her rectum. She would continue to orgasm over and over until she would collapse in a happy heap on the bed.

I have held 4 quarts for 5 minutes, but didn't masturbate (just laid in the tub and took it endured the filling). I like using the siphon method, by connecting two regular hoses end to end in order to place the one gallon water jug up high on a towel shelf (reduces the likelihood of backflow, while producing good pressure, but not too much pressure). It was very enjoyable.

@Soapy4Me Many men here I'm sure get hard and cum from enemas just like woman cum too.

@caresabouthealth - Most guys get a strong erection from an enema. I do not know of any who will cum from the enema alone. All that I know find they cum faster when they masturbate while holding an enema, but not simply from an enema. Guys - any of you here cum just from your enemas?

Guys - any of you here cum just from your enemas?

Well, with some foreplay yes. Get the Model B up there and about 3-3.5 quarts of water and if I flex my pelvic floor I squirt on the floor.

Longest I ever held an enema was probably a little over a 2 hours. That was with a retention tube back in my 40's. With a regular nozzle (withdrawn after taking the bag), maybe about 1 hour. That was when I was much younger, maybe 30's at the time. Not that those were my limits, it was just I decided to let it go after a while.

I tried masturbating while holding. Without a retention device, it was almost impossible. Too much going on in too many places. I would usually leak or expel at an inconvenient time. I had many accidents and learned to only do it in the tub when I wasn’t using a retention item. With the retention tube, no worries about accidents. Maybe some minor leakage, but manageable. Regardless, it was almost always one orgasm.

With the retention tube, I could have multiple orgasms with a rest period of maybe 10-30 minutes between. I think the most I ever had was three in a two hour retaining period. I was in my 30's back then. Probably could have done more but holding an enema seems to diminish my need for an orgasm. Maybe I’m enjoying the feeling of the enema more and masturbation isn’t as pleasurable while holding.

For me personally, my orgasms are not as intense when I am holding an enema. This has always been true for me. There have been instances where I had intense orgasms while holding, but not very many and definitely not for quite a few years. Lots of times I can’t even get an erection (in my 60's now) just hand masturbating. I will use a vibrator to help, but even then it isn’t as pleasurable as masturbating without holding an enema.

During an enema session, enemas are my main focus. I think I am just too much into the enema. Masturbation is a distraction and isn’t what I want when taking an enema.

Still not able to establish a clear relationship between the two.

I'm usually only good for one orgasm per enema, as, like many men here, my desire for a) longer retention and b) further orgasms that session usually rapidly wanes right after the first orgasm. However, if I have a real or occasionally fantasy Domme there encouraging me to hold for a long time after the orgasm, often my interest and arousal will eventually come back and we can have her get me to at least vigorously masturbate and maybe orgasm again. Enemas do a great deal to arouse me and intensify orgasms, so most of my enema-holding orgasms are more intense than without holding. I was able to do this more successfully back in my fifties, but sometimes now it's very enjoyable to retain a long time and try for more than one climax. Use it or lose it.

Eric

I hold every bag enema 15 minutes.

I orgasm about once every 5th session

Most commonly during retention of the first enema. I would say 8 times in 10 that I do orgasm during an enema, it is during the retention of the first enema.

Occasionally during retention of the second enema

Just one time in all those years the bisacodyl kicked in during retention of the third enema and I had a mild orgasm during expulsion

I'm with GyneDoll on this topic. At most I can hold is 2 quarts, but usually a bit less. I've been known to get a decent cleaning out with as little as a single quart. `The longest that I've ever held is probably 15 minutes, but that was a single quart. If two quarts I'll be lucky to hold for 5 minutes. There is also the issue of what is in my enema. Ivory soap produces much faster results than baking soda or plain water. If I want a really good cleaning out I'll use Ivory, but a more pleasant enema is baking soda.

If I want a really good cleaning out I'll use Ivory, but a more pleasant enema is baking soda.

I like to give warm water with just a touch of salt to help with water absorption. I never force her to take more than she can, and try to use a few toys while giving with the object being an orgasm. I'm not into giving big crampy enemas, there is no reason for it. I want her to enjoy it as much as I do.

Usually just one orgasm per session. If I want to do a series, I hold off until the last enema before having an orgasm because once I cum, I have no desire to do more enemas.

Usually just one orgasm per session. If I want to do a series, I hold off until the last enema before having an orgasm because once I cum, I have no desire to do more enemas.

Same here, but I usually take just one because more than one is often too irritating to anus and rectum. Also, one large long enema is usually so stimulating that I can't resist an orgasm before it's over. But no complaints about that.

Eric

One of my favorite enema sessions was when I had a woman do her clean out enema before we got together. When we met up, she was put into restraints on a latex covered bed on her stomach and a bolster under her hips.

I lighted lubed her anus and then slowly threaded a 30 fr. double balloon nozzle up inside her. When both bulbs were inflated and she began taking her enema, I had myself a more-or-less hands free patient. The plan was to fill and edge her and deny her that first orgasm for as long as I thought she could wait.

When her cramps or the retention time got critical, rather that letting her up to expel, I simply managed the intake hose by holding it over a bucket by the bed. The result was a very engorged and needy woman that desperately needed to expel her load...but even more needy to be orgasmed. Over the course of several hours, she would be filled, made to retain and if I was of the mind, I would take charge of her clit that was barely visible as she lay face down over the bolster. Swollen and shiny, she would moan and climax easily and it might be during the fill phase....or while she held it all in...or while I slowly bled off the water in her. The session was enjoyable for her because of the feelings that she never knew when she would be allowed to climax and she did so many times. For me, it was quite pleasant to have that kind of control and not be bothered with undoing restraints and re-tying her.

I enjoyed two plus hours of filling this sweet woman with several gallons of water and enjoying the spectacle of her contortions and noises as she alternately begged and moaned in pleasure.

She latter admitted that she lost count after ten the number of climaxes she had.

One of my favorite enema sessions was when I had a woman do her clean out enema before we got together. When we met up, she was put into restraints on a latex covered bed on her stomach and a bolster under her hips.

I lighted lubed her anus and then slowly threaded a 30 fr. double balloon nozzle up inside her. When both bulbs were inflated and she began taking her enema, I had myself a more-or-less hands free patient. The plan was to fill and edge her and deny her that first orgasm for as long as I thought she could wait.

When her cramps or the retention time got critical, rather that letting her up to expel, I simply managed the intake hose by holding it over a bucket by the bed. The result was a very engorged and needy woman that desperately needed to expel her load...but even more needy to be orgasmed. Over the course of several hours, she would be filled, made to retain and if I was of the mind, I would take charge of her clit that was barely visible as she lay face down over the bolster. Swollen and shiny, she would moan and climax easily and it might be during the fill phase....or while she held it all in...or while I slowly bled off the water in her. The session was enjoyable for her because of the feelings that she never knew when she would be allowed to climax and she did so many times. For me, it was quite pleasant to have that kind of control and not be bothered with undoing restraints and re-tying her.

I enjoyed two plus hours of filling this sweet woman with several gallons of water and enjoying the spectacle of her contortions and noises as she alternately begged and moaned in pleasure.

She latter admitted that she lost count after ten the number of climaxes she had.

Very, very nice and erotic description and writing of your day with that lady. It sounds like you both had a memorable time. I really enjoyed reading this. I'm glad she could still walk after all that - 2-plus hours of multiple fillings and 10+ orgasms. And with the added pressure challenge of her lying on her belly. Sounds like you'd both like to have her come back for a repeat. Moaning I love and understand from her, but what was she begging for at times, to empty her and to have orgasms? How much volume were you filling her with, up to how much max? And how many total fill/release enemas do you think she had?

Thanks,

Eric

Thanks Eric

I am glad you enjoyed my description of this session. Yes...we both very much enjoyed this session, both from our somewhat opposite, but complimentary points of view.

Also a yes to your question about wanting more....this session has been repeated many times with variations to keep it new and to push her soft limits.

You ask about her moaning and "begging".....I have to smile here in recollection.....this was no accidental happenstance.....she was a "big girl" meaning she was well aware of what I had in mind for her. She was mid forties at this time and very needy for me to let her fantasies be brought to life.

Yes....she was at times filled to her capacity.....her body needing to expel....and her need for climax fighting for which would happen first.

In the interest of saving time and trying to stay on subject, a lot of what went on was omitted.

A woman's natural urge in orgasmic contraction is to push, especially it seems in her rectal muscles.....imaging her at the brink of release and as she rolls over the crest, what happens? Another burst of water flows into her belly, totally counter to what her body is expecting....what does that do to her orgasm? Or when she has crested and just begins to settle and THEN you raise the bag and release an open line into her bowels....on my!

Using her enema in this hands-free situation lets me explore her feelings and body language much more intimately. I actually look forward to a rare call of "yellow"....it gives me as her dom, a chance to slow down and lean in close to her ear and whisper...."yellow....? Do you need for me to stop?" At this pause point, several things happen...one, I can reinforce her trust in me....the reason she has these animalistic contortions is because she is unencumbered with worry over being hurt. I want her to verbalize that "No! please don't stop!" It reaffirms that she is here of her own accord....and that she is admitting that she wants this to be happening.

You ask about her fillings and capacity....I use a two quart water pitcher that I keep filled and at the ready. The bucket by her bed is a five gallon plastic bucket from home depot. I carefully monitor how much I pour into her bag....when refilling, I always detach and "burp" her feed line. The most she ever held inside for any given time was just shy of three quarts.

sometimes, when she's near capacity and her clit is swollen and really shiny, I will use her feed line to drain off a pint or two...and then just as quickly reattach and refill her with another pint or maybe a bit more....it's at this point that her guttural moans change and she expresses her begging nature....and as you said....? begging for what? climax? expulsion? to be freed fro her restraints? for the session to end? NO! None of the above....ALL of the above....Just DO something!!!

And so, the time quickly passes....perhaps four....maybe five gallons of water total.....probably not much over three quarts at any one time. Remember, she came to me already cleaned out by her own hand.

When she was done....she walked a little funny....and she had that Cheshire cat grin of a well used female that, while content and satiated, she would soon enough want more. I hope this gives you some insight into how a woman....THIS woman can have so many climaxes over and over.....She is an incredible person.

SpecialUse,

Thanks for the prompt and lengthy reply. I really enjoyed reading it, even more than the original - wish I had been a fly in the wall. More specific comments a little later.

Eric